Career stability of civil servants
At any time, a stable job is very attractive for women to choose a spouse. In the past, everyone was married to an iron rice bowl, but now the nature of civil servants' work is similar to that in the past. Because civil servants have stable jobs, once they become civil servants, the variables will not be too big, but stable jobs are the foundation of a stable life, so it is not surprising that women will choose civil servants.
Civil servants work relatively easily.
Compared with the fast-paced white-collar workers, the life of civil servants is obviously much easier. Although the income may not be as high as that of white-collar workers in many foreign-funded enterprises, the pressure is relatively small, which is very beneficial to their health and life. Imagine a woman who wants to find a husband who is too busy to even have time to eat with her.
The welfare of civil servants is perfect.
Compared with other occupations, the welfare benefits of civil servants are naturally more perfect and relatively stable. In the case of relatively perfect material conditions in all aspects, the attraction of this profession will of course show up, with a deep guarantee for work and life and a stronger sense of natural security, which women certainly like.
Civil servants have decent jobs.
Because of these advantages, the career of civil servants is very decent, and people will naturally choose civil servants as the object because they will feel proud psychologically. Women who choose civil servants as husbands feel particularly honored when they say it, and will be envied by everyone to satisfy their little vanity.
Why are civil servants so popular in the marriage market?
When the new round of national civil service examination registration is in full swing, People's Daily conducted a survey, and nearly 70% of the respondents gave priority to "civil servants in party and government organs" when choosing jobs. Some netizens even put forward the controversial view that "money is not as good as power". Why is the current official position so fascinating? Some respondents' views may express some people's feelings: because being an "official", you can "make a fairy descend to earth, and your chickens and dogs ascend to heaven", you can return to your hometown with clothes on, you can worship your ancestors, and you can be respected. The survey results also show that the top three fans of "official fans" are "gray income", "great power utility" and "high social status" respectively; "Serve the people" option lags behind.
Why do so many people favor "civil servants in party and government organs"?
"Because of the compilation, college students strive to be dung pickers; Because of the preparation, the master grabbed the position of the first-line urban management; Still because of the establishment, the position of sanitation workers is relatively hot. " Judging from a series of news related to civil servants, most people's first choice for employment is government agencies, because there are not only stable income, the best welfare, the least risk, but also the opportunity to be an official, which is reflected in the proportion of civil servants applying for some positions in 20 13:1. In addition, civil servants also have a "welfare", that is, male civil servants have the most opposite sex. A domestic dating website once published the "list of the most heterosexual male occupations" on the Internet, showing the top ten occupations favored by women in mate selection, and civil servants topped the list.
Nowadays, when a girl gets married, the requirements for her husband's career path are steady and upward: I am willing to work with you, but only if your career has a bright future, and you must be a serious and potential stock futures man. No one thousand, be sure to be grateful! In this way, only civil servants can best satisfy women's mentality of choosing a spouse: First, they have a base and can protect their capital. It is better to have income, and there is no loss without income. A girl marrying a civil servant is like marrying a two-bedroom apartment-if she is lucky enough to catch up with the demolition subsidy, the two-bedroom apartment may be replaced by a villa; Unfortunately, I can't catch up with the compensation for demolition, so I can live in this two-bedroom apartment for a lifetime. In the most popular phrase nowadays, marrying a civil servant is like eating a "reassurance".
"rich" PK "entitled"
Why do nearly 70% of people agree that "having money is better than having power"? In their view, perhaps when a person becomes an official, he will not only gain a "black hat", but also bring many tangible and intangible benefits. The history of China's ancient and modern officialdom tells people that "official", "fame" and "profit" are interlinked in China. As long as you have power, you can get fame and profit. Although there are many prominent businessmen, there are also some who get up early and get greedy for the dark and start businesses hard; A fierce commercial war with waves and dark tides; Sometimes, from time to time, there will be all kinds of helplessness in asking for bribes from "officials". No wonder many people look down on businessmen intentionally or unintentionally.
According to a survey by Yu, a professor at the School of Management of Shanghai Jiaotong University, 82% of the "rich second generation" are unwilling to take over, but they are as keen on taking the civil service exam as domestic college students, and their ideal is to be an official. The rich second generation of a media boss once said: "No matter how rich you are, you can't listen to the leader." Perhaps from the true feelings of the "rich second generation", we can more or less understand the difficulties of the "rich second generation" in officialdom. They don't necessarily want to be officials themselves, and they don't necessarily want to take the risk of being cheated. However, in the context of "official standard", when a person, no matter how rich, has to bow to a department-level cadre who holds power, the worship of power is naturally difficult to contain, and the temptation to become a "red-top businessman" is also difficult to resist.
Nowadays, although you are rich and as rich as an enemy, you are only "rich but not expensive" and can only "submit to the official"; Although you are a master doctor, well-educated and talented person, you can only "follow the official" when you get along with officials; A "rich man" who is extremely rich or a "well-educated and talented person" can only be a "grandson" in front of an official-you can't refuse to accept it. In addition, when an official is in office, he enjoys all the benefits such as wages and salaries according to his level, and he can enjoy many "hidden benefits" in the officialdom, which even make him benefit for life. Obtaining these "benefits" is not as arduous as learning by scholars, as difficult as starting a business by businessmen, and as risky as investing in stocks by investors.
It is better to marry a rich man than a powerful man.
Nowadays, not only those mothers want a "civil servant son-in-law", but also millions of unmarried girls have begun to join the ranks of "marrying bowls". 20 10 the survey report of China people's love and marriage was released, pointing out that more than 40% of the women interviewed wanted their ideal partner's career to be civil servants, followed by enterprise managers, police/soldiers, business owners and medical workers. Intuitively, girls used to be eager to marry "money", but now they are more eager to marry "power" (of course, if they have power, they will not have no money).
Many years ago, a girl shouted, "I want to marry a rich man!" " "Marrying a rich man is the universal" golden key "that many women dream of, and it is also a 10,000-ton" gold mine "that many women strive for. However, over the years, it has been found that rich people obviously spend more time in the mansions of "women who have lost their feet" and "mistresses" than sleeping next to their wives. Examples such as "whoever values money first doesn't care how he leaves her" abound in society. So girls settle for second best, don't look for Diamond Male or golden men, men don't have too much money, or their wives will send flowers to other women. You can't be too rich or too poor, but you should have a stable income and live a down-to-earth life. Therefore, civil servants have become hot items in the marriage and love market.
Marry a civil servant, and people will say "wow, national cadres" when they mention it! After all, China has been an official society for thousands of years. Being an official wife is undoubtedly a good choice. Being an official's wife is still a matter of face. In the public opinion environment in China, a woman's greatest success is to marry well. And this sentence "marry well" is enough to make women struggle for ten years to think about how to marry the most face! And every official wife has just grown up from the wife of a civil servant! Therefore, girls, if you want to marry a powerful person, you must not only have face, but also be crowding round in the future, bossing around and pampering yourself.