Twenty percent of today’s young people are in debt, which seems quite pitiful, but in fact some people really don’t deserve to be pitied. In fact, I think it’s better to squeeze them dry. It must be vanity.
Some young people especially like to compare. They must have what they see others have. They never consider their own conditions. Even if they borrow money to buy something, they still have to compare with others. You know Vanity becomes a black hole, draining your wealth and character. In fact, the essence of vanity is the lack of "self-sense". To explain it simply and straightforwardly, it is because of their own narcissism. Many people do it for the so-called face, the praise of others, and the applause of outsiders. They start spending money as they please, spending all their money, and even borrowing money to satisfy their own desires. This kind of person particularly cares about the opinions of others and affirms himself through the evaluation of others. This kind of person It's really annoying and pathetic.
Some people earn more than 3,000 yuan a month, which can be enough to cover their living expenses. However, some people insist on buying an iPhone worth more than 10,000 yuan. Not to mention that they have enough money to spend. You have to borrow money from others.
This kind of person is actually very vain, and it is more than just a mobile phone. At a dinner party, holding an Android phone in his hand, he would feel dull and shameful, and he would care about other people's eyes and opinions. But holding an apple in his hand, he would feel that his face was brighter, and he seemed to be able to drink alcohol. Bigger. In fact, it's vanity. Maybe people don't care about this at all. It's just that this kind of person thinks that this kind of self is what others like. However, this kind of person is actually the most hated by others.
In fact, I think that a person’s life should be determined by his own salary. Stop letting yourself live a life of borrowing money for the sake of face and vanity. This will only make others more and more miserable. Look down on it.