Beijing Women's Picture Book is a perfect ending.
At the end of the story, as a new media entrepreneur, he used his contacts accumulated in Beijing for ten years to build his own team and have a successful career. Seeing that she finally found a happy home also made me more gratified.
After so many failures and trial and error, and reading all kinds of love rat, such hard-won happiness also warms people's hearts, and makes us firmly believe that no matter how long we wait, the right person will come.
Although the whole drama has only 2 episodes, Chen Ke's experience in the workplace and love is a classic textbook for women's growth. Many netizens criticize the three views of the drama. Whether they agree with it or not, people who finish watching it will reflect on themselves and examine themselves. Whether they have the shadow of Chen Ke and make mistakes like her.
After reading Beijing Women's Picture Book, I also confirmed my eyes. We are all working women in the same boat.
I feel sorry for Chen Ke, but I also think of myself outside the play.
1 Live up to your dreams, Do not forget your initiative mind
In 28, inexperienced Chen Keyi came to Beijing with full expectation and yearning written on his immature face. Like the students who graduated from the university in the same period, everyone made their own choices.
In order to change the class solidification, some people rush into the big cities of Beishangguang with expectation to make a desperate effort. Stick to big cities, stick to dreams and look up at the stars.
Some people are willing to live in a small town for the sake of their parents' stability when they are confused. They live in different living conditions, but they can get different happiness by being kind to life.
Chen Ke, who is full of expectations for the future and unwilling to live a "similar" life, chose a big city.
So, she bid farewell to her first boyfriend and went to Beijing by train alone for more than 4 hours.
2 who is in his twenties has not suffered all the hardships of life
In 28, a simple Chen Kegang went to Beijing to take refuge in his old classmate Wang Tao, and being alone in one room is bound to have an accident. Forced to move away from his old classmate Wang Tao's house, Chen Ke, who was desperate and had no money, had to find a girl Wang Jiajia who was not too familiar before. Wang Jiajia helped Chen Ke with a box and walked under a dim street lamp in Beijing. After all kinds of setbacks, Chen Ke followed Jia Jia. The battle righteousness between two girls and appreciate each other.
Wang Jiajia wandered alone in Beijing, although he didn't have a good time. Living in the basement of a high-end residential area, only a small area has a cell phone signal, and the room is a mess, but Chen Ke is still willing to share a bed with her without sleeping on the sofa.
in my second year of graduate school, I dragged my suitcase alone and went abroad with my classmates to teach Chinese as a foreign language. I was sent to a very remote university branch, although I didn't experience the difficulty of sleeping in the basement and sleeping on the street in a big city like Beijing. However, wandering abroad, often traveling to work in different cities, will also feel a sense of loneliness. Every night, I will run to the corner with the strongest signal and make international calls to my family. In the dead of night, I will still hold the big pillow beside me and cry.
At that time, the only people who could hold a group to keep warm were my colleagues who worked overseas with me. We worked together and rushed on the road for the promotion and spread of Chinese. The friendship forged at this stage is particularly solid. After all, we are good sisters who share joys and sorrows.
Now, my sisters who accompanied me abroad in those years, some of whom are married and have children, some of whom are still single, have not hindered our determination to continue fighting for the life we want.
In those days, when we were wandering outside, our thin bodies moved the heaviest boxes, but we lived in a crowded house with our greatest dreams. We had the unbreakable revolutionary friendship without relatives or acquaintances.
3 city girl should recognize her own desires and ambitions.
Girls in cities have delicate makeup, sonorous steps, slim figure and capable work ...
What a city girl should do most is to recognize what she really wants in her long but short life. What kind of person do you want to be?
Chen Ke, who is new to the workplace, feels the fresh blood, fresh people and fresh value orientation brought by this city. At the beginning, that ignorant and simple girl would also be attracted by brand-name bags. In order to get the first LV in her life, she did not hesitate to swipe her credit card and save money to buy a bag, and when she got a brand-name bag, she got a treasure.
When most netizens see this episode, they will complain that Chen Ke has three incorrect views! Call her a gold digger! I just want to say that any girl doesn't like exquisite bags. If this exquisite bag can add more confidence and confidence to herself, why not try to own it? After all, in this world, people's eyes are still powerful and utilitarian.
Chen Ke, although eager to buy brand-name bags, but this desire did not let her go astray. She changed her desire into her motivation to work hard, so why is this desire and ambition not a good thing? We rely on our own efforts and strength to have these high-quality and beautiful things. Why not?
I think desire is not a compliment, at least for women.
But as long as you can turn desire into a driving force, it is a commendatory term, which has nothing to do with gender.
All of us have to go to college, find a job, strive for promotion and salary increase, buy a car and a house, get married and have children, which one is not to fight against our own desires.
We are desperately trying to get into a good university and go to the city we love, but we are not willing to stop.
We have spent many years growing and changing, traveled a lot, visited many places and met many different people. Finally, these experiences tell us:
It doesn't matter whether there are men around us, whether they are working or starting a business, whether they are big cities or small cities. The most important thing is to know who you are. The most important thing is whether you are real at this moment.
