In Zhoukou, Henan Province, an old man aged 16 left home angrily because of complaints from relatives. In the end, the man returned to his hometown under the leadership of his father and relatives. This incident has attracted the attention of many netizens. He warned many people that parents and children must pay attention to ways and means of communication.
First of all, parents should be reasonable when communicating with their children. Many times, because there is a generation gap between parents and children, many emotions of children are not accepted and understood by parents. Children cry painfully in their own world, but parents can't feel the same. As a parent, I think we should learn to feel children's feelings and try to walk into their hearts in order to communicate at a deeper level.
Secondly, don't judge children at will. Many parents especially like to judge their children casually. In fact, such an evaluation will only harm your own children. Whether praising or criticizing children, we should be as specific as possible and describe what is good and what is not. Sometimes a sentence evaluation may make him have a wrong understanding of himself, because his cognitive ability is limited, and he will also evaluate himself with his parents' evaluation.
In addition, parents should pay attention to some nonverbal communication, such as touching children and kissing them. Sometimes, children's understanding of things is achieved through the senses, not through hearing. For example, parents' hugs and touches make him feel warm and loving, kisses make him feel happy and happy, nods make him feel recognized and encouraged, and smiles make him feel tolerant and loving. These exchanges are very effective and play an important role in helping children grow up.
The above are the precautions for parents to communicate with their children.