When my husband was young, he went to the same school as me. After graduation, we got married regardless of family objections. After we got married, we had no house to live in and no jobs in big cities to cover our expenses, so we lived in the countryside.

My husband’s family is very poor, so he usually only eats meat dishes when guests come over. My mother-in-law works in a restaurant. If there are any leftovers at night, she will bring them home to eat. Basically, all the family’s money is used to save money to buy them. house.

My parents really couldn’t stand me living such a hard life anymore, so they began to do ideological work for me. In addition, malnutrition led to miscarriage, and I began to waver. Later, under the arrangement of my parents, , my husband and I accepted an amicable divorce. We had no children and no worries. When we were together, we had no rich property worth dividing. After I packed up my things and held back my tears, my husband pulled me and gave me a Card, he said you should keep it. I knew he wanted to open a store so he didn’t ask for the card. He insisted on giving it to me, so I had to keep it first. He turned around and went out.

I hold all the cards at home. I went to the bank to check all my savings and planned to transfer them all to the card my husband gave me, and then transfer them to my mother-in-law. I didn’t know this until I went to the bank. There was one million in the card. I was shocked. When did my husband become so rich? Would I not know? One million is not a small amount for us in rural areas, and the other cards are only 10,000 yuan at most. After I finished all the things, I returned to my in-laws' house.

When my mother-in-law saw me coming back, she thought I had changed my mind. After I took out the card and explained the situation, my mother-in-law told me with tears in her eyes that my husband had been out of business before at the construction site. He got the compensation and hospitalization expenses afterwards. In order to save money, he did not go for treatment and rested at home for a few days. I didn’t know all these things. After hearing what my mother-in-law said, I burst into tears. I immediately Decided to remarry.

But when I got home, my parents told me and helped me find a marriage. They were impressed by my filial piety and virtuousness and hoped that I could be a good wife. I didn’t agree, but my parents They said they couldn't bear to see me live a hard life anymore, and that I should be able to live a good life by following that man. My parents are also doing it for my own good. Should I say that my husband has millions in cash so that I can live a good life in the future? Should I choose him with better conditions for my parents?

With Pepsi's filial piety, I can see that you and your husband are very loving. No matter how hard life is, you can still find your own happiness in the difficult situation. Your parents are also thinking about you from your perspective. , and now you have love on one side and family affection on the other. You should listen to your heart.

Marriage requires a person who loves each other, and both parents understand this. Suggestively explain to your parents that your husband is very good to you. Even though life is a little harder, you can still be very happy!

Finally, I would like to tell you that there are five important things for two people to be together:

Communication? Respect? Cherish? Honesty? Trust

I appreciate these five points. Identity is also the direction that I have been working hard to learn now

Although there are only 5 points, it is not easy to do it, and it is not easy to do it well

If the basic points can be Do it, plus a sincere love

As long as you have a "heart", all the problems that arise should be solved?!

◆Cherish

We must cherish every relationship

Learn how to cherish each other and cherish feelings

It is not difficult to cherish, but it is easy to be ignored!!

So We always wait until we are about to lose something before we know how to cherish it.

The world is so big, two people can meet, get to know each other, and finally cherish each other

All along... I told myself that since I have decided to hold hands, don't Let go easily

Think about why we were together in the first place?

Think about whether there is no way to solve the problems we face?

Think about whether it is really unforgivable Or tolerate each other?

Think about it, isn’t this relationship worth working hard and continuing?

Think about it, are you really willing to give up this relationship?

This time... I managed this relationship very well and carefully

It’s a pity that I made mistakes unintentionally

It’s a pity that I couldn’t cope with the pressure and problems of reality

I know clearly that the thing that is most easily overlooked...is cherishing!

In the end, you still have to wait until you lose before you know how to cherish and cherish each other!!

Once again, it is verified that people often have to wait until they lose before they know how to cherish~

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A lifetime may not be long or short, but if I can get happiness, I am willing to work hard, change and overcome.

After all, I still want to say: Cherish the people in front of you!

I hope to be with you, because a relationship requires two people to maintain and work together

Only when both people know how to cherish can the relationship go to the end!

