This man in Jilin has let three women have children out of wedlock. All three women have been cheated of money and sex, and one of them has been saddled with hundreds of thousands of debts.
In fact, men's deception is not clever, but also full of loopholes, and it is puzzling that three women have given birth to children, why not get married? It's time to talk about marriage. Aren't men's excuses suspected of being investigated again and again? A woman is cheated, and it is not only herself who is hurt, but also her family who loves her.
First, men? Crime? The method is nothing new, but it has been successful many times.
Xiao Min is the third woman to be cheated. Just a week after she gave birth to her son, her boyfriend Lu went to Dali, Yunnan, and disappeared on the grounds of going out to work to earn money. Later, in her boyfriend's room, I found that her suitcase was mixed with ladies' clothes, not her own.
Boyfriend doesn't answer the phone, and WeChat doesn't return. At this time, Xiao Min, who had already borne hundreds of thousands of loan debts for her boyfriend, began to doubt. After further investigation, it was found that she was not the only woman who had a relationship with her boyfriend. Xiao Min found that at least four women were related to Lu. Among them, with her, three people gave birth to her out of wedlock, and the oldest child was eight or nine years old. The news made Xiao Min feel like a bolt from the blue.
Reported the fact of Lu's fraud crime to the local public security organ. However, the Public Security Bureau did not file a case on the grounds that the case was an economic debt dispute during their common life and did not belong to the category of fraud.
Xiao Min said that she would also sue Lu, asking him to repay the money and give child support to children under one year old. Xiao Min cried and said that if I had known that he had children, I would definitely not be with him.
I met Lu on the journey. At the end of February, 2065438+2008 65438+2008, a tourism organization to which they belong met in go to dali. Along the way, Lu's concern and consideration greatly increased his affection for him, and there were more and more common topics.
After more than a month, the two had sex and established a relationship between men and women. Lu's home is in Songyuan City, Jilin Province. A few months after the establishment of the relationship, both sides went to their hometown.
About May 20 19, Xiao Min found herself pregnant. Xiaolan hesitated about the unexpected pregnancy. After Lu knew it, she volunteered that she was born during pregnancy. Xiao Min said that she was pregnant and wanted to get married and get a license. Lumou agreed.
However, Xiao Min didn't tell her family that she was pregnant. When he urged her boyfriend to get married, her boyfriend delayed for various reasons. The reasons are clumsy, such as taking a driver's license test, changing your ID card and household registration book when it expires, or not getting married after giving birth to a child because your stomach is inconvenient.
It was not until I was eight or nine months pregnant that I learned from Lu's father that Lu had a baby. I am eight or nine years old. ?
After that, Lu apologized to Xiao Min many times and promised to treat her and her children well. Said that the woman who gave birth to a child before was not good to her father, so she left with the child. ? Later, he gave birth to a child for a week. Because Lu disappeared, he completely recognized the true face of Lu.
By this time, Xiao Min was heavily in debt. She said that during their relationship, she resigned and Lu had no income. Both of them make a living by borrowing online loans and swiping credit cards. Lumou spent more than 320,000 yuan on credit cards and borrowed 654.38+10,000 yuan in his name.
In addition, in the name of running an inn with a partner, Lu lied that it was transfer fees and the rent and defrauded his uncle of 430,000 yuan.
Second, the lawyer has something to say about whether the man is illegal.
Lawyers said that Lu's unmarried and multiple children did not constitute bigamy, and the economic debt disputes during his common life were difficult to be protected by law because they were not within the scope of marriage.
However, Lu should bear the alimony for the three illegitimate children. Illegal and criminal acts may not be established, but such cheating by men will definitely be condemned by morality.
Third, women should love themselves, and love carefully. Nowadays, love is free. Everyone has different criteria for choosing a lover. We often say that women are beautiful and talented, and we can't just rely on men's sweet words. We should know more about him, his work and economic ability, and whether he has a sense of responsibility.
In addition, the most important thing is that a woman in love must know how to respect and love herself. Only when you respect yourself can you be respected. Once a woman loses the final bottom line, she is often easily deceived. It is not only herself who is injured, but also her family who has always loved her.