But there is no contradiction between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. To tell the truth, my parents-in-law are ok with me. Although there are some differences in lifestyle, at least my husband protects me, so there is no blame.

Although the days are ordinary, they are happy. At present, the whole family is revolving around the fetus in my womb, and they are all looking forward to the arrival of this new life.

But every time my mother-in-law's maiden nephew appears, our life will be disturbed to varying degrees. Of course, these waves are only in my heart and my husband's. The reason is that the mother-in-law has the right to speak in this family. Nothing else, but because my father-in-law is not at work at present, I am not at work, and my husband works at home, so my mother-in-law is the most stable and decent one in our family of four. And both houses have only the mother-in-law's name.

My mother-in-law's nephew, who is my husband's uncle's big cousin, can be passed down from generation to generation! Is an unreliable person, no doubt.

He can't bear hardships and stand hard work, he can't go to work in a down-to-earth manner, he can't work reliably, and his life is getting worse day by day. He borrows money all year round and relies on his aunts, that is, my husband's aunts and my mother-in-law.

For example, it costs more than 1, yuan to decorate several aunts. After the decoration, several aunts praised them blindly and gave extra tips ranging from 6, to 1, yuan (because her mother-in-law paid him more than 7, yuan in credit card interest for one year, all her mothers-in-law said that we didn't have to tip him for the decoration). This time to decorate our home, we ran before and after, resolutely did not use the plate maker he strongly recommended, and removed the impractical things. Finally, we almost got 6, yuan. Our budget was actually 5, yuan, but it was still reduced to 6, yuan by our big cousin. (This is another complicated story, let's leave it alone. )

To tell you the truth, my husband's family is also having a hard time. In recent years, my father-in-law doesn't go to work, and she is all alone with her mother-in-law. Sometimes she really feels sorry for her hard work, but the thought of her spending a lot of money to support her nephew, even guaranteeing a loan for him, and brushing her own decoration credit card to fill in the credit card hole for him suddenly makes me feel that my mother-in-law is out of her mind, and I can't stay in this bottomless home for a moment.

My husband was in the most difficult time, when we didn't know each other. He lived in the basement, and his clothes, mattresses and even computers were moldy. I asked my classmate to borrow 8 yuan to live, but he paid it back in two months. He had traveled back and forth for four hours on the subway, and he didn't ask his mother to borrow a penny. Never complained about suffering.

my mother-in-law doesn't know these things. My husband won't tell her either.

and my husband's hard work, I know, he is less than 3 years old, but his hair is getting whiter and whiter. Can't my mother-in-law see it?

My mother-in-law bought us a wedding room. The down payment included a loan of 2, yuan, an installment loan of 54, yuan, and an interest mortgage, totaling more than 9, yuan. There are more than 1 million famines in her own family alone. I really don't understand how she, a 55-year-old man who is nearing retirement, got the courage and courage to lend money to her nephew. One loan is more than 1 thousand, and one loan is not enough. As long as the credit card has a limit, I still want to swipe it!

this morning, she was quietly taken by her nephew to the construction company to swipe her card. When we came back, we asked her, but she faltered and refused to say it. Finally, she said that she wanted to brush some money out, but she didn't. I don't know whether her answer is true or whether the money has been lent to her nephew.

The more I think about it, the angrier I get. Tell my husband that a crying child has milk to drink. If you don't ask for help, she will become her nephew with or without money. He said he borrowed it, but with his cousin's ability, he couldn't be killed. Selling a house? That should be unrealistic. In order to get him to pay back the money and sell the house, several aunts can probably eat my couple alive.

Besides, his house is probably bought by several aunts and my mother-in-law, because my husband's big uncle is also an undeserving person, who gambles when he has some money and leisure, and neither of the two men in the family is reliable. Small gnawing aunt, elder sister, old gnawing sister, gnawing daughter.

oh, and the installment loan for his house? Hehe, my mother-in-law promised ...

My mind is a mess, and I may write wherever I want, but that's probably the case. If you really want to describe his big cousin, it is estimated that you can't finish it for three days and three nights. After all, we stayed up for more than one or two nights, talking about his big cousin's unreliability and her mother-in-law's blind help. I couldn't sleep because of the gas.