Marriage means that both parties take out their own resources, jointly run the family business and sign a life-long wholesale futures contract.

Maybe everyone has different resources, different functions and different effects, but we must work together to achieve a win-win situation.

Marriage is the same as a company. You should have the core value in it and the ability to be needed by others.

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A key point of maturity is to distinguish what can be changed and what cannot be changed.

Then spend energy and time on things that can be changed.

If you always stare at what you can't change, you are wasting your time, and you are on the way to wasting it.

Think more about what I can do now, not when I was eighteen.

There is no if in life. If thinking just focuses on the unchangeable, you are wasting your time.

3.

Some skills are not taught in school, and most people don't think they are very important, but once you cultivate these skills, your growth and career will be smoother.

For example, a person's humor.

Take myself as an example. Occasionally chat with friends and tell jokes in life. I am also an interesting person, but on the Internet, I can't play this kind of fun at all, and I stutter when telling jokes.

The Internet has developed in recent years, and fun is simply a super-important top-level ability. Interesting teachers are more popular, and interesting sellers are also very likable, but interesting and professional ones are developing well. If you have a job and people are interesting, taking short videos can let more people know about you, like you and get more opportunities. It's fun to think about it.

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There is a interpersonal skill-if you are good to a person, you are good to him.

According to others' reaction, it is easy to judge and not easy to make mistakes.

Just stay away from people who are not good to you, don't fight, and spend this time and energy on maintaining a good relationship with yourself.

What accumulates over time is the benign interaction between hello, me and everyone. No matter love, friendship or business partner, it won't be too bad.

Of course, there are also negative examples of mistakes: for example, there is a word called clear reward and punishment.

It means: you are kind to him, and he regards himself as an uncle, not only ungrateful, but also bullying you in turn;

You don't ignore him or even pua, but he comes to please you, hoping to win your love, and so on.

Don't think this is an example. You can observe that there are actually many such people around you. Over time, such people are surrounded by bullies.