to tell the truth, I feel embarrassed to refuse someone's child's mouth. If the child goes to college, otherwise there is no way out, how can he find me?

However, on the spur of the moment, I called her home and asked. Unexpectedly, the relative said angrily, "Don't lend it to her! This child spends a lot of money at school, and there are no dance halls and karaoke bars. He also pays special attention to dressing up. Don't lend it to her! "

So I found an excuse not to borrow it.

Look at your question carefully. How can you not even have 1 yuan at home?

This should be unreasonable. In ordinary families, if their children need money for school, parents will take it out anyway.

it is simple to say that there is no money at home, but I just don't want to give you the money.

and your grandmother, to be honest, should be an old man in her seventies and eighties. Does she earn a salary? Why won't she borrow it? Did your parents also tell you that the child spends money indiscriminately, so don't borrow it!

So, it's no use complaining about the elderly, but think about life!

That's grandma's fault. When the grandson goes to college, it's okay to give money, not to mention borrowing money!

This problem is similar to that of the neighbor's family. The neighbor's grandson goes to a technical school and spends no less than 3, yuan a month. Every time he asks his parents for money, it is a matter of course domineering. After a long time, his parents will complain. The young man is twenty years old, of course, he doesn't want to listen to his parents' complaints, so he goes to ask his grandmother for money. His parents only give his grandmother 5 yuan for living expenses every year, but she gives him all 5 yuan in a fit of pique. He also says that she is too stingy.

The subject said that the child didn't go to college until he was twenty-two. He is already an adult. If parents don't give money, they should solve the problem themselves, and they can't borrow money from their grandmother. How can an octogenarian have the energy to take care of his grandson? Besides, is this obviously asking for money?

If parents are filial, they must live with grandma. If they live together, their parents are responsible for food, clothing, housing and transportation, so that you don't need it, grandma will naturally take it out for you, because the next generation is closer.

if you have a grievance, you have a debt. Don't judge anyone, but look at what you have done. A person has two pockets, one in the front and one in the back, with advantages in the front and disadvantages in the back. The front is obvious, but the back is invisible, so he always sees his own advantages and doesn't see his shortcomings, and always thinks that he is right and excellent.

People walk the road and earn money. No matter who owes you, you should be more understanding, more grateful, less complaining, have a good personality, get along with each other naturally, and the scenery is everywhere, let alone your relatives! Blood is always thicker than water!

grandma did the right thing. As an adult, I will break into my own world and lay the foundation for stepping into society in the future. Some children don't want a penny from their parents after they go to college, and they earn tuition and living expenses entirely by working on their own. There are children from poor families, children from rich families, and even more, children from rich families. Its purpose is to cultivate their ability to live independently and lay a foundation for society.

first, social competition is cruel, the superior and the inferior are eliminated, the fittest survive and the unsuitable are eliminated. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to live independently and deal with problems from an early age. Adults will not be with them all their lives, and they always have to go their own way.

second, the flowers in the greenhouse can't see the sun, and they will die when they see the light. So cultivate children, don't spoil them. Let them see the world through the storm, fall more, be more careful, not fall into a trap, not gain wisdom.

Third, parents or grandparents, don't be bored with their children, give them whatever they want, and don't even take the initiative to send them. Open your mouth with food and reach out with clothes, which can only encourage children to form the habit of being lazy and form an incorrect outlook on life, values and even morality. It will not help them to improve their ability to adapt to society. Being bored with love is not helping them, but harming them!

You are 22 years old, and you are an adult. If you have any problems, try to solve them yourself. Don't look for grandparents. Grandparents are too old to care for themselves. How can they take care of their children? !

you have no money for college, so you and your parents can solve it together. In fact, tuition fees can be paid back slowly after applying for student loans, and living expenses can be earned through work-study programs or on Saturday and Sunday. It's not enough to find your parents again.

don't borrow it from grandma. Grandpa and grandma are so old, they save two coffin books all their lives, which is more precious than their lives. People are somewhat selfish, and no matter how stupid and honest they are, they will reserve some for their own old age and leave a way back for the future. In case your grandparents are sick and need money one day in the future, will your parents give it to them? ......

You may be from the countryside, right? As an old man in the countryside, he has worked hard for decades and spent all his money to marry his daughter-in-law. If he has no children to give her money in his old age, such an old man will be poor and pitiful. Don't break their hearts again. Any grandparents who don't love their children and grandchildren, I think if they are well-off, they will certainly give generously. People are most afraid of being really poor.

So, your mother-in-law didn't lend you any money, so don't be too considerate of her. Young people should be self-reliant, self-reliant, and break into a new world.

first, the old man has stopped working to make money, and the money in his hand is spent every penny less.

second, you ask for money with a straight eyebrow, even if you say borrow, your intention should be to ask for it. I'm your grandson, so you should pay for it, so you feel wronged if grandma doesn't give it to you.

Third, you didn't go to college until you were 22 years old, which shows that you have either been demoted or re-enrolled, and your grades are not good. Grandma doesn't believe that you borrowed money to go to school.

let me tell you what to do if I encounter such a situation.

First, if I call the school first and explain my predicament, most schools have student loans, but 1 yuan is not a large sum, so I can borrow it and pay it back. Then, during school, work to repay the loan.

