First of all, let me introduce my life experience. My parents divorced when I was young, and I was sentenced to be given to my mother. My biological father never paid a penny in child support and never came to visit me once.
Both my parents have remarried, and I have two half-brothers and half-brothers.
When I was a child, I kept changing places and schools. As a result, I didn’t have many friends around me, and my family gave me very little money. When I was a child, I was particularly fond of the same talent, and I was also particularly talented in this kind of talent. Advantages. When I was in elementary school, I told my mother that I wanted to enroll in this kind of interest class. My mother said it was impossible without money. However, my younger brother went to the best school and enrolled in the best interest class. The reason was that I My stepfather refused to let my mother work and asked her to take care of my younger brother. My stepfather gave me some money, but my mother refused to give me some money to enroll in hobby classes.
I went to a poor primary school, and the kids in the school didn’t study. They took me out to fool around every day, and my mother didn’t take care of me at all, and she never gave me any pocket money. , and then I followed my friends to do some petty theft.
When I entered junior high school, due to family reasons, I changed places and schools. It was still the worst middle school. I made very bad friends and went out to fool around every day. Later, when I was about to graduate, I was banned because of my personality. There was violence on campus, which is probably a pain that will never be healed in this life. I still clearly remember those girls blocking me at the school gate, surrounding me in an alley and slapping me, each of them slapping me 50 times. , and when the third person was slapped, if the brave uncle hadn't discovered and stopped him, I guess I would have been slapped in the back, and one of them would have been killed if he resisted. No one who passed by before tried to stop them. I hope that if you read this article, you will definitely stop it if you encounter this kind of thing! I still remember going to the hospital to check for a perforated eardrum. The slap marks on my face were clearly visible and my face was bruised and swollen for a long time.
I was violently raped on campus purely because they thought I was coquettish and had a coquettish tone (the coquettish tone and coquettish tone were entirely because my mother is from Fujian and I contracted this tone from being around her. People here in the new place don’t talk like this) I swear to God, I have never been bullied or violent against any of them before.
During junior high school, I went back to the place where I studied when I was a child to play with my old friends. I have two friends. One of them developed early and studied abroad for two years. She started to engage in compensated dating in the sixth grade of elementary school. I didn't go to junior high school and went to work in other places. When I went to vocational school, I found out that she was married. The other one, I came back to play with her during the holidays from junior high school. I found that she was being kept by someone while she was studying, and she took me to have sex with that man. Had a meal.
After that, my academic performance was not good and I was not admitted to high school. My mother was also involved in this. I won’t disclose it here. I went to a vocational school and my mother gave me 200 yuan for living expenses every month. Then I met an uncle on a platform. He deceived me with sweet words, saying that asking a master to settle the matter would help his business success by finding a virgin before doing business. Afterwards, he paid 3k The first time he bought me, he also lied to me and said he would give me 100,000 yuan after the deal was concluded, so my first time was nothing. The second time he bought me, he told me that he would take me to Beijing to study at university, and that I could go to art for a little money. Yes, I just wanted to get a new phone at that time. Afterwards, I asked him for it and he only gave me 2k. The money was not enough. Later I shared this matter with my friend and she said that I was cheated. I thought about it. I left that uncle. The other uncle was twice as old as me at the time. I thought of doing this because my family didn’t give me enough living expenses.
The mobile phones I used were leftovers from family members. Watching I feel envious of the new mobile phones used by my classmates. They play games normally, but I often crash and reconnect when playing games.
After that, my family forced me to go on a work-study program. I applied for a credit card (the bank sold it to the store when I was on the work-study program). The initial credit limit was 5k. I bought the latest mobile phone and paid it back in installments of more than 3k. After that, I had some mental problems. I swiped my credit card every day and looked for people to have sex with.
In the end, my credit card was maxed out, and I didn’t dare to tell my family, so I took out an online loan by repaying the loan. In the end, I owed more than 20,000 yuan, and my family didn’t know what I was. I owed so much money, and my mother found me burning charcoal and preparing to commit suicide, so she helped me pay it off.
If I had died, there wouldn’t have been so many things.
I was also deceived by men later when I was studying. The first one was a rich second-generation man. I was also greedy for vanity. He gave me a watch worth 7.8 hundred yuan, so I went to bed with him and paid it back. I thought I could get more, but I didn't expect that he blocked me after sleeping with me twice.
The second one was when he had a family and came to me to fall in love. Finally, my wife called me and the child was crying in the background. She asked me if I knew that xxx was married and had children. I didn’t know until then. It turns out that he is already married, and he lied to me that he was single.
After graduation, I was coaxed to move to another place. After that, they ignored me when we quarreled. I signed the rental contract and I used my credit card to rent the house. In the end, the person who tricked me also gave me I was kicked out and I was unfamiliar with the place. I was in that big city and had no one to rely on. I didn’t want my family to know that I had used a credit card again. My mother only gave me 2k when I went out. I couldn’t afford to rent a house. I found another platform and started my days of selling myself to make quick money. I also got pregnant once, by a man who had been keeping me for a long time, but I finally got aborted.
Currently, life is on the other side. I have found a job that can only support myself, and I can only pay the minimum on my credit card every month.
My younger brothers and sisters all went to the best schools and received the best education. My sister had poor grades but got a second degree as a high school art student. My mother compared me to her. Bi, saying that I don’t study and I don’t work hard.
I think that if my mother cared a little bit about me, I would not be reduced to this situation. If you gave me more pocket money when I was a kid, I wouldn't be cheated out of it.
So at the end of the article, I must say that parents who are preparing for divorce or remarriage must consider their children’s feelings and plan their future.