Recently, Ms. Huang, a leukemia patient, posted an article online, saying that after completing her third bone marrow transplant, she finally no longer had hope in her husband and decided to divorce. However, the court has not yet completed the divorce process. Da, it has been nearly 3 months since the divorce proceedings were filed. She suspects that her husband is deliberately avoiding it in an attempt to delay her from monopolizing all the marital property until the end of her life. According to Ms. Huang, after she underwent three bone marrow transplants, her husband She had been forced to sign a real estate mortgage agreement, a will, etc. Therefore, she clearly stated in the divorce complaint that the relationship between the couple had completely broken down. She hoped to complete the divorce procedures as soon as possible and gain more time to spend with her mother and daughter. On May 28, the reporter got in touch with Ms. Huang’s husband, Mr. Wang. Mr. Wang said that many of the situations Ms. Huang told were not true, and he did not avoid the lawsuit. The court called him a few days ago and he has already A new address for service was provided to the court and he would appear in court to answer the complaint. Love at first sight or attachment in a hurry

Ms. Huang is from Sichuan. After graduating from graduate school, she went to Beijing to work in an architectural design company affiliated with the Chinese Academy of Sciences. In September 2009, 26-year-old Ms. Huang was introduced to Mr. Wang, who was 7 years older than her. At that time, Mr. Wang had just started his business and was very motivated with his team. Ms. Huang said that the first thing Mr. Wang left for her was The impression is mature and positive. In contrast, Ms. Huang was at a low point in her life at the time. Her father had just passed away, and her ex-boyfriend’s family did not agree with their marriage because of her father’s death. She was constantly hit by the shock and wanted to find someone she could rely on. Mr. Wang happened to appear at this time.

Less than half a year after they met, the two registered their marriage on February 1, 2010. After the marriage, Mr. Wang paid for a wedding house in Chaoyang District, Beijing. The name of the house was written by Ms. Huang alone. In the name of his wife, he will repay the loan together after marriage. In 2011, their daughter was born.

Ms. Huang told reporters that Mr. Wang’s career has been going well, but their life could not go on peacefully. After marriage, she found that Mr. Wang was not peaceful. When the child was almost 2 years old, At that time, she suspected that Mr. Wang had a regular lover. "He often didn't go home during that time. His mobile phone location showed that he was often in the same place. In 2014, he lost 10 million in gambling in Macau. He called me and said he was afraid to come back. He was also the one who went to Macau that time. This lover later said that he had a classmate who was willing to give him a mortgage loan of 3 million to repay his debt. I found that the address of the mortgaged property was the same as the address located on my mobile phone, so I determined that this classmate was his regular lover. He traveled around a lot, and sometimes he would buy breakfast downstairs at his lover's house in the morning. He broke up with this lover in 2015. The woman told me that they had been together for two years, and my husband told her that he had. He planned to divorce me and marry her, but later she found out that he had no intention of divorce, so she chose to separate," Ms. Huang said.

After getting married, Ms. Huang also discovered a secret, "One day his mobile phone was charging in the living room, and someone called him frantically. When I picked up the phone, I found out that it was his ex-wife. He had had an affair. A marriage, and a teenage son. He didn't tell me about this before marriage. When I was pregnant, he even issued a certificate of no childbearing from the first marriage. He often lied to me, including his age, which was not true at the beginning. She filed for divorce around 2014, but he didn’t agree.” Diagnosis of leukemia and three transplants brought chilling memories

Ms. Huang told reporters that her husband didn’t like her interfering with the company’s operations, but based on her observations. , the company’s operating conditions are going downhill. “The 10 million he lost gambling in Macau had a great impact on the company. He borrowed a lot of loan sharks for this. In 2015, he and his lover lost 10 million in stock trading. In 2016, He lost 1 million when he opened a restaurant in partnership with others, and another 10 million when he opened an Internet celebrity company in 2017. But these are just what he said, and I haven’t studied them in detail, but it is true that his company has moved farther and farther away. The Third Ring Road was moved to the Fourth Ring Road, and finally to Daxing Yizhuang, and many employees also left.

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Regarding her daughter, Ms. Huang feels that her husband does not care enough. "It is basically widowed parenting. He does not remember the child's birthday and cannot pick up the child several times a year. Sometimes he asks employees to pick up the child, and even I also found someone to pick up the child from Xianyu. I communicated with his ex-wife, and his ex-wife said that he did the same to his son. In those two years, his main responsibility for the family was money, and he still paid off my credit card account. ”

In December 2016, Ms. Huang was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia, and the long treatment began.

