Let's talk things over, and don't keep it in your heart. Many couples' discord is accumulated in this way. She would rather owe money to herself and want you to live well. She is very kind to you. If she doesn't tell you, she should be afraid that you are worried or that you dislike her poverty. Just take the initiative to talk things over and ask her not to do this in the future. It is not easy to find someone who is good to herself, and cherish it.

personal opinion, if you feel the same way. Thank you

for asking:

I don't think about getting married now, but I can do whatever I want now. In the future, if I get married, I will feel tired. I won't discuss anything with you.

Answer:

So, Find a time to talk things over with her before marriage, so as to avoid conflicts after marriage.

Follow-up:

I want to get better, too. I usually talk about it when I mention it. Can I forget it? I can pay back the money I owe myself, and I am justified. I said I helped her pay it back, but she said no, and she could pay back what she owed herself. I was too vain to be afraid that I would help her pay it back later. I can't stand it these days

Answer:

Personally, if she is really vain, she won't refuse to let you pay back the money, or she is afraid that if you feel fine now, it will leave a shadow in your heart in the future. The main thing is that you don't make it a condition to help her pay back the money, so you can make him feel that you are her boyfriend and it is right to help her pay back the money, but for the sake of getting married in the future, you can't spend a lot of money and so on. Just talk things out bit by bit.