Let me start with two examples of my good friends. One of them, with my age and income, bought a house, a car and even a parking space in a good location a few years earlier than me. When I compare with him, I think it is obvious that our income is similar. Later, he said that his parents are very good at saving money, and they can save100000 almost every month, so he even bought 20000 for fitness classes and hair transplants, but his room is now.

Then my other friend doesn't have much income and solid work skills, but he doesn't want to be old. In fact, I learned later that their family conditions are not bad. Father is a retired teacher, and both parents have pensions. Then he felt that he couldn't turn over with his current ability and didn't want to rely on his parents. Later, he learned to stock and speculate in futures. The futures lost 200 thousand to 300 thousand, which is terrible. He earned the principal by swiping his card, but he didn't expect to lose so much. Later, he was about to jump off a building and collapse, so I analyzed with him that with so much money, others would definitely not be able to help you, and then his family gave him180,000 to fill the hole. Later, he said that if I had known that my family was so rich, I might as well buy a house and pay a down payment.

These two things actually made me change some ideas. At present, it is not easy to do something by one person in this society, but if the whole family raises funds, it seems to be old-fashioned, but the benefits will show up in the later period. Well, to put it bluntly, I still don't understand this society.

I think the word "gnawing at the old" sounds a bit ugly and offensive, but if you put it another way: use your parents' help when necessary, will you still feel uncomfortable?

I read a joke before. I use the money I earn to pay the rent and pay off your mortgage. Nowadays, young people can't say everything, but it is difficult for most of them to save a down payment in big cities. How can you stand in the city? Of course, you can say through hard work, but do you think hard work will lead to attacks? It's not easy, but with the help of parents, you can at least get on the bus before buying tickets, or you can repay your parents' kindness slowly, but you are afraid that you will not be able to give them anything in the future.

Of course, the case does not represent the whole story, but I think the example I cited is still partially representative. With the development of society, values are also changing. There is also a colleague, whose father has at least one security guard, and then somehow relatives and friends borrowed hundreds of thousands to pay the down payment, and now it has increased by one million. He and his wife feel much less pressure now, otherwise, what can two ordinary migrant workers do to earn one million yuan, not to mention that it is not money, selling.

Nowadays, friends are really free, and then they are confident when they go to work. Unlike me, I dare not resign, and the pressure is so great that I collapse. Of course, my parents have nothing to chew, so they fight. Friends who have been trading stocks have completely given up their resistance, and playing games all day has no goal. I said this thing is not to encourage everyone to be conservative, but to learn to assess the situation and not to be too stubborn.