First, judge whether the wife is cheating or not from the following points:

1. The concept of time is easy to understand. The wife who always comes home on time suddenly becomes often late or leaves home too early. She also likes to ask about your schedule and how to travel, work overtime and go home. This seems to be concerned about your going out, fearing that you will have an accident. Not only that, you can forget some of your love birthdays and wedding anniversaries when you were young, but the concept of time that was clearly remembered in your mind began to shrink, which means that your wife's feelings are in trouble.

2. Emotion is impermanent. When a person is doing something that even he feels disgraceful and has a loss to others, his mind is often weak and timid. He always tries his best to cover up the truth and hide its traces, trying to keep things in a minimum range, so as not to expose the failure and arouse the vigilance and suspicion of onlookers. By the same token, a wife who has changed her mind and found another lover, no matter how she disguises or creates false appearances to confuse your judgment, it is not difficult to find the clues of her change of heart as long as she observes carefully, because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody and critical and heartless to you than before.

3. Habit change According to common sense, most of our sudden changes in some habits and routines are for a reason. For example, a person who was not very enthusiastic about the work of the unit suddenly claimed that he was very busy at work recently, needed to work overtime, and had to go out on a business trip, which was incredible. For example, a wife who was enthusiastic about housework suddenly became negligent in housework, often went out in a hurry, and said that she would not go home for dinner tonight. It was as strange as being a bitter enemy who had always been a narrow way to go, and suddenly became intimate. These two people either had ulterior motives or hidden dangers, and changed their habits to show their tails.

4. The increase in activities is actually one of the most important details in the habit change. Women's strategies are often very simple. You can't marry a woman with calculating strategies like bond girl, so once her lover who doesn't like social activities starts to go out in various occasions, we can't say that her wife's personality has changed from introversion to extroversion in the morning running and bar gathering, but we attribute the reason to an excuse, a woman who keeps saying that she doesn't like eating oranges.

5. High telephone bills. Federal agents in the United States can find out your specific address according to the time you call, and you can also infer whether an affair is going on according to the frequency of your wife's phone call. Telephone is a common way of communication and dating in life. However, the phone number of an affair is often abnormal, just like Yan Shouyi's lies in Xiaogang Feng's movie "Mobile Phone", and women are no exception. When you lie, you can make sure that your face is not red, your neck is not thick, and you are out of breath, and it is as realistic as nothing. Of course, I am not asking you to make unwarranted suspicions about your lover here, but I want you to find it in time to save it.

6. The expenses have skyrocketed. I don't know if your family's income is public. It would be much easier if your salary income is reimbursed once a month and there are large expenditures recorded at any time. After a woman has an affair, her expenses increase, and most of the money is spent on buying a series of private cosmetics to ensure her youth is invincible and attract men. Sometimes, she deliberately expresses her true feelings to the men she likes, such as a suit, where men spend money on keeping mistresses, and so do women, so she saves private money more secretly and hides all the extra income from her husband to meet her needs.

7. Only in menopause will a woman forget about things. Today, she forgets to buy the baby's milk powder. Tomorrow, she just puts the clothes that should be washed in the washing machine. When she is idle, she will be in a daze with no light in her eyes. She seems to be preoccupied when she goes to see the mountains, but she will not take the initiative to tell me what's wrong, but silently ponder. At this time, when you ask her if she is uncomfortable or sick, she won't pretend not to know that you are calling her and talking to her, but she will turn her head and always smile at you with a change of expression: honey, I'm fine, go to sleep first, hmm.

8. Memory loss has been said countless times in the previous article. Women in love are often much more delicate than men. Men are often careless and dignified, but women can remember the interesting things in your love. And every time I talk to you, I always say, you see, we were often chased at that time. If I asked you to take half a step at night, I might marry that man, or you are lucky. But if you ask your wife now, if she used to talk to you often, I dare say that she is getting impatient. You find it just like da ji possessed by a fox.

Second, judging whether the husband is having an affair starts from the following points:

(1), 42 changes.

1. He started exercising, especially jogging (he may have run to another woman's house).

2. He doesn't have sex with you more often, or starts trying new methods.

3. He began to pay attention to his diet or to lose weight.

4. He started to buy new clothes. From boxers to crotch protectors, or even don't like them; The material of clothes changed from cotton to silk.

5. When the phone rings, he will be nervous. When answering the phone, he will try to speak in a low voice.

6. He often makes excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends.

7. He began to find an excuse to stay out.

8. When he travels on business, he doesn't tell you the itinerary, flight or hotel information. When you ask him where he is going and when he will come back, he yells at you, and he will say, you can't contact him at all.