In 3 years, she underwent three bone marrow transplant surgeries. After 6 rounds of whole body radiotherapy, 9 rounds of chemotherapy, 2 liver punctures, and 2 chest punctures, after the first transplant, she also had to undergo bone punctures and lumbar punctures every month for 3 years. Ms. Huang has not been comfortable even a day. After the third transplant, she weighed only 36 kilograms at a height of 1.63 meters. She had vomiting and diarrhea almost every day, and the surface of her tongue was ulcerated as if it had been scalded with boiling water. She originally had fair skin, a beautiful face, and a well-proportioned figure, but the disease Her skin became dark yellow, her face was covered with spots, and her hair became much whiter. The hormones gave her a full moon face and a buffalo back, making her completely different from before.

Ms. Huang said that her face was completely different. Her husband has never seen her like she is now, “If he had, he wouldn’t care. "In her memory, what was more painful to her than the disease was her husband's ruthlessness after she fell ill. "When I had my first transplant, he moved out on the first day of hospitalization, and every time after that, he moved away. Showed up around the time of my transplant and forced me to sign various paperwork when I was at my most vulnerable. ”

According to Ms. Huang’s recollection, in June 2017, she had her first transplant surgery. After the operation, she had to take various hormones and drugs, and she also had to have bone punctures and lumbar punctures every month, and weekly After a blood test, she was extremely weak. However, after the operation, Mr. Wang took a real estate mortgage agreement and asked her to sign, "He wants to mortgage our wedding house, so he has to discuss it with me first. If I don't agree, he gets very irritable and even brings I led several strong men to my rental house next to the hospital, and finally I signed. ”

In March 2019, Ms. Huang had her second transplant surgery. Before the operation, Mr. Wang asked Ms. Huang to go through a real estate sales entrustment with him first, and entrust Mr. Wang with full rights to the previously mortgaged wedding house. After the sale, Ms. Huang refused to go. Soon after, Mr. Wang appeared in the ward with a will. "He asked me to consider my children and asked me to sign the will. The content of the will was that after I left, all the property would be owned by me." He inherited it, but I still didn't sign it. He got very angry and left with the child. "The day before the operation, Mr. Wang appeared again. This time he brought a house sales agreement, but Ms. Huang still did not sign. So in the laminar flow ward, Ms. Huang continued to receive WeChat messages from Mr. Wang, "He He kept scolding me and said that if I didn't sign, the house would be auctioned by a judicial auction and could only be sold for one or two million, and both of us would be executed for breach of trust or something. "

After the second transplant was completed, Mr. Wang proposed to do the notarization for the second time. "On the day I left the cabin, he asked to do the notarization with him. Later I thought, if One day I left, and my daughter still needed him to raise him. In the end, I signed and sold the house for 11 million yuan. 9.5 million yuan was directly transferred to pay off his debt, and the remaining money was transferred to him. After entering my account, I gave him an additional 500,000 yuan for company operations, hoping to maintain a basic relationship with him as a couple. ”

On December 1, 2019, Mr. Wang borrowed 200,000 yuan from Ms. Huang and promised to repay it in 2 weeks. Ms. Huang immediately transferred the money to him. Four days later, Ms. Huang made a third After the transplant operation, she called Mr. Wang to demand a repayment of 200,000 yuan, but found that the phone call could not be reached. “I cried at the hospital door for an hour. This incident made me completely decide to give up this marriage. "Ms. Huang said, "When I was first diagnosed, he consulted an expert. The expert's opinion was that this disease cannot be cured and it will cost a lot of money. After listening to the expert's opinion, he told my mother, 'I have this disease. The result is destined, it's up to you to accompany her through the process.' Probably from then on, he no longer cared about my life or death. ”

In January 2020, Ms. Huang was discharged from the hospital, and in February she filed for divorce proceedings in the court.

The man responded: A lot of what she said was untrue

On May 28, the reporter called Mr. Wang’s phone number. Mr. Wang admitted that he had been having an affair with someone else during marriage and was discovered by his wife. He also admitted that he had indeed had an affair. He went to Macau with his clients to gamble and lost a lot of money, which affected the development of the company. However, he said that he was not the irresponsible, cold-blooded husband his wife described him as. During the treatment process of his wife, he had always fully supported his wife and paid the high medical expenses. , he said that many things his wife told were not true, and some misunderstandings about him were caused by suspicion.

Mr. Wang told reporters that he fell in love with Ms. Huang at first sight. The two had a certain emotional foundation, so they soon got married and had children. After marriage, they had a sweet life, but there were also areas of friction. Mr. Wang The initial dissatisfaction with his wife was that she was too spendy. "She is covered in famous brands and spends money very aggressively."

Mr. Wang believes that the relationship problems between him and his wife started in 2012 Year, "That year, my eldest brother was using money in his hometown. I gave him 900,000 yuan without telling her. When she found out, she was very angry. She forced me to sign a will and asked me to transfer the company's shares to her. I was only over 30 at the time. She was 2 years old and was disgusted with signing a will, and I would not transfer the company's equity to her. After the quarrel, I stayed in a hotel for 7 days, and then we reconciled."

