In middle age, husband and wife have lived together for more than ten years. In this decade, there will be no differences and disputes. After a long time, my heart is tired. Some people are willing to continue to compromise, while others want to work hard and get a new life. At this time, it is easy for women to fall into extramarital affairs. The kindness of others can make up for your disappointment. But it is also possible that with the comparison between others and their husbands, they are more disappointed with the people around them, which leads to the idea of divorce. Of course, if two people live together for a long time, their feelings will gradually fade away. I have been in love before, but I feel embarrassed when I think of what I said. Not only can't say love words, but even the interaction between husband and wife has become perfunctory.
Do you know several reasons why women cheat?
Men are mostly busy with work, while women still keep romantic ideas.
Nowadays, the pace of life is relatively fast, and both men and women are under great social pressure from work and family. Many times, men will completely give up empty fantasies and put all their experiences into work and live a down-to-earth life. After all, there are parents to support and underage children to take care of. The responsibility is very heavy. Therefore, under the great pressure of responsibility, men have no choice. Women bear a lighter burden than men, so most women still have some romantic fantasies about life after middle age and are more emotional. At that time, it was inevitable that my husband was bored at home, full of practical problems, and three sentences could not be separated from the work of the elderly and children, which made people have no desire to communicate. At that time, women couldn't get enough company at home, so they naturally went outside to seek comfort.
When women reach middle age, they already have certain economic strength.
Women have no financial resources and are humble in front of men, so they are not qualified to slam the door and leave. When children are young, some women have to quit their jobs and concentrate on taking care of their children at home. At this time, all living expenses need men. Even if someone tells her husband that there is a lover outside, she will choose to turn a deaf ear and deceive herself to maintain this marriage. She will hint to herself: nothing, men are very picky. As long as he still has this home in mind, he is willing to give me money to spend. Find someone he likes. When a woman reaches middle age, her children don't need to take care of themselves, and her income savings for many years can be self-sufficient. At this time, they can walk upright. At this time, if there are problems in marriage, they will be more free. When you meet a man you are satisfied with, you should also work hard and start a new life.
After years of patience, it has reached the limit of collapse.
Everyone has great or small endurance, and from the perspective of family, women's endurance is even more amazing. Some women, in order to have a complete marriage, can put up with their husbands' bad habits, and their three views are completely incompatible with themselves, even his bad temper of swearing. Women are always full of infinite imagination about the future. When you meet a dissatisfied man, you will comfort yourself: maybe with children, his temper will converge; If he is so amorous, he will not be seen by other women, and he will feel more secure than those men who are full of love words; If you don't like cleanliness, forget it. Men, most of them are so sloppy. I'll coach him again. ...
But with the passage of time, men's problems have not changed, and they are getting worse every day. From patience and persuasion, women have reached the point of complete disappointment. I don't even like my husband at all compared with other men. Middle-aged women have spent more than ten years in this torture. Slowly, their patience was exhausted, leaving only deep disgust. At this time, when you meet a man who makes you look good, you will inevitably have other thoughts.
The nourishment of love
When people reach middle age, marriage is in the middle range, so it is difficult to find love now. Love has long been consumed by daily necessities. Therefore, women who are used to boring marriage will want to find some new excitement at this time, so women will find some playmates around. Maybe this time, when she finds the excitement of love, she will feel better. Otherwise, if her grades go on like this, life without love will be very lonely. Many times, there is a saying that it is better to have someone you like in your heart. It's true. With the nourishment of love, women will be much happier and have more strength to face life.
You can't get love in marriage
After marriage, women face a trivial life. For the growth of children, for her husband's career, and for the needs of the whole family, what she thinks and thinks is put at the end, even if it is only occasionally. Husband and wife have been together for many years, and their passion has long been exhausted by the years. If the husband can understand, it will look good. However, when you meet a man who doesn't know how to cherish his wife, he just takes a woman as a nanny at home and takes her contribution for granted. Women are burdened with tedious housework and suffering from neglect. At this time, if there is a good man in a woman's life, because it has not been cared for and affirmed for too long, once encouraged, it is easy to make a woman move.