Suhomlinski, a famous educational practitioner in the former Soviet Union, once said: "The primary task of education is to understand children's spiritual world as deeply as possible." It is not difficult to find that Xiong Haizi has the characteristics of poor self-control, self-centeredness and emotional instability. Among them, there are not only bad demonstrations from the external environment, but also parents' education and communication methods. Parents often oversimplify Xiong Haizi's performance, but they don't realize that these behaviors are just the symptoms of the problem, which leads to a single way of educating their children. The patriarchal style in China's traditional education has also led many parents to ignore their children's spiritual needs. Even if the children's behavior is restrained, the practical problems are not solved, and finally a vicious circle of education is formed.

Hua Rong, when summing up his own views on the age stage, thinks that children's psychological development is continuous, phased and holistic at each stage, and the stage should be divided as a whole, not just from one or some aspects contained in the psychological whole. This is just like Xiong Haizi's various behaviors, and there seems to be no connection. In fact, there is a problem with the law of psychological development, which leads to these behaviors. Based on this, Hua Rongdao's views on children's education are as follows: (1) Hua Rongdao believes that in the past, education mainly focused on enlightening children's wisdom and imparting knowledge, and looked at the development of intelligence in isolation. Now we should emphasize the close relationship between children's intellectual development and the whole personality or between personality development and children's sociality.

(2) Huarong also attaches importance to the importance of school environment to children's psychological development. He believes that the school should be a good environment, and the school's life system, curriculum, textbook selection and teaching methods should adapt to and promote children's psychological development.

In fact, this is the reason why we are carrying out quality education now. The popular concept of STEAM education in the United States is gradually developed from the perspective of children's psychological development law in view of different changes in social environment.

Through hands-on practice and interest cultivation, children's self-concern, logical thinking ability, good emotional management ability, children's potential and self-confidence can be well channeled. In the current changing social environment, if the old education methods are used all the time, children can't communicate effectively and can't adapt to the development needs of the surrounding environment, which may be one of the reasons for the increasing number of "Xiong Haizi".