It is said that women will not love men if they are not bad, and women will love bad men, but one is bad and the other is bad. The bad men mentioned here are not essentially bad men. Below I have prepared some examples of men turning bad, I hope it will be helpful to you!

The reasons why men become bad

First, good men are trusted more

Would you believe that a good man would do these bad things? Of course not , so they can do bad things blatantly. Under the aura of a good man, everyone, including you, will trust him, thereby neglecting the necessary supervision of him.

The most difficult thing to prevent is the kind of ant nest that is difficult to detect from the inside out. It looks very strong and safe on the outside, but a big hole has been dug deep in the dam body. The slightest movement of any ant may cause the entire dam to collapse in an instant.

Second, they are good at pretending

Good men are the kind that make people feel very considerate and caring. They will care about all your details and make you Feel like you are cared for. It’s just that there are really too few truly good men in this world, and I don’t even think there should be such a thing as a good man.

A good man is a prisoner. If he is kept in prison for too long, he will do some incredible things. Of course, I am not defending a certain beastly man, but we could have looked at these issues more objectively and timely. Good men are men too, and they are not noble at all.

Third, they all have dark hearts

You can’t tell from the outside, but in fact they are bad inside. There is something wrong with their character or quality first. Just think about it, aren’t you a good man? So what do you do to let people say you are good? You have to let people watch, right? Let people watch, so you have to act, right?

What is that? Acting? Acting means acting out what is not into yes, and what is false into being true. If you are like a star who occasionally performs in a play, that's it. But if you have to perform all this in front of the people closest to you and in front of everyone for many years, how difficult it would be. Without those who suppress themselves and continuously It is absolutely impossible to act well by coaxing and deceiving and keeping a straight face and a heart that does not beat. In the final analysis, you have to be good at hypocrisy!

Being a good man is not easy, but not all good men are. Really a good man. As women, we should see clearly whether he is a really good man or a sinister type. If we accidentally meet such a man, we will be unlucky. Maybe one day he will start to treat us badly, and it is It's a very bad kind, so women should be more cautious. In fact, don't always look for a great man, as long as he treats you well, it will be simpler and happier.

Symptoms of men becoming bad

They come and go without a trace, don’t know their origins, and don’t let you see their family and friends

Some men just want to play It's just for fun, so if you are in contact with a man over 25 years old and you are not too familiar with him, then if you want to have a long-term development with him, you'd better understand his background first. Develop feelings later. Otherwise, it is very likely to become a third party. As for men who claim to be divorced, they must be extremely vigilant. You must know that bad men always like to make their experiences extremely painful. In fact, many of them are exaggerations and fabrications. Their real purpose is to attract your sympathy and love.

Divorced men whose careers are in decline

Divorced men whose careers are unsuccessful and make people feel depressed must have a reason, or they are indulged in lust instead of work, or there is something wrong with their lives. Hitting the wall at every turn, such a person will not only fail in his family, but also in his career. If you are attracted by the other person's rhetoric, you are doomed to die. In addition, this kind of man often has an honest and loyal look on his face. The more this kind of man is, the more untouchable he is! Because the real sex-hungry people are not diamond kings, but this kind of men. In order to get temporary pleasure, anything can be said and anything can be done.

No matter how gentle his love words are, no matter what future he promises, you must be careful about a man who rushes to bed after you have only known him for a short time or before the relationship has deepened. Don't think that just because he wants you, he loves you. With the development of society now, although men and women are no longer as conservative and feudal about sex as they used to be, don't think that if you refuse to go to bed, you have refused love. At least in the early stages of love, these are two concepts. Therefore, don’t go to bed with the other person before confirming the relationship! Even if you have physical needs, don’t. Because of the result of having sex in the end, or you are just one of his fun objects.

Middle-aged men who like to be close to little girls

Mature and wealthy middle-aged men are not necessarily good. Although they have experience and know how to take care of others, nowadays These middle-aged men are good at playing a combination of father and lover, giving you warmth and care, and trying to possess your innocence and beauty. Once given a chance, damage is inevitable.

Poor men

This does not mean that they never dislike the poor and love the rich. In reality, many men have experienced all kinds of hardships in the world because of poverty since childhood. Their hearts have long been hard and cold, selfish and closed-minded, especially their appearance. The better-looking ones are more realistic and snobbish. Such men must be killed in sight. You know, one day, when this kind of man becomes rich, he will show his ruthless and unjust side. The more you pay, the greater the harm.

