Respecting each other as guests means that husband and wife get along well and respect each other as guests. From "Zuo Zhuan Gong Thirty-three Years": Jiuji (editor's note, that is) made an envoy, passed her, saw her lack, married her, respected her and treated her like a guest. Since then, treating each other like guests has been dedicated to the relationship between husband and wife. Later, in the era of Xuan Di, a Zhang Chang was born. Little is known about his talent, writings and achievements, but Thrushcross is widely circulated. He pushes his wife every morning. When the emperor found out, he thought he was rude, so he should be interrogated. He said that there are more couples' houses than thrushes! The emperor was speechless, that's all. Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Chang became a model of "customer-oriented". It is difficult to count how many role models have been set since the Zhang Chang Conference.
However, I think there are few marriages of that degree in the present society and the present era. To tell the truth, people are under great pressure at work nowadays, and it really doesn't make sense to treat each other as guests when they get home. A happy marriage emphasizes that both husband and wife can have a common language, mutual understanding, mutual respect and mutual support, and then raise their children together and live with peace of mind. But in modern times, mutual respect is often misused, most commonly in family relationships such as mother and daughter, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. There are many reasons for being misused. First, with the rapid development of network words, many ancient terms have been turned out and expressed into other meanings, gradually ignoring their true meanings.
There is also the abuse of these words to expand the meaning of the words themselves, enrich the connotation, give people a refreshing feeling, easy to understand and remember. This is a model of flexible use of language, which is close to life, makes life more interesting, and has more jokes after dinner. Understand the old saying with a teasing attitude, why not?