6 Characteristics of Middle-aged Marriage
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1. Marriage is a big drama with the heroine, let her bring up a younger brother
It is agreed that after marriage, the child will be raised and the wife will bear the wind and rain, but the script given to the man and woman They are all different!
The child’s father only has a job after marriage, while the child’s mother has a job plus giving birth, raising children, cooking, cleaning, laundry, purchasing, accompanying students, tutoring homework, parent-teacher meetings...
2. My wife and children are calling me, get into the toilet and hide for a while
Before marriage, men are very smart creatures; after marriage, their physical and psychological functions deteriorate rapidly.
Being blind: no matter how messy the house is, no matter how dirty the toilet is, or no matter how long the clothes have been hung, they still cannot see.
Deafness: The child wakes up and cries no matter how loudly he cries without being heard. He is told to do something and does not move even if he is urged two or three times.
My memory is also weak: I selectively forget wedding anniversaries, my wife’s birthday, and Valentine’s Day.
3. Going home is like going back to the dormitory, everyone does their own thing and don’t be verbose
Middle-aged couples only rely on eye contact! After a day of work, children, and housework, everyone wants to lie down on the bed
Silence is the greatest love for middle-aged couples.
4. The only sense of ritual is to keep repaying the loan
How long has it been since middle-aged couples gave each other gifts and flowers? I haven’t received even the rose emoticon for a long time! If you can like your wife in the circle of friends, your relationship is still online; if you can put your wife at the top of your circle of friends, you are considered a model of a good husband.
But! Middle-aged couples pay great attention to ritual! Tuition payment dates, mortgage repayment dates, credit card repayment dates...we all calculated them clearly with our fingers.
5. It’s okay if the person doesn’t come back, as long as the money comes back
Maybe this is a unique tacit understanding between middle-aged couples. If the husband works overtime and doesn’t come home for dinner at night, he just says: busy, immediately I understand that I won’t disturb you anymore. I let people go out in the morning. As long as I can come back by myself in the evening, my wallet is in place, no nonsense, no entanglement, and all communication should be environmentally friendly.
6. After drinking a small drink of friendship, holding hands on the road to raising a baby
When the child gets perfect marks in the exam, the father of the child will be happy and post on his WeChat Moments about how hard his wife has worked, and it will be considered a blind date. . The child's skipping rope met the standard, and the child's mother was so happy that she washed her husband's socks, and they were in love.
If they can substitute each other to help their children with homework, it will be like welding the door of their marriage tightly. If we can work together to teach the children, the friendship will be sublimated again
At this moment, warmth surges into their hearts, and the middle-aged couple feels that they have a confidant again!