It's very simple. There are three choices: 1. Accept his shortcomings, provided that you and he plan to go on, then there is no need to hurt feelings for some outsiders. Explain to him again, forget it if you don't want to, and analyze the reasons yourself. Some men don't like troublesome things and value money more. 3 points, you are on the premise of getting married. If you endure these shortcomings for a while now, it will get worse in the future, and it will be troublesome to break up again. Understand? Then take my answer.