Acceptable.

My girlfriend had an abortion because of this incident. I was still sad for a while. I am a chef. I just wanted to be a chef at home and commute to get off work every day, but my girlfriend didn’t want to.

A girl’s family has almost traveled all over China. I am disgusted with her running around. We also had many fights because she loved to run around, and when she got pregnant, she ran out of town and suddenly told me that she was pregnant. Okay, I admit it. Then give birth, but I just don’t want to give birth. Then I paid for all the abortion expenses and living expenses. I didn't have much money at that time, and my salary was only 1,800. I didn’t save any money, so I applied for a credit card to use it.

I think she is too playful, too cruel, and too wild. I can’t hold her, so let me go. We broke up after the abortion. During this period, she also asked me to get back together, but I didn't agree. Because I don’t want to wait at home for her to calm down and go home, because I am very tired.

At that time, I always owed money on my credit card and didn’t tell her. I was alone and couldn’t even afford to take the bus for a three-kilometer trip. I paid it back bit by bit. Alas, but I don’t regret it. I always feel that a girl who has an abortion without a legitimate reason cannot be taken home as a wife.

The times are developing and progressing, and equality between men and women is the mainstream. There are two attitudes that I am disgusted with: The first one: as long as a girl has had an abortion, she must have no self-respect and no self-love. The second type: The man himself hangs out among the flowers, but demands that the girl remain as pure as a jade.

Of course, before marriage, for the first type, men should examine the reasons why the girl had an abortion and treat them separately. For example, it is accidental, such as being cheated, such as being young and ignorant, etc. Now I understand, etc. After asking these reasons clearly, then observe what kind of person the girl is, consider whether you want children, and finally decide whether to have a child. At the same time, this is rational enough and sincere enough.

For the second type, men themselves do not advocate living together before marriage, and their thoughts on love are very simple, which is good. You can naturally ask the girl to be the same as you, which is equal. If you still don’t ask, then It is sublime, it is true love.

In short, abortion is a woman’s past experience. Everyone has a past, and there is dirt, but what is important is what this person will do in the future, because after all, you are living the future with her, and those who are entangled in the past are For men, most of them have too much feudal consciousness or the straight male cancer mentality of double standards.