He thought you were joking, so he was joking too. It may be that you have borrowed money in the past and refused to repay it. This is his private money, and you often try to squeeze him dry. In real life, some wives collect all the money from their husbands, regardless of his social activities and personal expenses outside. Many sons also use their private money to honor their parents. In this situation, the husband is very sad. Maybe this is not the case for you, but it's strange. After marriage, isn't the money of the husband and wife the same property? Why do you need to borrow it? I don’t know what’s going on with you