A man who holds you in the palm of his hand and is afraid of touching you, and holds you in his mouth for fear of melting

Although this kind of man is very good to you, if one day you feel that he is not suitable for you And when you want to separate, his violent reaction will make you overwhelmed. Cautious men are not allowed to do so. But regardless of whether he is beautiful or ugly, for a boy who is sincerely interested in you, even if you reject him, you must consider his mood. Although some boys are innocent at first, but after being hurt, they become cold-blooded killers of women. In this regard, girls are not without responsibility.

There are often men around women, and there are always some hidden bad men hiding among them, and women must recognize these men clearly. What kind of man is a bad man? Six types of hidden bad men women should recognize!

There are many girlfriends around who like to recount the past and recall the men they passed by. Some say that if not She was too demanding and wanted to meet his family early, which caused her resentment. She had already been sweet and happy with her beloved Li Ying. Some people said that the boy she had a crush on showed her feelings to her that night, and she was extremely moved, but she refused when the boy finally proposed to sleep with her. , thus missing out on a beautiful marriage. Silly woman, please wake up. There are indeed good men, but hidden bad men are among them. What regrets do you have about missing a bad man? It’s just one less man to sleep with.

In order to avoid being hurt, keep your eyes wide open and never provoke some hidden bad men!

It is said that women will not love men if they are not bad, but women will love bad men. But one thing is not that bad, and the bad man mentioned here is not essentially a bad man. There are always men around women, and there are always some hidden bad men hiding among them, and women must recognize these men clearly. What kind of men are bad men? Six types of hidden bad men women should recognize!

Reasons why men’s tempers are getting worse

Frequent insomnia

< p> A British survey called "Dreams: Sleep in a 24/7 Society" found that about 50% of bad-tempered bosses are caused by lack of sleep, and they admit that they will be depressed due to fatigue caused by lack of sleep. Colleagues yell and berate subordinates mercilessly. The same goes for ordinary employees. 39% of them are grumpy due to lack of sleep, and 19% are very prone to making mistakes at work.

Scientists have explained the scientific basis. If we don't sleep for two days and two nights, the brain will "restart" and shift the control center from the usual "calm and rational" control area to the "emergency" control area. This control area switches people's behavior patterns. For a more intuitive "fight-flight" mode, resulting in a irritable temper.

You can let him: take a nap at noon. The only way to solve the bad temper caused by sleep problems is to take a nap. For example, if he takes a nap at noon, a more luxurious way is to open an "hourly room" for his lunch break.

Excessive stress

Stress is the most important factor in men’s bad temper. Because under stress, men will be in a fighting state, and there will be more of a substance called "catecholamines" in the body. The original intention of this substance is to increase a person's combat effectiveness. Now too much catecholamines will cause an increase in toxins in the blood, thereby damaging liver cells. This is what Chinese medicine calls "anger hurts the liver".

You can let him relax by singing karaoke. Going to KTV to sing together after work is the best way to relax, and rock music is the most liver-tonifying music style. It can regulate the liver meridian and smooth the qi movement, achieving the effect of tonifying the liver and strengthening the kidneys. It is an effective treatment for... First aid measures for liver injury caused by anger. The same way to achieve the liver-tonifying effect is to soak in hot springs and exercise.

Eat junk food

Junk food already has a bad reputation, and recently British scientists have stepped on this bad reputation. They divided male subjects into two groups, one group was supplemented with a truly balanced and nutritious diet, and the other group was only given French fries and chicken burgers. After a year, they found that the group of boys who only ate French fries and chicken burgers became Bad tempered and violent. Scientists have found that this is related to a fatty acid called ?-3?. People who eat junk food for a long time will lack this fatty acid in the brain, causing the brain to lose flexibility and the ability to control emotions, leading to an increase in violent tendencies.

You can let him: eat fish burgers. If you have to choose fast food for a certain meal, make it a fish burger. Deep-sea fish (such as mackerel, salmon, silverfish, herring and herring) are rich in unsaturated fatty acids?-3?, which is a guard that defends the image of a good man.

Skipping breakfast

Skipping breakfast not only affects digestion, but also makes men’s temper bad. American scientific research has found that skipping breakfast worsens men's mood and visuospatial memory, but has no effect on women. Scientists believe this is related to the poor energy supply to the brain caused by skipping breakfast.

You can let him: eat a piece of chocolate for breakfast. Nutrition experts suggest that breakfast should be eaten like an emperor, with unrefined cereals such as whole wheat and brown rice as the main component, supplemented by meat, vegetables, and fruits. It is not only nutritionally balanced, but also has sufficient calories. In this way, blood sugar will slowly rise, maintaining energy supply throughout the morning, and also supplementing multiple vitamins.

However, it is best to have chocolate or hot cocoa on the breakfast table. Chocolate can not only quickly replenish the brain's energy supply, but also contains substances that increase happiness and make bad temper disappear.