4 Behind all the shortcuts, the price has been marked by fate.
city girl is young and beautiful, and his ambition is exposed. Driven by desire, he can't resist the temptation.
Wang Jiajia, Chen Ke's best friend, wants to help Chen Ke buy a skirt with more than 1 yuan, but both of them are poor. What should we do? Wang Jiajia suddenly thought of a way, called and met only once, and expressed his ambiguous manager Wu. Let a rich man pay for his lewdness, and two girls get a skirt, a Japanese meal, and two bottles of Dior perfume.
without gratuitous attentions, something that is not acquired by strength will be returned sooner or later.
Soon, Chen Ke paid her price and accompanied a wine. Became the "dinner girl" in others' mouths.
Everyone with discerning eyes knows that those beautiful and sexy girls with delicate makeup at the dinner party are a "appetizer" at the banquet of rich, powerful and corrupt old men.
The experienced old man specially takes care of these girls with the title of "sister", and the discerning person can see through them at a glance, and the beauty is now delicious.
There has never been any benefit and flattery for no reason in this world. When the gift is not based on a close relationship, it seems to be a gain, but the essence is a debt. Sooner or later, we have to double the repayment one by one. Behind all the shortcuts, fate has marked the price, and young girls must understand this.
Fortunately, after the banquet was over, the simple Chen Ke accidentally learned that General Manager Wu was actually married. So she immediately knocked off the goodwill that had just arisen for Mr. Wu. However, fortunately, Mr. Wu introduced him to a new job and gave him new opportunities in the workplace, and did not continue to be ambiguous.
5 everything that can be bought with money is not a luxury for the rich, but a bargain.
Looking for it, Chen Ke left Juck Zhang, which can only give him an ordinary life, and finally found the man who can let a woman have a limited amount of bags soon.
After successfully hooking up a rich second-generation boyfriend, Chen Ke's life suddenly brightened up. By climbing into a man's bed, she became a sensible, smart and beautiful secret girlfriend in a mysterious and unknowable relationship between men and women, and she finally got everything that was once suspicious and greedy in vulgar eyes. And their two-person world is limited to bed.
For the rich second generation Yu Yang, she is just a foil. Yu Yang's world will always be self-centered. He won't understand Chen Ke's inner needs with his heart. All he needs is a quiet vase and a sexual partner to pass away loneliness. In Yang's heart, Chen Kelian is not even a girlfriend. In the minds of rich second generation Yu Yang, their love relationship is more due to money and material things. You want what you want, and you want what you want.
In this era of being obsessed with money and money, driven by vanity, Chen Ke forgot her initial intention of coming to Beijing to work hard, but she didn't know the shortcut to climb the rich second generation, which is the most difficult shortcut for women. If you are lucky and join the rich family smoothly, different classes may not be able to control the life of the rich wife. If you meet someone who is not suitable, women will also pay the price for this dew love.
city girl, who has ambitions and desires, must remember that for the rich, everything that money can buy is not a big deal. All they have is money, which can be bought with money. It's hard for you, and it's easy for him.
6 If you marry a marriage chosen because of your age and conditions, sooner or later, it will be like a sore throat.
At the age of 3, Chen Ke's career in Beijing has a little color, but with the growth of his age and friends around him, he entered the marriage and got his own home. Chen Ke, who often moves alone, has also tasted the deepest loneliness and vulnerability of older single women. When I met He Zhi, a civil servant from Beijing, Chen Ke hurried into the marriage without considering whether each other's three views of personality were appropriate and became the envy of his colleagues in Beijing. He Zhi is not self-motivated. He is addicted to playing mahjong all day long and is always reluctant to add his name to the real estate. Because of the purchase of the school district, Chen Ke also saw clearly that she was always a daughter-in-law from other places in the eyes of her grandmother's family, and her husband's family could not meet her needs. So she immediately stopped the loss and ended the marriage.
In the year of divorce, Chen Ke spent that cold winter alone.
Therefore, it's not too late for girls to think clearly about marriage before marrying again. Do you really want to get married? Are you willing to get married in the best time of your twenties, and you are so fond of daily chores such as daily necessities? Do you have enough confidence in yourself?
Do you think that with your own experience and emotional intelligence, you can properly handle the relationship with your in-laws and coordinate the world of the two families?
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At the end of the story, Chen Ke sold her real estate and decided to start a business. In her thirties, she had nothing, no savings, no job, no real estate, and everything she earned by sharpening her head was wiped out. Her life seems to have returned to the original point, but she has the truest confidence to survive in this city.
Chen Ke's ten years of drifting to the North is a microcosm of city girl's ten years, and it is a wonderful and tortuous growth process of recognizing oneself after trial and error.
This course has made Chen Ke understand that what he really wants is a life that can be exchanged with earnest and hard work, and can be dominated by my will between freedom and self-discipline.
She embraces every moment, enjoys every change, and cherishes every little joy and happiness she has. This is the biggest and most precious gain brought by maturity and tempering.
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