1. The pressure of survival is increasing. To put it bluntly, I have no money. I get up at 6:30 in the morning and go out at 7 o'clock. I rush to work and buy a steamed bun and a cup of soy milk on the way. I finish it in a hurry and chew it. A piece of chewing gum to keep your breath fresh, choose a way to die between being stuck in a bus traffic jam or being squeezed to death on the subway. When you go to work, work carefully and meticulously, not daring to be sloppy. Be proactive and pragmatic in front of your boss, be friendly in front of colleagues, and be friendly in front of customers. I forced myself to smile, for fear of offending someone if I said something wrong. After working overtime and having my wages deducted, I dragged my exhausted body back to my apartment and fell down on the sofa. I woke up in the middle of the night and didn't even have the energy to wash up.

Then I slept until the next morning. As soon as I opened my eyes, I repeated yesterday's actions and finally made it until 20 to get my salary, deducting five insurances and one housing fund, rent, electricity bills and Huabei, credit card ( Some boys also have to subsidize their families), and they have very little at their disposal. The remaining money is just enough to treat the girls to drinks. The best living situation in today's society is undoubtedly to have money and time. But the reality is that in this stressful and fast-paced era, most young people are likely to be short of not only time, but also money.

Almost all of my working time and worthless soul is just to exchange for a few taels of silver. And if you think falling in love is a small expense, he may be more expensive than your monthly mortgage payment. It’s still a lot, a few hundred yuan for a casual meal, a hundred yuan for a movie, these are just ordinary expenses, not to mention that girls occasionally want to be romantic, occasionally want to compare with their best friends, and then give them a gift during the holidays. .

Hey, think about the taste of love. It is the taste of money. In addition, you have to spend a lot of time and energy, and you may not be able to catch it in the end. Many boys It's not worth it for people, so make a wise choice not to bother with it and just go to sleep.

2. Girls’ demands are becoming more and more demanding. There are many festivals in a year, (National Day, Mid-Autumn Festival, Valentine’s Day, Children’s Day, and even Arbor Day, and they have to buy flowers. What boy can bear to buy gifts? In addition to these, they require a car, a house, a deposit, and good looks. Some older leftover women ask for a deposit of several million, a house of several hundred square meters, and a car worth hundreds of thousands. , it cannot be a loan...

Look at this society, how many people have deposits of more than 500,000 yuan? In the whole of China, only 0.4% of people have deposits of more than 500,000 yuan. Ah, how small the chance is. Look at yourself. Even if someone has a deposit of several million and a house of several hundred square meters, what qualities do you have that make others think highly of you? So be realistic

Third, is the fear of being used as a backup. In fact, both men and women are afraid of being a backup, especially in today's more open era, where the probability of meeting a female Neptune is much greater than before? There is no bottom line when it comes to ethics. There is no best, only more awesome. Just say whether you are afraid of it or not. In case, you are unlucky and the one you provoke is the female Neptune. You are just one of his bad spare parts. , then where are you going to redress your grievances? So, forget it, don’t stir up trouble, you can’t afford to be hurt. Being single can save your life. True love is never something you chase.

So, I hereby advise you to lose yourself in the process of pursuing love