Secondly, if the school I attend doesn't have a loan, I will still ask my grandmother, but I will make a written statement and ask my grandmother's trusted relatives to be witnesses. If she has money, she will definitely lend it to me. Then, during school, I will work to pay back the money and earn 1 yuan.

Third, borrow money from your best friend and make a written statement. Then, during school, I work to pay back the money and earn 5 yuan.

Finally, 1 yuan is easy to earn in college, with seven or eight thousand national scholarships a year and many living allowances. You are 22 years old, and you can't rely on your parents and family for everything.

Also, those who say that grandma won't take care of her without paying will know how outrageous your words are when you get old. I will never forget my father holding my sister-in-law's hand at my grandmother's funeral and saying, we have no mother, we are motherless children! Parents are the place where the soul belongs, and parents are the foundation of the family. From that day on, I vowed to be kind to all those who are kind to my parents, and now I feel at ease.

I've just seen an American movie called Crazy Amusement Park. It's about a boy who is about to go to college. He asks his parents for money and says that his business is $2 short. Mom and dad's answer is that you go to work, and you can't ask for money from home anymore. No way, the boy went to the amusement park in the town to earn money. At the amusement park, he met many young people who worked here like him. They fell in love, smoked marijuana, got drunk and crashed, and so on. A holiday was simply turned upside down. By the end of the holiday, when he was ready to go to college in new york with more than 1 dollars, his mother asked him to leave the money, saying that it was just enough to repair his father's car. Naturally, he was responsible for the compensation. In this way, he went to new york, delayed studying for one year, and had to work to earn living expenses and tuition ... This story is about the normal life of most young people in the United States. After the age of 18, the family basically won't support you anymore, and often it is necessary to rely on their own efforts to achieve their desired goals. Grandma didn't lend you money, probably because she wanted to let you know that you are an adult, you have to live within your means during your college years, and it is not easy to raise a college student because your parents are not rich. So you should learn to be frugal as much as possible. You can wait until you graduate and have a job to buy some luxury goods. Your task now is to read a lot and study hard ...

If I were you, I wouldn't ask Grandma for money anyway. You are 22 years old, grandma is at least 6! An old woman in the countryside can't earn money by herself. It must be given by the younger generation. Is it reasonable for the old man not to lend it to you? If grandma's money was given by your father, the old man would certainly not be so stingy. Generally, old people are very fond of their younger generation, and they will give it to you if you don't ask. She must have a reason why you didn't even ask.

1 yuan is still very easy to borrow now, but you don't want to find a way. People in my shop often use money like this. They use flower buds to sweep 1 yuan in my shop, and I pay him 1 yuan in cash. Just remember to pay it back next month, so you don't need to borrow this small money. Besides, the old man takes money seriously because he can't make money. The old man must be worried that you can't pay back or that you will spend money indiscriminately.

Young people remember a saying: "Don't ask for help in small things, it's better to ask for yourself than to ask for help". Times are good now. As long as you have repayment ability, it's quite convenient for banks to get a credit card. But if you don't have repayment ability, don't swipe your credit card. If you can't afford it, you'll be a deadbeat. Remember!

I feel that your grandmother is quite intelligent. You are 22 years old and have gone to college. It stands to reason that you still have the ability to earn 1 yuan, such as tutoring, taking summer jobs, working from the media, and so on. You can make money in many ways.

why don't you borrow money from your parents? It is normal for your grandmother not to borrow money from your parents. She knows that this money is mostly borrowed and never returned, because she thinks that your parents are unwilling to give you money, and this money should not be given to you.

It is also possible that you give your grandmother a bad impression and make her think that you are an unreliable person, so she is unwilling to lend you money.

It is also possible that the relationship between you and your grandmother is not good, and the feelings between your relatives also need to be managed. Usually, you need to spend more time chatting with your grandmother and send her more things to make her old man like you, so that she is willing to be nice to you. People are mutual, not as long as they are relatives who will be willing to help you unconditionally.

Of course, it may be that your grandmother values money too much. There are many such people in life. They value money more than life. They are reluctant to spend money themselves, and even more reluctant to spend money for others, even if he likes this person again.

people still depend on themselves. If you have money, spend it. If you don't have money, try to make money. Don't borrow from the east and borrow from the west. Living with dignity is better than anything else.

The subject is 22 years old, so he is an adult. How dare you borrow money from grandma? You can earn money to subsidize your life by doing anything with work-study programs. If you borrow from your grandmother and the old man won't lend it to you, you will have a grudge. I should really call you a little turtle calf and go to college for nothing.

Young man, don't blame me for my bad words. You have to be ambitious all your life, especially when it comes to borrowing money. No matter whether you borrow from your parents, grandparents, or your seven aunts, it's okay for anyone not to give it to you, because no one gives you money in vain.

If you haven't lived for 22 years, you can only blame your parents for not teaching you how to be a man. Since you are a man, you must have self-esteem. What is self-esteem? Is to respect yourself! The biggest taboo for a big man is to reach out and borrow money from others for nothing. Regardless of the amount of money, it's all about self-esteem, okay?

you said that grandma is not rich, but she is not poor, and she still has some money, but then you can't think about the money saved by grandma. Your grandmother didn't lend it to you, and it was completely correct. Because her old man is afraid that you will spend money lavishly and don't know how to be frugal. From the caring of the elders for their grandchildren, I think she is completely right. Therefore, if you are a reasonable person, don't blame your grandmother for not lending you money.