My boyfriend said that he was under great pressure to owe money and asked me to borrow a credit card to pay it back. He also promised to return it to me, and it would not be overdue. I turned him down, and he treated me like this? This should be analyzed in detail: first of all, is it a big pressure this time or a big pressure all the time? If the temporary economic problems are stressful, you can consider helping him, because after all, they are lovers; Second, look at the amount. If the amount exceeds the range you or you bear (monthly income), then be cautious; Third, if your boyfriend is under financial pressure for a long time (for a period of time), and the financial pressure exceeds his salary, you have reason to refuse, because after brushing, there will be new accounts after going to the old one, and it will be more difficult to pay off. Finally, let's see how your relationship develops and what is the relationship between the usual financial expenditure and the matching ratio. If you are in a hurry to get married, it is better to help your boyfriend moderately within your ability. So, don't be sad at present, and then communicate with your boyfriend calmly.