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I saw a hot post yesterday about a man and a woman on a blind date. The boy works in a bank in the United States and earns an annual salary of 100,000 US dollars. Because he was not good-looking, he wanted to find a beautiful girl to be his wife, so he had no requirements for the woman's family background, job, or income.

This girl is a beautiful woman with an average family background. She works in China and earns a monthly salary of six to seven thousand yuan.

The introducer is the boy’s childhood friend and the girl’s colleague.

When a boy meets a girl for the first time, he should treat the girl to dinner and let the girl choose a place she likes without having to save money for him.

The girl was really rude. She chose a Cantonese restaurant and ordered a table of dishes for nearly 5,000 yuan. When the boy saw what she ordered, he left after a brief chat without paying the bill. When I got back, I directly blocked the girl on WeChat.

The girl asked the introducer to ask the boy for food money, but the boy refused to pay, saying that I didn’t eat, why should I pay?

Later, the boy still gave her 2,000 yuan, saying that he originally planned to spend 2,000 yuan to treat her to dinner, but he didn't expect her to be so cruel and she was obviously playing a trick on him.

The girl refused to give up, saying that she paid for the meal with a credit card, and she also had to pay rent and eat. She couldn't afford it, so she had to sell the leftovers she packed back to the introducer.

The introducer is particularly embarrassed in the middle.

Most of the comments from netizens are scolding this girl. When people ask you to be casual, you are just being polite. Can't you hear it? Treat yourself like a little prince. If someone has money, you can rip off people like this. ? What about tutors?

Some netizens also think that the man also has a problem. If you don't have the financial strength, why would you still act like you have a lot of money and let people do whatever you want? If you do, then you run away again. How can it be embarrassing for someone to introduce you to someone else?

Many problems can also be seen through this meal during a blind date. Character can be seen at the dinner table.

The environment and class of place the other party chooses to meet you can also send a message - whether he values ??you.

Whether you like the place he chose and whether it meets your expectations can tell whether your consumption views are consistent.

Whether the man takes the woman's preferences into consideration when ordering food can show whether he is a considerate person.

Whether the woman chooses expensive dishes when ordering, can still take care of the man's financial situation, and whether she helps him save money can also evaluate her character and accomplishments.

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In the past, blind dates for our parents’ generation usually involved going to the introducer’s home, or simply meeting at the door of the work unit, chatting for a few words, and developing a good impression of each other. Just get in touch and see if it doesn't work, then stop contacting me. It doesn’t cost a penny to go on a blind date.

Nowadays, blind dates pay attention to the mood. They basically choose to meet in restaurants, coffee shops, and teahouses. No matter whether it is successful or not, they have to eat and drink first.

I have a male classmate who basically goes on blind dates several times a month. It’s a bit of a coincidence that he hasn’t met a good man in so many years.

Sometimes I don’t feel anything at all after seeing the photos. In order to show respect to the introducer, I have to go out and meet them, and the meeting is just for dinner. Although I know in my heart that there is no chance of getting along with the other party, I still can’t be too shabby when choosing a hotel.

There must be one or two hundred blind dates who have met and had dinner with each other over the years, and every time they meet, he pays the bill without exception. He said that if you add all the money together, you can buy a car.

Another blind date was arranged a few days ago. Before the meeting, the introducer asked the two to add each other on WeChat and chat first.

After briefly introducing yourself, send each other photos. Because they are all very old young people, after so many years of searching, their hearts are very numb, and they don’t have high requirements for appearance or even feeling.

The girl was fair and chubby. Being fat ruined everything. Her facial features were crowded together by the excess flesh, blurring her appearance. Anyway, my feeling is that all fat people look the same.

Such external conditions obviously did not bring excitement to my classmates. But he still met with the other party with the hope that he might have a suitable personality.

He found a restaurant where the average cost per person was seventy or eighty yuan. The girl stood at the door hesitantly not wanting to go in. Anyway, I just want to say that the place you are looking for is not worthy of me at all.

I had no choice but to change places because they didn’t like it, and then went to a very romantic Western restaurant. The girl finally showed a smile.

Of course my classmates paid for the meal, which cost more than 500.

That night, the girl left him a message on WeChat, saying that she felt they were not suitable for each other.

From a girl's point of view, the reason why she felt he was inappropriate was not because she felt inappropriate after eating. The judgment was basically made from the moment they met.

Then why should we choose the grade of the hotel?

After saying that two people are not suitable for each other, if they are well-educated girls, they will at least ask for an AA meal plan, otherwise they will inevitably be suspected of eating and drinking.

Two people on a blind date are equal. He just wants to get to know each other when meeting you, and it does not mean that he is chasing you. If two people have a good impression of each other and there will be further development, then it doesn't matter who pays the bill. If you feel it's not suitable after meeting each other, it's best to stick to the AA system.

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In the blind date market, it is generally assumed that the man pays for the first meeting, which is related to traditional concepts. However, this is also a matter of convention and there is no legal regulation.

Some boys are reluctant to add meat to their ramen. A meal with a blind date costs two to three hundred.

Some girls treat blind dates as Chinese New Year and go straight to places where the per capita income is RMB 500. Blind dates have become a high cost. You can handle it once or twice, but if things go on like this, you won’t be able to bear the truth.

Before two people on a blind date meet, they should have a basic understanding. This can be through the dictation of the introducer or through some social software. They should have a preliminary impression of each other and feel that they are about to meet again.

When you meet for the first time, you can find a place where the cost is not too expensive to have a drink. On the one hand, you can avoid the embarrassment of "dry" chatting; on the other hand, if you feel it is inappropriate, chat for ten or twenty minutes. You can find an excuse to run away. If both of you feel good about each other, it's not too late to suggest going out for dinner.

Girls don’t have to put too much emphasis on the AA system, as it will appear too raw and ruin the beautiful atmosphere of the blind date. After a man invites a guest, if the woman is interested in the man, she can use the excuse of returning the invitation to continue dating. This will give her the opportunity to have further interactions and make her appear polite and courteous.

Therefore, men on a blind date should not expect the woman to take the initiative to propose an AA system, because it probably means that the woman is not interested in you. If you really don't like you, you can accept the other party's AA system calmly. It is polite not to put unnecessary moral pressure on the other party.

I hope that everyone can meet their good match as soon as possible and win the heart of the same person, so as to avoid old blind dates.