! To tell you the truth, I'm in debt, too. I can't breathe because of the debt. Life without passion, the days are tight, it's really like a year, but fortunately, I chose to be a sailor two years ago, otherwise, I can't imagine what I would live like now.
I once wanted to get rid of death, and I also wanted to find a way to make quick money, but it was really difficult. I was trapped in the past and there was no way out. After that, I was pressed by pursuers (third-party debt collectors), and my family was ruined. It was terrible, but I cried when I saw my elderly parents and poor children.
because I still have responsibilities to face, I have to live first anyway. The first thing I should do is to calm down. The debt can only be put aside and repaid slowly. At that time, creditors could understand me, but the bank credit card was still pressing hard, and the third party threatened me. Now I have repaid a large part of the debt through my own efforts, which is a relief.
It still shows that I am in a bad state of mind. I also owe a huge sum of money, I can't sleep occasionally at the beginning, and I still want to die. But I found that all these problems can't be solved. When I open my eyes, I still need to face the problems. So I hypnotized myself and comforted myself. It would be great now. At least when the debt collapsed, at least I didn't have to pay interest. I knew it would collapse. I should have let the debt collapse years earlier. After thinking clearly, you can only spend more time on your own business and make more money to get rid of all debts early!
It's really not easy. There is a process that I deeply understand. I've adjusted it for several months, and it's better now. But when the dunning call comes, I'm in a bad mood, and when the indictment comes at home, I'm agitated.
after all, I still haven't adjusted my mind.
first, we must find a way to sleep. Continuous insomnia will drag people down. If people are dragged down, nothing will be solved. I will drink some wine properly until I fall asleep.
second: work hard during the day, and it will be much better to fall asleep when you are tired from work.
third, the crux of the problem is your fear of debt. You are afraid of no hope and have no confidence to deal with it. This process is very painful. First, convince your family, not asking them to bear the burden for you, so that they can complain less about you. Set your own goals, work hard or start a business again. Only when you get back your confidence and see hope can you get up again step by step. So I have to overcome this painful process! I am also working hard, I hope you will go ashore as soon as possible!
One of my little sisters, who also has little money at home, guarantees loans to her family. People have run away, and there are few private people. Every day, there are people at home who are forced to pay debts. She has four children and wants to die! What should the children do? Avoid debt! This is also wrong. People who borrow money have a good relationship. Otherwise, they wouldn't lend money to their families. Out of understanding, she politely said to others, "Don't worry, people don't die, the accounts are not bad, and our family will pay them back slowly."
Her husband works outside, and she takes her three children to school at home, while the older one goes to college in other places. She can sing. When she gets married in northern Jiangsu, she invites a band, and so does Bai Shi. If it is a week, she also takes her children with her ...
Seeing her strong and confident appearance, she sincerely admires and regrets, which is what it takes to be a man ...
In life, every family. For the family ...
When I see this question from my friend, I will simply answer it. First of all, it depends on what causes the huge debt you are facing. If it is owed by the failure of starting a business, it is unnecessary to take it to heart, because the last self-motivated person you went to, I believe you will pay it back soon in the future. If it is caused by family reasons, I believe you are a responsible person, and you don't have to take it to heart. If you are in debt because your consumption is ahead of schedule, then you can reflect on yourself at this time. Why is this so? It is still difficult to work in a down-to-earth manner in the future.
well, tell me about myself. I am a defendant who went to court because the company went bankrupt and couldn't pay the workers' wages. Before I went to prison, I was a millionaire with a wife and children. Now I have nothing, and I have to pay back the workers' wages of 2 million. But I rely on my own efforts and don't think about it. Things always have to be solved.
Just try to make money and pay it back. Now all the sideline work is done, and the debt will be paid soon! Not so tired, it would be much better!
if you have too many things on your mind, you will feel anxious.
You can try to use the fear safe to write down the things you are most worried about, most worried about and most unwilling to see on a piece of paper, and then put them in a small box.
if you put it out of your sight, your anxiety will be eliminated quickly, because your secrets and anxiety are just your fear safe, and more anxiety is in the fear safe.
By doing this, you can eliminate a lot of anxiety, and I hope it will help you.
what should I do if I am in a good state of mind or can't sleep? Ask Wang Jianlin? He owes more than 4 billion yuan, and he is still singing at night. Is he in debt?
when I see this question from my friend, I will simply answer it. First of all, it depends on what causes the huge debt you are facing. If it is owed by the failure of starting a business, it is unnecessary to take it to heart, because your last self-motivated person believes that you will pay it back soon in the future. If it is caused by family reasons, I believe that you are a responsible person, and you don't have to take it to heart and have the responsibility to take responsibility. If you are in debt because your consumption is ahead of schedule, then you can reflect on yourself at this time. Why is this so? It is still difficult to work in a down-to-earth manner in the future.
well, let's talk about myself. I am a defendant who went to court and went to jail because the company went bankrupt. Before I went to jail, I was a millionaire with a wife and children. Now I have nothing, and I have to pay back the workers' salary of 2 million. But I rely on my own efforts and don't think about it. Things will always be solved.