Marriage is a partnership between a man and a woman in three aspects: body, spirit and property, just like two people running a company in partnership. Looking for a partner should regard marriage as the most important venture in life: "You are not looking for a meal ticket or a child's father, but looking for a life partner, merging assets, reducing financial risks, enriching life experience and improving life quality."
Because no matter whether it is love or material, whether it is suitable or evenly matched, whether it is character or outlook, there is no guarantee that two people can be happy. Love can guarantee happiness in two or three years, material things can ensure happiness in life, being well-matched and evenly matched can ensure that people will not be bullied and degraded, and personality and outlook on life can ensure that the bottom line of hurting each other will not be too cruel. < P > People think that love and a good material life are the guarantee of a happy marriage, but there are too many variables and possibilities in marriage. If you are not good at business, you can't ensure happiness.
the secret of a happy marriage is to run a marriage like a company.
Marriage Law actually defines marriage as a partnership company. It is neither responsible for the continuation of love in marriage nor for the sweetness of marriage life. Only by excluding any romantic attributes can marriage be protected and restricted by law. The only thing that the law can do is to establish a formatted minimum statute for the "business" behavior of both parties after marriage. Under the constraint of this statute, the interests of both parties can be equally but minimally guaranteed. When marriage can't go on, the latest judicial interpretation of marriage law is roughly equivalent to formulating a set of general provisions for the "partnership enterprise" of marriage when it goes bankrupt and liquidates.
Marriage is a partnership company, in which husband and wife not only enjoy each other economically, but also blend each other's resources and penetrate their respective circles of friends and relatives. It turned out that I was in trouble, and I was under great pressure alone. When I got married, I had help, so I wouldn't be isolated.
In marriage, both people appreciate each other, identify with each other as human beings, and feel that they can be entrusted. The two partners integrate resources, give full play to their respective strengths, and work hard for the same goals and future plans of this family. In the course of operation, both parties keep communicating and understanding, and understand their respective principles and bottom lines.
in a marriage, if you lose everything, you will be honored. Sometimes losing is winning, and winning is losing. In marriage, you may wish to operate with the mentality of a pair of partners, and each other will consider each other's feelings and positions more. Pursuing a win-win marriage will not break up and will last and be comfortable.
If one of the partners in a company enjoys the success, while the other party works hard for the company, or one of them can't keep up with the pace of the market behind closed doors, while the other party's ideas and thoughts are at the forefront of the market, such company partners will have great contradictions. Without tolerance and understanding, the company will not be far from bankruptcy.
the company needs both husband and wife to create economic income for the family, share family responsibilities equally, perform life responsibilities such as housework, child care, pension, personal relationship management, support each other, achieve each other, and make progress together. This kind of marriage is a happy marriage.
Only in this way will the share value of the company continue to increase, and there will be considerable dividends every year. It must be a century-old store in the future, and it will last for a hundred years.