First of all, you should understand what is the purpose of making friends with the big boss, what is your starting point and what you should prepare. After sorting out these basic questions, I think you can communicate with the big boss better.

The so-called "nothing goes to the three halls", making friends with the big boss is nothing more than finding a job, making money and finding a way. This purpose should be clear and not ambiguous. In order to make money, you must be willing to give up money and have a clear understanding of the material consumption of the big boss. If you are timid about the money you should spend, why not talk about opening up a road to get rich? Big boss won't give you a chance to get rich!

For job hunting, you should clearly understand the boss's living habits and power, and what convenience it can bring you. If you want to be promoted, you should do your job well, show the value and influence of your efforts in front of the boss, and help him solve problems from the boss's living habits and personality, so as to get the position you want.

For seeking Tao, I am not clear about my development plan and confused about the future. In this respect, making friends with the big boss is based on your recognition of his values and outlook on life, so that the big boss can feel that his value can be highlighted and can influence others, and he will let you enter your field and let you take fewer detours. Always be modest and prudent to the big boss and recognize your own ability and value.

Everyone is choosing a younger brother. I didn't expect a younger brother to choose a big brother, a very capable big brother, and they are congenial, which is very helpful for your development and career progress! You should observe what kind of boss you can unconditionally obey and what kind of boss can convince you, so that your work field can be continuously broken through under the leadership of the boss.

Therefore, to admire the big boss, we must be specific to a certain aspect. It is necessary to befriend them, but our own ability and efforts are also indispensable factors.

I'm so excited to see the big shot I admire. I have to think of some suitable people to chat with to make friends. I think most of the bosses I admire are outstanding at work. Then I will have a professional conversation with him to find answers to some of my doubts. Boss, always in our line of work, most of them are struggling and like to bring new ones.

Maybe my question can also give the big boss a hint. Maybe we can talk about a place. I think anyone who can be a big boss at work should be an excellent type with strong working ability. This kind of person, you can talk to him elsewhere, you know him well, and it is no problem to do your homework in advance. If you don't understand, ramble with others, and it is estimated that people will bother you soon.

It is so easy to meet a big boss, and such a good learning opportunity is also annoying. How disgusting is this? Honesty and pursuing the boss's * * is the best way for you to befriend. But the premise of the problem is not to be too naive. If you ask such a low-level question, it is estimated that people will ignore you, let alone befriend you and directly blacklist you.

We have to make friends with others in college life or social work, which is called "flattery". If this can be done, it shows that such people can stand firm in real life.

However, one of the problems we face is how to befriend the boss we admire and how to get on well with that person, from the initial indifference to the fact that the boss will take the initiative to find us later.

As for this, I think everyone will know some basic practices. We will always be around these bosses, and the cigarettes that bosses often smoke must be brought with us. Whenever the boss wants to smoke, give it to them and light it. These may be condescending, but if we want to make friends with them, we really have to do so. If the bosses have any problems, we should solve them and help them as soon as possible.

Usually, what's your specialty? Give them to your boss for him to taste. If you feel good and later become dependent, it means that you can't live without your boss in the future. He will often ask about your specialties and visit your home occasionally.

Anyway, if you want to achieve any benefits, you must think of the big boss. After a long time, your attitude will change and you will take it with you in the future. For some so-called dinner parties and wine bureaus, you have to give up drinking and gradually become the right-hand man of the big boss, which is many times better than making friends.

We regard it as our good friend. We should always know that he is like an elder from the beginning, and we should be respectful and polite. Only after a long time can we avoid this situation, and we will all see how people around the big brother do it in TV dramas. A little imitation is enough for us.

First of all, you can learn about his special hobbies, such as flower cultivation, tea art and Go. Generally, bosses have some hobbies of self-cultivation. If you can know a little about these hobbies and introduce yourself briefly, if you really have something important to ask him for help, you can give him some of these things. It doesn't have to be expensive. After all, people have seen everything, but you must be careful, he will feel it. If you use these to start communicating with him, he will be happy to talk to you, and he may become a good friend in this way.

Some bosses like history very much. You can get to know him better before, then talk to him and express your opinion. It's best to have a few drinks and snacks by the way. After talking like this for several hours, he must feel that he has met a bosom friend, or even a brief encounter.

Don't think about things in front of him, and don't speak in front of him. Generally, this kind of big boss has seen many people and things, and it is easy to identify your small thoughts, which will make you even more disgusted. Talk more about things in life, so that he can get emotional easily. It's also easy to make friends.

The wine table and dining table are also a good opportunity. Generally, on this occasion, everyone doesn't talk about business, just eat, drink and be merry. If you can let him rest until you relax, it will be easy to become his friend. You can have a few more drinks with him, which will make him feel that you are saving his face. Generally speaking, people are often real at this time, so as long as you add more skills and arouse the resonance of the other party in time, it is easy to reach the other party's heart.

People's troubles are easy to show at this time and want to talk to each other. If you can be a good listener and give a little comfort at this time, he will definitely feel close to you, and it is perfect to befriend him at this time.

I think if it is a big boss, it must be sincere.

Let me analyze it for you. The boss you admire is definitely not an ordinary person. He must have made outstanding achievements in some aspects. Right? This kind of person must have experienced all kinds of storms. There must be some people flattering him. He must have his own way of looking at people. Don't be cautious or anything. Sincerity is the most important thing.

Show your most sincere attitude, and then start with the topic. You must know the people you admire. If it is not enough, we can know what he likes, what books he reads and what hobbies he has through the people around him. Of course, people around you will know very well, and it is also an art to have a good relationship with people around you. It depends on your ability at this time. If you can get on well with the people around him, you will soon get close to the big boss. I always feel that the people around the big boss are not mortal.

Then there is the lack of a suitable opportunity. If the boss you admire is a powerful businessman, then you can jump ship to his company and conquer him with your ability. Then, if you are really capable and just say that you lack an opportunity, I don't recommend you to gain the appreciation of the big boss by small means. But if the ability is average, I think it is ok to befriend. Gnome male-",after all, this society is this reality. Otherwise, why do so many employees' leaders like to kiss up?

If the boss you admire is a master of literature, then this is very simple. Read his masterpieces at home, read a lot and enrich yourself. If you can see his writing mood from his works, then you are successful. Big brother will treat you with special respect. Of course, opportunities don't come often. If necessary, we can make one.

Finally, the right time, the right place and the right people, if you play well, then it is no problem for you to dock with the big boss. But I still hope that everyone can be down-to-earth, after all, the road they have come out of is the safest.