9. He will go out alone on weekends for some bad reasons.

1. When you ask him when he will go home, or where he will go, he will be very unhappy and angry.

11. He began to hide credit card receipts and telephone bills.

12. He started to have his own private telephone.

as soon as he got home, he went to take a shower or brush his teeth.

14. He kept his trip and the people he met very secret. When you show some interest in his private affairs, even if it is just a normal interest, he will think it is an invasion of his privacy.

15. He stopped explaining where he was going.

16. He no longer takes you to work-related social activities. Even if he takes you there, his colleagues will treat you differently.

17. He will send you flowers and jewels, but he never did in the past. These are gifts representing guilt.

18. He is distracted and unpredictable. Living with him is like riding a roller coaster. You never know when he will lose his temper with you for no reason.

19. He began to criticize your appearance.

2. He began to read books about sex.

21. After the phone rings, you pick up the phone, but the other person doesn't talk for a long time.

22. You will get strange phone calls, such as, "I think you should know about your husband".

23. He used to wear a wedding ring, but now he doesn't.

24. When you go out with him, he becomes more fond of teasing women than usual. He began to pay attention to other women.

25. He began to wash his clothes.

26. He is very careful about his wallet and briefcase.

27. He no longer asks you to accompany him on a business trip.

28. He started talking in his sleep and usually slept less than before.

29. He began to make positive comments about a specific woman.

3. He began to put a condom in his travel bag.

31. When you ask about him, he becomes completely unwilling to talk about it.

32. When you want to hug him, he becomes stupefied.

33. He is no longer enthusiastic about you.

34. When sleeping at night, he is far away from you and almost falls out of bed.

35. He started sleeping in separate rooms with you, saying it was because he was "afraid that you would not sleep well because of the noise".

36. His temper became very anxious and irritable.

37. He becomes indifferent to people and is often absent-minded.

38. He told you that he needed his privacy and told you to leave him for a while.

39. He is indifferent to you and completely ignores you.

4. He became more difficult to communicate than usual.

41. He often makes people feel cold and distant.

42. He stays in the office even on Saturday and Sunday.

(2) What will happen when a man cheats?

1. Is it a phone call with more information than before? Do you often go behind your back when you make phone calls or send and receive messages? I often say that I have to work overtime or socialize, don't go home for dinner, and come back very late?

2. Are you paying more attention to your image than before and starting to dress up? Or did you start fitness and exercise?

3. Has the expenditure suddenly increased inexplicably?

4. Being nice to you suddenly, often paying attention to you and buying you gifts? As the saying goes, nothing is courting, either rape or theft. Maybe it's because I feel guilty about you and want to make it up to you.

5. shower or wash as soon as you get home? Do you want to wash your clothes yourself? You can secretly check his clothes and smell if there is any smell that doesn't belong to you and him.

(3), you are skeptical now. A woman's sixth sense is sometimes as clever as a ghost.

There is no specific way for men to cheat. But once a man has an affair, he can still see something.

for example, I don't go home often. Going home is also surfing the internet, or keeping your mobile phone. Both the computer and the mobile phone have passwords. Going home has become a big temper. He used to love food, but now he doesn't like it, and he is picky. Doing housework is the same, no matter how clean you are, he will talk about things. Become beautiful, and the style of wearing clothes is very different from before. Love to find fault with you, saying that this is not done well and that is not done well. I don't speak the same language, and I don't want to talk to you.

(4) The following points are signs of derailment, which you can refer to

1. After a man cheats, he becomes unrestrained in spending money.

2. It is a sign that men become diligent after cheating, and some become lazy.

3. Men's cheating phone calls must be behind people's backs, especially their wives and children. They keep texting and setting passwords, and only they can see them.

4. Men are distracted after cheating, always absent-minded and forgetful. One is whether he wants to continue, and the other is whether to terminate.

5. Lack of energy is a sign of cheating men. He has to take care of his children, his wife and people outside. He certainly doesn't have enough energy. Distraction is very tiring.

6. Men who cheat pay attention to dressing up in order to attract their mistresses.

7. The derailed man's concept of time has changed greatly, and there is no time rule. In fact, he takes time to date, and the regular commuting time is all taken up by traffic jams, parties and meetings.

8. Cheating men usually have sex at home. Without passion, it is just an obligation and a dispensable thing.

I hope the landlord can get along with the other half for a hundred years ~~

I hope the landlord will adopt it. Thank you, it's not easy to fight by hand.