Husband and sister are two people. According to my husband, my eldest sister-in-law has been strong since she was a child. She always bullies her own brother. Therefore, the relationship between the two brothers and sisters has not been very good since childhood.
My parents-in-law are all workers in state-owned enterprises, and their family conditions are OK. Mother-in-law is more fond of children, while elder sister-in-law has been spoiled since childhood and developed some bad habits. She is rather delicate, a little selfish, doesn't care much about people and doesn't know how to love her parents. However, I just have a mother-in-law who doesn't know how to love herself, but loves her daughter everywhere.
Because of femininity, elder sister-in-law can't read. After graduating from high school, I worked outside and soon brought back a boyfriend from other places.
Sister-in-law's boyfriend's family is poor and the conditions are very poor. When my eldest sister-in-law asked him, her parents-in-law did not agree, but my eldest sister-in-law insisted on marrying, and her mother-in-law was very helpless.
Sister-in-law and boyfriend lived together without a formal wedding. Without a house, they live in their husband's house. My husband likes to brag all day, and he gets angry when he listens.
My sister-in-law's husband only knows how to cheat my husband's family and try his best to get her to take things from home. Sister-in-law also listens to her husband and cries in front of her mother-in-law all day. Mother-in-law is soft-hearted, and she helps her sister-in-law whenever she cries poor.
Two people are at my mother-in-law's house, eating spicy food and drinking spicy food, but they never give living expenses. I only buy some fruits and vegetables occasionally. My husband hates them. Husband told her mother-in-law that you should not spoil them, they will not cherish you. But my mother-in-law just wouldn't listen.
They stayed in their mother-in-law's house for three or four years, and the children they gave birth to were brought up by their mother-in-law. Later, I saved some money, took 65438+ million from my parents-in-law, and then bought a suite near the town, which is a home.
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Because they don't live far away, they go back to my mother-in-law's house almost every day, and her mother-in-law cooks for them every day. After dinner, they don't even brush the dishes.
Sometimes my husband can't stand it anymore and says to her mother-in-law, "Mom, don't do this again." But my mother-in-law just wouldn't listen.
My husband and I got married the year after my sister-in-law got married. Because of my sister-in-law, there are some contradictions between my mother-in-law and me. Later, there was no way, and my husband volunteered to live separately from his parents-in-law.
After I separated from my mother-in-law, I basically didn't go to see my mother-in-law except for holidays. I gave birth to a baby, also brought by my mother. In fact, my husband can understand my feelings. Because my husband knows it's really fucking wrong, but my mother-in-law is like this. What can my husband do?
My husband advised me to say, "forget it, let's be open-minded." My sister-in-law came over with them to eat and drink more. Our conditions are ok, don't worry about them. "
In order not to embarrass my husband, I try not to mention the unhappiness of my mother-in-law and sister-in-law in front of my husband. In this way, we finally live in peace. We turn a blind eye to eldest sister-in-law staying at her mother-in-law's house all day.
Sister-in-law ate and drank, her parents-in-law became ill, and her figure disappeared. Either her back pain or her leg pain. Last year, my mother-in-law fell and was hospitalized for ten days. My father-in-law and my husband have been very busy. My sister-in-law bought some presents and didn't stay with her mother-in-law all night. My husband is very unhappy.
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As I said before, my eldest sister-in-law borrowed 65,438+million from my mother-in-law when she bought a house. It's been seven or eight years, and my husband thinks it's time for them to return it. However, my sister-in-law seems to have forgotten this matter and never mentioned it again.
My mother-in-law never asks them for it. This Spring Festival, my husband and I went to my mother-in-law's house. Husband directly asked her mother-in-law: "My sister lent you 65,438+10,000. Why haven't you returned it yet? " Mother-in-law said, "Your sister's family conditions are not good. I'm not going to ask them for it. Just give it to her."
My husband was very angry and said, "My sister is always crying poor. Their salary is not low now. They usually eat and drink at my house without any cost. You usually give them something to eat and drink, but how can you not give up your pension money with this 65438+ 10,000 yuan? "
I couldn't help interrupting and saying to my mother-in-law, "You should ask your daughter for it. You gave it to her now. If you are sick, they will leave you alone. " Haven't you learned enough from your last illness? "
As soon as I spoke, my mother-in-law became angry and said to me, "I will give my own money to whoever I like." If you feel uncomfortable, I'll give you 65438+ ten thousand. Anyway, I'm old and it's no use asking for this money. I'll give it to you earlier. "
I sighed in my heart, what a confused mother-in-law. We all don't know what to do with such a mother-in-law.