Mr. Wang said that after his wife. Before he became ill, he also thought about divorce, but because he had children, he never wanted to take this step.

In 2016, his wife was diagnosed with leukemia, which changed everything in the family. Mr. Wang told reporters that he had done a lot to treat his wife. “During her treatment, I helped her everywhere. She needed to have a platelet transfusion when she was first admitted to the hospital. Ordinary patients would have to wait for platelet transfusions, but she always had platelet transfusions at any time. She said that I did not accompany her when she was hospitalized, and our family hired two aunts and a driver. Her mother and second aunt are also accompanying her in the hospital, and my sister-in-law has taken care of her for several months. What can I do if there are so many people in the hospital? Not to mention that I have a business outside. Her treatment costs money. Our company People here also have to earn money to support their families. How could I not go out to earn money? It hasn’t been paid off yet, and she secretly saved 600,000 yuan without telling me, but because she was sick, I didn’t say anything.”

As for why he stayed with Ms. Huang several times before and after her surgery. He asked her to sign various mortgage and house purchase and sale documents, and even took out a will for his seriously ill wife to sign. Mr. Wang explained that he wanted to mortgage the property because his company had financial problems, and he was just trying to keep the property as much as possible. If the house is not enough, we can borrow more money. "I didn't ask her to sign the will, it was required by the guarantee company. After the mortgage of our wedding house expires, we must first pay back the bank money and then take out a second mortgage." When checking the bank statements, I truthfully stated that some expenses were for my wife's medical treatment. Because the property is in my wife's name, if she dies, the notarization will be invalid, so the guarantee company requires my wife to sign a will to ensure that after her death The inheritance will be inherited by me. The people from the guarantee company directly talked to her about these issues, so she should be clear about it."

Mr. Wang also responded to other issues raised by Ms. Huang, “After the driver left his job, there was no one to pick up the kids, and my driver’s license was revoked, so I found someone on Xianyu. I checked her Sesame Credit and it was very good, so I met with this person a week in advance. The other party is a young girl in her twenties, and the negotiated price is 1,400 yuan for two trips, but she (referring to Ms. Huang) still disagrees. I have never concealed my marriage history. She has long known that I am divorced and have children. Anyone around her can tell her this. I borrowed the 200,000 yuan, and I didn’t pay it back intentionally. I really couldn’t redeem it.”

Mr. Wang said that his wife was the third person. Before his first transplant operation, he had two conversations with his attending doctor. The doctor’s opinion was that he should not do another transplant because the cost was high, the quality of life was poor, and there was little hope. But his wife wanted to have a transplant, and he did not stop him. “Treat her,” she said. I have always been supportive of the disease. There are very few people in the country who have had three bone marrow transplants. I always think that she is the mother of my child after all.

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Regarding Mr. Wang’s statement, Ms. Huang showed the reporter two crowdfunding links, one for her second and third transplant surgery, with the crowdfunding amount of more than 80 yuan respectively. With more than 300,000 yuan, Ms. Huang told reporters that since January 2019, her husband has stopped giving her money, and she has relied on crowdfunding for her next two transplants. The woman has been waiting for the court hearing for three months, the man said. Won't escape

On March 1 this year, Ms. Huang's divorce lawsuit was filed by the People's Court of Shuangqiao District, Chengde City, where Mr. Wang is from. The lawsuit's requests include a request for a divorce decree between the original and defendant, and the plaintiff to obtain custody of her daughter. The defendant has the right to pay 8,000 yuan per month for living expenses until the child graduates from college, divide the property owned by the plaintiff and defendant, with a temporary valuation of 500,000 yuan, and the defendant pays the plaintiff 100,000 yuan in moral comfort.

The case was filed. Nearly three months have passed, but Ms. Huang has yet to come to court. “The judge said that the summons could not be served, EMS was refused, and it could not be delivered manually during the epidemic, so he asked me to wait. In fact, I am confused as to why it cannot be delivered, because I not only provided the defendant’s mobile phone number, but also the phone numbers of his relatives, the address of the company, and the phone numbers of the company’s employees. We also requested the service of public notice many times, but the court did not agree. "Ms. Huang said, "I suspect that he is deliberately avoiding and delaying to see if there will be any changes in my condition. ”

On May 28, Mr. Wang told reporters that Ms. Huang provided the court with the address of his hometown, but she was in Beijing, so the service failed. The court had contacted her a few days ago. He has also provided a new delivery address. "If I really wanted her to die soon, I would not support her transplant operation, nor would I evade the lawsuit. I will appear in court to respond. "Mr. Wang said.

(Jinyun News reporter Gu Mingjun's picture is provided by the interviewee)