Various advertisements and various entertainment circles are conveying various messages of exquisite life. Exquisite women and exquisite little fresh meat are flooding the major media and Internet clients, overwhelming, and there is a strong momentum that will not stop until the world is changed. So much so that people have a feeling: the whole world is full of singing, singing, dancing, sensual dogs and horses, and life is extremely good.

Is this really the case?

How many girls in life are confused by the chicken soup of exquisite life, maxing out various credit cards, Huabei and other lending platforms to support the so-called exquisite life. Earning a salary of several thousand yuan, wearing cosmetics worth tens of thousands of yuan, carrying a donkey bag worth tens of thousands of yuan, wearing faded clothes worth tens of thousands of yuan, and ultimately falling into the abyss of consumption.

Of course, if you are a certain second generation and are not one of the people mentioned in this article, you can continue your exquisite life. I am referring to the type of people who earn a salary of several thousand but envy the life of the rich, and believe that the exquisite life in chicken soup articles can improve your level. This kind of self-deception of exquisite life is not the same as the soap bubbles played in childhood. What's the difference?

Refined life is about improving one’s abilities in all aspects, including the ability to make money, and letting the connotation support a unique temperament, rather than just relying on wearing high-end clothes, carrying famous brand bags, and relying on famous brand outfits. The so-called exquisite life packaged is a pseudo-exquisite life.

The pseudo-exquisite life relies on spending in advance and maxing out various lending platforms until you are in debt and unable to repay it. The ultimate solution to this vicious cycle is for parents to use their frugal pension money to pay off the debt owed by their children's exquisite lives.

It is better to live a rough life like this. At least we should know the hard work of our parents, and know that the money their parents spend is the money they are reluctant to eat and wear, and the money they save from their teeth is the hard-earned money they have earned all their lives.