1.

Men also complain, but not in front of women.

Early in the morning, I heard He Mo complain that his wife bought an anti-fall pillow for her children.

"Always buy some unnecessary things, some things are needed but not necessary."

"Is this expensive?" Wen Wen asked curiously.

"A few tens of dollars, an anti-fall mat at home, it's very hot this summer, and children will get hurt if they land on their faces."

"Swing, cradle, everything at home, everything for children, I know this mood, but some things are really unnecessary."

"It is estimated that there will be a big fight over this consumption concept one day." He Mo kept talking with helplessness.

"Just divorce, and find a stepmother who is a few years younger than her mother." Manager Cao next to He Mo said with a smile.

"It's a shame to know you." General Cao's wife is particularly unhappy.

"After I got married, I used the money I earned to buy things for my children."

He Mo has been complaining about his wife. In 1995, his ID card was one year younger than his real age, and he didn't get a marriage certificate until the child was born.

I bought a house with a down payment in Chengdu, but I didn't decorate it. I have always been worried about the decoration. I still need 6, yuan or 7, yuan to decorate a full set, and I have never had a clue.

My wife is still shopping at the rental office. He is under great pressure and wants to make money quickly every day.

2.

Men want to make money, but they always go the wrong way.

Xiao Mo graduated as a flight attendant, and his wife started talking at school. After that, she invested in stocks, and now she is working as a computer.

Computer technology makes money. It's normal to have 2, to 3, yuan a month with good technology, but it's another matter with bad technology.

The company is investing in currency circle and bitcoin virtual currency. The currency goes up and down every day without going up or down, and Xiao Mo is moved. Currency circle, like futures, trades 24 hours a day.

He spends time looking at coins every day and is learning skills, but he always feels that the effect is too slow, so he takes the decoration money to play.

When something unexpected happened, the coin circle plummeted, and the coins bought lost 8% at once.

the money for the house is gone, and there is more shortage.

having dinner with manager Cao in the evening, I told manager Cao that he had lost money, so I was depressed and afraid to tell my wife.

it's not enough to install a house, but now it's even harder. The big man cried, too. General Cao told him to go back and tell his wife that it was always good to share the burden and confess.

I went home drunk and cried as soon as I entered the house. I told my wife that I lost money in buying coins, and I lost 8% in my investment failure. Now I need more than 1, yuan to install a house.

My wife forgave him for the sake of the child. I hope we can find a way together, whether we borrow it or rent a house for a year or two.

3.

A failed gambler is that he doesn't have enough money.

The ancients cloud dogs can't change eating shit, teaching can't be taught, and there is no way to change the breed.

Xiao Mo has been honest for four months. When he goes out for dinner, he finds that all his friends are playing gambling games. Registered members can get benefits by pulling people's heads. The more they go offline, the more money they have.

he knows that routines are the same as pyramid schemes, but he is not willing to lose money in the currency circle and wants to change places to earn back the decoration money.

I didn't attract people, and I liked to bet inside.

It is said that there are rules, and he keeps looking for rules. Every gambler wins Zhuang's money, but the loser is never Zhuang.

At one or two o'clock in the middle of the night, a person turned on the computer to play, and his wife and children fell asleep, and began to make money for their children's wives. As a result, they lost more and more, and slowly another farmer lent him money, and he wanted to turn over the books.

he lost 3, in one night.

I played until 7: or 8: the next day, and went to work as usual in order not to let my wife find anything unusual.

But it's really hard. If you want to go back to your books every day, it's good to go back to your books. It's hard to pay off gambling debts, and you're in a daze at work.

It's also awkward to talk at home. My wife found out that he was wrong and kept asking questions. He Mo finally told her.

This time, his wife has been bored for a few days, and there is no vitality at home. Her wife is also thinking about the future. Now that she has children, do you want to follow someone who is very anxious in the future?

There are still 4 to 5 years in the future. Can you bear to be in debt again and endure hardships until your children grow up?

In the end, his wife chose to divorce, sold the house to pay off his debts, and gave the rest as child support.

it only takes a few hours, not a long time, to break up a family.

4.

Being tired is not finding a wife, but being unable to find a wife.

Many people go the wrong way and say that they are doing it for their families and friends, and they want to do it for themselves most. They don't want to make themselves tired, too poor or looked down upon by others.

you can never escape poverty by blaming others. Going the wrong way is not because you are young, but because you don't know yourself at all.

Being young is no reason to make mistakes. At the age of 18, a murderer is liable to criminal law, not to mention a person in his twenties.

Modern young people are too anxious to become Ma Yun overnight.

I agree with what Cao Dewang, an entrepreneur in his seventies, said in Ten Years and Twenty People.

He Mo and his wife divorced, not because his wife didn't want to take it together, but because his anxious psychology didn't give the children and his wife enough sense of security.

Almost every day, my wife worries about whether he will gamble again, and whether he will scrape together money after gambling at home.

5.

A successful gambler gambles not on money but on the times.

Every successful person is a successful gambler. They bet their wealth on the unknown areas of the times. They never speculate and will definitely control the risks. They are just having fun on the table. Losing is nothing but pocket money.

A failed gambler only thinks about income and risks, but has no ability to control large sums of money. With money, he will only eat, drink and be merry, and eventually fall from the peak to the bottom.

When you go gambling, think about whether you have anything to mortgage, and whether you can start from scratch after mortgage.

no matter whether we are faced with money or feelings, we are always a moth to the fire, always holding a glimmer of hope to try, and then regretting after trying.

even if given another chance, I will still walk the same way. Because I didn't know that I would be so embarrassed now.

Many people will say that it's good to live in the present and be happy. It doesn't matter what you have done, what matters is to be happy now.

actually, I don't think that being happy now doesn't mean that I won't regret it in the future. Those who won't regret it are often those who have a good life in the future, and those who have a bad life will regret it.

Time will not go back, so we must take every step solidly.

I hope we can find the right direction and keep our feet firmly in the era of chasing.

last question: I want to ask, is it worth it to be happy now and suffer in the future?

P: I don't like being blind to myself. It is extremely irresponsible for me to ignore the future just for fun.

I don't know the future, but I must know that what I do now will have an impact on the future.

When choosing, consider the worst result. If you can accept it, do it. If you can't accept it, think again.