Pure love is more often just an imagination in literary works. We look forward to this kind of love in our hearts, but back to real life, we need to know the law of love: what can he use to make him fall in love with you? Love is an exchange to some extent. If you realize this, you won't complain, but you will calm down and face it calmly.

Why fall in love with you VS hamlet-style question

Before he achieved his career, the ups and downs of love made Mr. Wang extremely desperate. After countless hardships and silent persistence, he succeeded. Women expressed their love to him in succession. Only then did he realize that his maturity had become a charming atmosphere, which allowed him to accumulate a kind of strength and conquer love.

Perfect love exists because of mutual conquest. When we are conquered, what strength do we want to use to conquer each other? Love conquered by the other side is beautiful and compatible, but when the other side conquers us, we lack the power to conquer the other side. What do we do? Love has never changed its internal rules, but our kindness is unwilling to admit its cruelty and harshness. When love fails, we should calmly reflect on our own perfection and construction. Why doesn't he love me? Why did you turn me into a dissatisfied housewife? Is he a natural playboy or am I nothing? Am I still a blue chip? Do I still have appreciation potential? ……

The conclusion is probably: you have no value to be used by him. You are no longer young, or at least you are no longer elegant; You nag about trivial things, you don't pay attention to the situation in the Middle East and he lacks exchange of ideas. At this time, you will find that moral constraints become pale and insignificant. After all, you can't save your marriage and get happiness by restraint. Self-pity or hard work? If a woman who has no use value regards the failure of love as a wake-up call and starts to improve herself confidently and bravely, her smile will regain its charming power and love will follow.

This may be the process of life. After the frustration and tempering of love, we will exude a mature beauty of observing human nature through silent persistence and efforts. At that time, we can learn to be tolerant, understanding and considerate. This is the power that we can be loved. Undeniably, when we face love with another mentality, many of our traditional ideals about life and love may be gone forever.