◆ Communication

Two people must be able to communicate. Communication is a university subject~

It is also the most basic condition for two people to be together

Without communication, just unilaterally sulking. The other party will never know where the mistake is and cannot improve. The problem will always exist and cannot be solved. Without communication, if it is just a misunderstanding, because there is no explanation and no communication, the two people will Maybe we have lost each other like this

Without communication, two people will not have mutual understanding, will not work towards the same goal, and two people will never make progress

Without communication, you always imagine and think that what you think is right, so you think wildly and misunderstand the other person. In the end, the relationship is destroyed

Without communication, two people will not understand each other's thoughts. , ideas and needs, so sometimes the giving is full of heart, but the direction of giving is wrong

Because many people tend to think and do selfishly from their own standpoint

I just give the other person what I want to give, thinking that this is what the other person needs, and always feel that I have given a lot

But in fact, the other person may not feel it, or it may not be what the other person needs or cares

As a result, I often act out of emotion, which hurts myself and others.

Therefore, two people need to communicate when they get along~

Loving someone is not about giving her what you want. But give her "what she wants", this is how you truly love her

Take the other person's needs as your responsibility, this is how you truly love her.

◆ Respect

In the past, I felt that the word "respect" was a bit distant between two people.

Now, I find that in fact, Respect is a very important part

Because respect covers a wide range...

Respect the other party's decision

What Esde is talking about is "When two people are together, they must learn to respect each other's decisions."

Disagreements can be communicated. If you know how to respect, it means that everything is fine and can be discussed.

Respect each other’s past

Without those people and things in the past, we will not become more and more perfect

So true love must tolerate the past

Instead of fussing over those who have...

Respect each other's likes and dislikes

Tolerating each other is also another kind of respect. Attitude

No one is perfect, and no two are completely compatible and suitable

To get along, we must respect and tolerate each other

Be able to tolerate everything about each other, including living habits and trivial things

And everything about the other person, including tolerating each other's personality

Don't force the other person You don’t have to force yourself to change if you want to change

But you need to understand the other person’s likes and dislikes, and then respect and tolerate them

If possible, make his likes your own. If you like or dislike, you must at least respect and tolerate him

Avoid his dislike and don’t create unnecessary quarrels

Respect the other person’s life

It is not easy for two people who grew up in different environments to be together

Everyone has different backgrounds, different lifestyles, different habits, and different interests

We must learn to Respect each other and make timely changes after communication

In order to pursue happiness, many habits cannot be persisted forever

Therefore, we have to learn to change

Maybe... .Because of love

We begin to know how to develop... from one person to two people...

◆ Trust & Honesty

Honesty and trust are needed in love

Because honesty and trust bring security to each other

Therefore, if two people want to be together, honesty and trust are very basic and important foundations

Honesty and trust are actually related to each other

For one person to be able to trust the other, the other must be honest;

A person Being able to be honest while also having the other person want to believe it.

If the other person continues to be honest with you, you will naturally trust him more and more

Simply put, honesty and trust complement each other. Without honesty, there is no trust.

I believe that "honest to the right" love makes this relationship more frank

Be honest with yourself and be honest with others

Once you are deceived, this feeling It is difficult to erase

It takes a lot of time and effort to repair. If you are not lucky, the relationship will be polished

Therefore, two people who love each other must be "honest" in their relationship. It will last forever

Love also requires whole-hearted "mutual trust"

Although there are too many lies in this world, whether they are well-intentioned or malicious and intentional Good

They all have an impact on us more or less, but we should still try to believe and learn to trust the other party

Trust does not necessarily mean indulging the other party, nor does it mean that we don’t care. , just don’t be suspicious

Adopting a distrustful attitude will only make the atmosphere worse for both parties

Without trust, two people are suspicious of each other, which is equivalent to playing spy against spy. The game, being together will be very hard and tiring

Trust is like a key that can enter and exit love

Without this key, there is no way to welcome the other person in Your heart

With trust, you will believe that the other person has you in mind

If two people are so honest and trust each other, their hearts will be very stable. Full of security!

Because...

Happiness requires two people to cherish it together

Happiness requires two people to work together

Love requires two people Maintain together individually