1. Maybe I didn’t explain many things very clearly, and there are quite big differences in different regions. I feel like I just want to express my own thoughts, and I don’t mean that everyone must agree. Anyway, people who understand will naturally I understand, and there is no need to speak clearly in every sentence. We are all adults. As for those who say I am bitter and vain, just let it be. ?

2. The only luxury consumption in our family is the iQiyi membership fee and my wife’s annual skin care product expenses of 1,000 yuan. Our most important festival every year is When the season changes, go to the mall to check out the discounted clothes

on clothes and Taobao, and have a good meal by the way. On my seventh wedding anniversary, I took my wife to Shanghai for a lobster meal. She cried and complained that I spent money arbitrarily.

So, I’m sorry, our family doesn’t save money to help you use your credit card. In our small county, the streets are full of luxury cars. I always thought that my family was okay. I drove a car worth 2, and my colleagues who were about the same age all drove cars worth 4. I found that I was really poverty. I always thought that I grew up poor, but now I find that I am really poor. This is the situation in my family anyway. What I mean is that what is bright on the surface may not be really good, and what is difficult on the surface may not be really bad. Be yourself, and always remind yourself and motivate yourself.

But I also know that many people have gone bankrupt to buy a car, are still in debt, and spend dozens of credit cards, but they use the latest model

Apple, wearing Watches cost tens of thousands, bags cost tens of thousands. I don’t know if everyone is doing well or not. I only know that you can’t borrow money even if you kill yourself. You can borrow your life, but you can’t borrow money!

3. A group of young people in the office only drink milk tea from Naixue and coffee from Starbucks. And I never take photos while drinking Starbucks. This same group of young people get together every week or every month to discuss where a new restaurant has opened. The chefs in this restaurant have various backgrounds, the restaurant culture has various backgrounds, and the ingredients have various backgrounds. I had to queue for hours to get something to eat.

There is such a small group of children’s classmates. He drives a car worth 300,000 Canadian dollars and frequently checks into restaurants with an average of 100 Canadian dollars per person. Daily necessities are all from Muji and niche European, American, Japanese and Korean brands that I have never heard of. Electronic products are all contemporary flagships from Apple and Sony. One headset costs thousands. In terms of clothing, even Nike and Adidas are student brands with no sense of design. Then, just a few days ago, he asked me to lend him 30,000 yuan, which he could use on his credit card and pay me back the next day. I didn't lend it to him. I earn more than him, and I drive a Passat that I got as a bride, so my wife doesn’t have a car to drive.

Parents have signed up their children for various training classes. In addition to tutoring in cultural classes, he is also a host of basketball, football and badminton, and hip-hop and taekwondo. The basketball and football training class for preschool children here in Shenzhen has a tuition fee of 10,000 soft sister coins per semester. Also frequently

participate in various drafts and competitions (within the training institution or between branches). Each draft and competition costs a lot of activity funds, as well as clothing fees.

Fourth, there are fencing, rugby, baseball and golf training classes, which are also attended by working-class children. There are also a group of ladies who watch Wei Y and Li Jiaqi’s live broadcast every day and buy a few things every day. Invisible poverty is other people's way of life. We have no intention of judging right or wrong. I just list some ways in which invisible poverty occurs. People like this are called exquisite poor people when they are put online.

If your desires are high, don’t feel that your salary is low. Just don’t cry poor!

Why do we have to rent a single room instead of sharing a room? Why do you have to eat takeout? Don’t you know how to cook it yourself?

Why do we need to use CPB and Yang Shulin? Can’t domestic products be used?

Why is it embarrassing to wear brand-name and trendy Uniqlo Taobao products?

You say every day that your salary of several thousand yuan is low and you can’t support your family? I just want to say it, aren’t your parents mostly working-class people earning several thousand dollars a month, so why don’t they drag you down so much? Also provided for you to go to college?

The second type is actually very easy to understand. In order to establish a foothold in a big city, people take out a 30-year loan to buy a car and buy a house. ?

This type of person has good academic qualifications and abilities, and the family strength is also very good. You can obviously live a happy life in second- and third-tier cities

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As a result, I am so confident in myself that I have to go to first-tier cities to join first-tier and new first-tier cities, and become a pseudo-middle class in new first-tier cities.

5. So I emptied the six wallets of two families, forced myself into the car and took on a mortgage of 2 million Canadian dollars, and became a new front-line migrant worker from then on

People like these people thought that they could achieve the pinnacle of life after getting the ticket, but they found that education and medical care were huge. They only dared to have one child. After giving birth, they were afraid that they would fall, so they had to keep having sex. baby. As long as the baby has a chicken, the family will immediately be in chaos. The most terrible thing is that as the parents get older, once they get sick, they will immediately go back to before liberation, and the house will have to be sold.

For details, please refer to an article: Middle-aged Beijing Under the Influenza. This type of migrant workers is like the children of many of my parents’ colleagues. They had the best exams in childhood, got into good 985 universities, and received high salaries after graduation.

Their parents, who have decent jobs, are also middle-class in their hometown. But it’s still stressful! Life is still not easy! Thinking back to the sayings of the older generation, "Small wealth comes from frugality, big wealth comes from heaven", "Wear as big a shoe as your feet have" and other common sayings, it really makes sense

!

When you do something that does not match your desire and ability, after the moment of vanity and pleasure, you will inevitably experience double the backlash.

If everyone can be more pragmatic, stop trying to support that pitiful and ridiculous sophistication, and be calm and work hard in life,

then let it happen All the overwhelming and colorful scenery cannot sway you.

Pale thoughts, lack of belief, materialistic desires, and selfishness are crises in this era and are inevitable tests for everyone.

Finally, I would like to say that I vaguely feel that although society advocates the values ??of diligence and frugality on the surface, secretly it does not like everyone to actually do this. I hope everyone can take care of themselves. life and destiny.