Yes, it took as long as a year.

To be honest, the process was not positive at all.

1. In 2015, in a coastal city, I broke up with my boss at work and resigned;

2. At that time, I resigned from my second job in my career (the first job In the company, she was loved by thousands of people). After leaving her job, her mentality collapsed and she was severely hit;

3. She was not interested in anything (including handing over work and handling resignation, my god) . . . .), just want to stay alone, don’t contact any friends, and won’t go to play basketball if asked by my good friends; 4. I have no interest in going for an interview, and I don’t want to find someone new. I feel unconfident when working and submitting resumes, and my heart is very hurt;

5. DIY a desktop computer, huddle in the rented room every day, and play games (competitive, I don’t play online games);< /p>

6. Every day, I fantasize that I can make a comeback and get rich overnight;

7. Until I spend all my money, my credit card is maxed out, and my girlfriend is lost (very perfect A woman, alas...) PS: My girlfriend’s departure has nothing to do with money;

8. In the end, I have no choice but to go home and face my parents to make a living;

9. The turning point came when my father discovered my depression and depressive tendencies and proposed a trip for the whole family (my parents and me) (my father also said wittily that it was to fulfill my parents’ wishes when they were young and make up for their previous regrets);

< p>10. This self-driving tour passed through Shandong, Henan, Hubei, Hunan, Guangxi, Vietnam, Hainan, Guangdong and other places. It lasted for three months, stopping and going, staying wherever you went, with a total journey of 10,000 kilometers;

11. During this wonderful time, I also served as a driver, bodyguard, chef, secretary (booking meals, booking rooms, booking tickets), etc.;

12. Yes, it’s so magical. This period After a baptism-like journey, I am confident that I have recovered my soul. In other words, I have regained my soul. . .

At 13, I quit gaming (I had no time to play and couldn’t play...). During the Chinese New Year in Bama, Guangxi, I started to communicate with friends on WeChat; I drove home from Zhanjiang, Guangdong On the way, I made an appointment for an interview with a new company;

14, the day after I got home, I had a haircut and shave (like a savage), and went to the new company for an interview, and I was successful (I have a high degree of education and a good image, and I worked in the two previous units) They are also leading companies in the industry);

15, on the third day after returning home, I go to work from nine to five.

The above is my window period. I just realized that it is the first time for me to face it and record it. Thank you to the author!