What is true emotional intelligence?

1. Before drinking someone else’s water, wipe your own mouth instead of wiping the mouth of the bottle with paper.

2. If someone has helped others, treat them to a meal when it’s time to treat them to a meal, but don’t regard this meal as a return of favor.

3. When a friend gives birth to a second child, I go to visit him. Buy a gift for the eldest child, interact with him more, and play together.

4. Reject others decently and tactfully. Invite the girl you like to play games, and she says: "Wait a minute, I'll bring my boyfriend with me."

5. We all get wet, and we won't favor one against another. When asking for WeChat from someone, give the WeChat of the person around you too. Yes.

6. Before I even opened my mouth to remind you, I gave him a gentle thumbs up.

7. No matter how good the relationship is, I would never go to a friend’s house empty-handed. I will definitely bring some gifts.

8. When asking for help, make a phone call to briefly explain your intention, and invite people to have a meal and interview instead of sending two words on WeChat: "Are you there?"

10. Before eating, praise the person who cooked. Never complain about things that you enjoy without any effort.

11. When others give you 500 as a courtesy. , you follow him at 666 this year. When people interact with each other, one party owes the other party a little, so that they can play together for a long time.

12. If you dare to lose your temper, you will still be able to discuss it with the agency client. When the problem is not solved, make the matter bigger and complain.

For people with high emotional intelligence, getting angry is not to vent their emotions but to solve the problem.

13. Speak to the other party. To save face, I went to the mall to buy things and swiped my credit card several times without success. The cashier did not directly say that there was no money in the card but asked, "The machine seems to be out of order. Can you pay with cash?

14. When some men make outrageous jokes about girls, change the topic and stop talking about it.

15. People with lower status than themselves are also very polite. When arranging work for their subordinates, they always end up saying "Thank you for your hard work." After the cleaning staff cleans the house, they always say thank you. .

16. Those with truly high emotional intelligence are self-respecting and self-loving, and will not wrong themselves in order to please others. When faced with other people's unreasonable requests, you will not agree just because you can't save face.

17. People with high emotional intelligence often have delicate thoughts. After eating with you once, they will remember that you don’t like chopped green onions. When you are with them, you can always discover the small blessings in life.

18. Reply immediately after seeing the message, even if it is just an expression, it is better than pretending not to see it.

19. Watch more videos about human accidents.

20. During a dinner party, if someone coughs, immediately ask the waiter to add water, and always pay attention to whether the guests’ glasses are full.

21. Able to accurately understand other people’s emotions and feelings, and be kind to others unconditionally and without purpose.

22. When you find that you have done something wrong, apologize immediately and sincerely, and find a way to make amends instead of simply saying sorry.

23. Although he is usually careless and seems not to care about anything, once his bottom line is touched, he will show his claws.

24. Never put others in embarrassing situations, such as asking "Do you like mom or dad more?" "Your mom and I both fell into the water, you?

25 You can remember other people’s names once you say them and call them out accurately next time.

26. Don’t tell your colleagues and bosses when they make mistakes in public. Never correct them on the spot or in private. Euphemistic reminders are more comfortable.

27. If you like quietly, your emotional intelligence will definitely become higher and higher, and your popularity will definitely become better and better!

28. When you are quiet, A few words can heat up the situation, and when everyone starts chattering, choose to listen silently.

29. When a naughty child commits a crime, parents criticize and educate them, instead of trying to make people forgive him by saying "he is still a child."

30. Turn off the alarm as soon as it goes off and never let it disturb other people.

31. Let’s go out to play together. It’s too late. I guess you’re home. I’ll send you a message to confirm it’s safe.

32. Treat people with sincerity, teacher Ma Li said: “When the people around you are very smart, the so-called high emotional intelligence, or the best strategy for getting along with people, is sincerity.

33. Do not use Douyin or Kuaishou short videos in public places.

34. I will not push your WeChat information to others without permission, nor will I post your photos in Moments. Send it directly to people you don’t know.

35. Don’t send long voice messages on WeChat. Try to send text or make phone calls.

36. You can safely tell him anything. You can never get information out of someone else's mouth.

37. True emotional intelligence is not about flattering others, being tactful, or being able to tell things by looking at others.

It is about being honest and sincere. It’s not hurtful, it’s humorous, it’s not kitsch, it’s about doing things that are kind in your heart and making everyone feel comfortable.