The better a man’s career, the greater the probability of divorce

After reviewing hundreds of divorce cases, I found that the better a man’s career, the greater the probability of divorce, but the reasons are not complete. It's an extramarital affair, but - emotional internal friction.

Give me an example. When you first got married, you and your partner were on the same starting line. A few years later, when his career gets bigger and bigger, but you keep stagnating, the insecurities deep in your heart will be aroused, and you will start to feel anxious and anxious. Worried about gains and losses, always worried that he will change his mind and abandon me.

So, you start to demand and control him. For example, they stare closely at the person of the opposite sex next to him, frequently check his mobile phone, and ask him to report his daily schedule and what time he must go home in the evening.

Only when he obeys you and tolerates you can you be sure that he loves you, and your inner uneasiness can be temporarily eliminated, and you will feel a little better.

But if these behaviors continue for a long time, they will inevitably make your partner feel rebellious and feel tired and depressed when getting along with you. It seems that no matter what you do, they can't give you the sense of security you want. Gradually, he will start to alienate you and the family.

His alienation and escape often do not make you realize your own problems. Instead, they will aggravate your inner uneasiness and make you constantly guess: He has really changed his heart and does not love you. I'm gone, there's another woman out there.

As a result, you will use greater efforts to control him and vent your emotions to him, eventually causing the relationship between husband and wife to fall into a vicious cycle until the relationship completely breaks down. As a result of this, is it really the person who has become a better person who has changed his mind? It doesn't seem to be the case.

But when the partner becomes better, the other partner does not choose to improve himself, fails to detect the partner's needs, and fails to provide him with sufficient emotional support. Instead, he is controlled by uneasy emotions, which plunges the couple's relationship into a deep depression. In the internal friction.

So when your partner gets better and better and you want to stabilize your marriage, you must either work hard to improve yourself and keep up with his pace; Emotions control you.