Express your inner feelings first, then ask why, and finally help customize the plan. Boyfriend's credit card debt is more than 10000, and I tell you it's only more than 8000. First of all, find a suitable time to have a frank talk with your boyfriend. Express your concern and disappointment about him, then share your feelings openly and ask the other person to explain why he chose to hide this problem. Then evaluate the financial situation with the other party, make sure to understand the past and present debts, help him make a repayment plan, and ensure the transparency and honesty of future financial decisions. For example, if you hide your debts from me, I am very disappointed in you. I hope our relationship is transparent and there are no secrets.