? Mingming is a very cute girl, simple and without a lot of money. It's easy to enter her world, just be nice to her.

I particularly like her character, at least for me, getting along with her is not tiring. Recently, I saw that she was often absent-minded, so I asked a few more questions. She just said: "I feel like my monthly salary is not enough."

I expressed my confusion. Although our salary is not much, our personal expenses are still enough. After hesitating for a long time, she Said: "I need to help my boyfriend pay off his credit card."

After listening, I was silent at first. Then asked her if she knew what he did with the money he owed on his credit card?

She said: "I don't know."

Then she told me the story of her and her boyfriend.

The two of them are schoolmates and belong to the puppy love family. When they first started falling in love, the boy treated her in every possible way. When aunt comes, prepare brown sugar water. When she is sick, he will guard her, watch her drink medicine, and prepare delicious meals for her. But it was just like this at the beginning. As time went by, the two people's positions changed.

She said she had a stomachache, and her boyfriend said it would be better if she put on a baby warmer? She said she was very hungry, but her boyfriend said it would be over if he could just make something to eat. Sometimes, her boyfriend would even ask her to help bring tea and water. When we first broke up, my boyfriend would still ask for help. Later, even making a video was half-hearted.

? Maybe every girl has her first love. She feels that she has given her first love to the other person and even had an abortion for him, so she can't live without this man. So, we got engaged last year and have been living together since then. The wages of the two people are classified as pension. As the days passed, she found that her boyfriend was becoming less and less motivated. I am as busy as my old lady. Just because I temporarily kept his salary card. So every time she was short of money, the other party would ask her for it.

After a while, Mingming looked at the deposit and found that the other party owed more than what was given to her. The key is that I don’t even know where he is using it. She became more and more irritable, wondering if the other person was the one she wanted. In other words, if we are in this situation now, how will the two of us live in the future? So, she went out to find a job on her own. She wanted to separate for some time and figure out what was going on in her heart. I have been working for half a year and earn a lot of salary every month. But when she had some savings, her boyfriend started using her credit cards. She felt that the two were already engaged, and she didn't want to owe anyone else anything, so she kept paying her back.

After she was angry and talking about her boyfriend, the other party transferred the money to her. But after the transfer was completed, she still had to help pay back the credit card.

Days like this made her very irritable and unwilling to let go.

? I want to say: "If the other party used the money in a proper place, I wouldn't mind helping him pay it back. But I don't know what he used the money for, so why should I help him pay it back? What? It’s just in the adaptation stage. Can the other party still expect a good life in the future? Isn’t it like this if he continues to be messed up? What’s more, he has no sincerity to speak of.”

Life is your own, and so is your future. We need to know what we want. Whatever kind of future you want, just work hard for it yourself. How can there be happiness if you just stick to the past in your heart?

To put it more unpleasantly, there are many people who do not have that layer of membrane before marriage. If it doesn't suit you, let it go as soon as possible. Why don't you dig your own grave and jump into the fire pit?

Today’s question is

? 1. Will you help him pay off his credit card?

? 2. Would you want such a man?

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