Cheating and extramarital affairs are now prevalent in all walks of life. Couples who work outside the home live in separate places. Some can't help but feel lonely and betray their partner, and some even live outside the home. The days of temporary couple.

The elites of society, white-collar workers and gold-collar workers, are very knowledgeable. They may seem harmonious at home, but in fact they are doing cheating secretly. Especially nowadays, some girls, in order to satisfy their own vanity, become sugar daddies, seek wealth, and become lovers of married men. In the end, few of them can have good results.

The following Mei Niang will tell you the story of a woman who has had an extramarital affair, tell you the essential difference between a lover and a wife, stop provoking married men, and tell you which one is more important in a man’s heart, a lover or a wife? Wake up! Girls who are still in it, don't expect that you can become a regular employee. Narrator: Liu Jing (pseudonym)

My husband and I were college classmates. We lived a very happy life. We gave birth to our son the second year after we got married. Our life is fulfilling and happy. Although we are not rich, we can still be considered a well-off family.

But in the seventh year of our marriage, my husband’s company established a branch in Shenzhen, and he volunteered to open up a new world in Shenzhen.

When he came home to discuss it with me, he had already agreed to the decision first. I was very angry. I told him that our current life is not short of money. How much money is enough is too much. Isn’t it good now? Yes, why did you leave us to go to Shenzhen?

My husband has his own reasons. He said that many classmates are better off than us. Besides, if his son goes to study abroad in the future, where will he make money? He wants to try it out now that he has the opportunity. Now that it has become a fact, I just complained and let him go to Shenzhen.

When he arrived in Shenzhen, since it was a newly established branch and he was the person in charge there, he needed to make decisions on many things, so he agreed at the beginning to come back every two weeks. We ended up falling apart once. One time it was my birthday. He originally promised that he would come back to celebrate my birthday, but when the time came, he let me go.

Slowly, I have lost trust in him, and my concern for him has become less and less. I mostly used the phone when we were arguing, but in the end I didn’t even bother to call. If it weren’t for my son, I wouldn’t even want to answer his call.

It was at this time that I met him, let’s call him G, a married man, but in the same situation as mine, G and his wife lived in two places.

G learned about my current situation, so he showed great courtesy to me and made an appointment to have dinner. I didn’t go. The sentence still makes sense, and I rationally refused at the beginning.

When he saw that he couldn’t invite me to dinner, he started sending flowers. To be honest, my husband and I have been married for so many years, but he has never sent flowers to my work. When I received the flowers from him, I felt anxious and worried about being suspected by others, but I was also a little happy.

Slowly I began to accept his invitation. Sometimes on weekends, G would take my son and me out for outings, just like a family of three.

I feel the long-lost love.

In this way, I became G’s lover. I have been his lover for more than two years, and I have plans to divorce my husband and marry him.

When I told him my idea, he unexpectedly said to me, wouldn’t it be good for us to do this?

When I heard this, I felt a chill in my heart. Did he not want to be with me?

He saw something strange about me and immediately hugged me and told me, don’t be angry, baby, look, it’s fine as it is now. If we get back together after our divorce, It must be as good as it is now?

I got even angrier after hearing this. Everything he said was right, but the more correct the truth, the more hurtful it was to me. At first, I really thought this was just about each getting what he needs. But later, I felt more and more what a sincere love this was!

After all, he gave me the passion and happiness that my husband could not give me.

However, obviously I was wrong, which is really tragic.

I had already understood the facts at that time: as the saying goes, passionate people are always disturbed by ruthless people, and he obviously didn’t love me that much.

Later, I found out that his wife’s family ran a company, and my father-in-law had a greater background.

This connection is even clearer.

He will definitely not divorce me. It’s ridiculous to think that I was still quarreling with my husband at that time and firmly believed that he would marry me.

Since that contact, we each had our own little thoughts, so we contacted him less. Only once, I happened to pay off my credit card and my salary hadn’t arrived yet, so I asked him if he had any money. Please help me with the money first.

I thought he would agree wholeheartedly, just over 2,500, but he hesitated for a while before sending a message saying that he was also moonlighting this month. I don’t know why, but I felt a little sick.

Does this man think I will defraud him of money?

We have been together for so long. He pays for the house and I pay for the food. It doesn’t matter. I have never argued with him. Now he refuses to help with the repayment. He is too stingy. Come on!

Maybe I am still too naive and naive. After an extramarital affair, I did not lose either the person or the money, and I still have scars all over my body.

I use Mei Niang’s narration to tell my story to the girls: a lover is just a lover, a wife is a wife after all, and men can always tell the difference clearly!

If you can have an upright wife, don't be a cowardly lover. That's what stupid women do.