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Men will complain, but not in front of women.

Early in the morning, I heard He Mo complain that his wife bought a fall pillow for the child.

"Always buy some unnecessary things, some things are needed but not necessary."

"Is this expensive?" Wen Wen asked curiously.

"A few tens of dollars, an anti-fall mat at home, it is very hot this summer, and the child will be injured when he touches the ground."

"Swings, cradles, everything at home, everything for children, I know this mood, but some things are really unnecessary."

"It is estimated that one day there will be a big fight because of this consumption concept." He Mo kept talking helplessly.

"Just divorce and find a stepmother who is a few years younger than her mother." Manager Cao next to He Mo said with a smile.

"It's a pity to know you." General Cao's wife is particularly sad.

"After I got married, I used the money I earned to buy things for my children."

He Mo, who has been complaining about his wife, was one year younger than his real age in 1995, and only got a marriage certificate after the child was born.

I bought a house in Chengdu with a down payment and didn't decorate it. I've been worried about the decoration. The complete renovation still needs 60,000 to 70,000 yuan, and I have never had a clue.

My wife is still shopping in the rental office. He is under great pressure and wants to make money quickly every day.

02.

Men want to make money, but they always go the wrong way.

Xiao Mo was a flight attendant when he graduated, and his wife started talking to him at school. After that, I invested in stocks, and now I work as a computer.

Computer technology makes money. It's normal to have a good skill of 20 thousand to 30 thousand a month, but a bad skill is another matter.

The company invests in bitcoin virtual currency in the investment currency circle, and the currency goes up and down every day, without going up or down. Xiao Mo has moved, and the currency circle is like futures, trading 24 hours a day.

He spends time looking at coins and learning skills every day, but he always feels that the effect is too slow, so he takes the decoration money to play.

Something unexpected happened, and the coin circle plummeted, and the money bought suddenly lost 80%.

The money in the house is gone, and more is missing.

Have dinner with manager Cao in the evening and tell manager Cao that he lost money. He was too depressed to tell his wife.

It's not enough to install a house. It's even harder now. The big man also cried. General Cao told him to go back and tell his wife that it is always good to share the burden and confess.

I came home drunk and cried as soon as I entered the room. I told my wife that I lost money in buying money, lost 80% in investment failure, and now I lack hundreds of thousands of houses.

The wife forgave him for the sake of the children, hoping to find a way together, borrow or rent a house for a year or two, and there will always be a way.

03.

A failed gambler is that he doesn't have enough money.

The ancients cloud dog can't change eating shit, teaching can't teach, and there is no way to change the breed.

Xiao Mo has confessed for four months. When he went out to eat, he found all his friends playing gambling games. Registered members can get benefits by pulling people's heads. The more they go offline, the more money they have.

He knows that routines are the same as pyramid schemes, but he doesn't want to lose money in the currency circle and wants to earn back the decoration money in another place.

Nobody likes to gamble in it.

It is said that there are rules, and he has been looking for rules. Every gambler wins Zhuang's money, but it is never Zhuang who loses.

At one or two in the middle of the night, a person turned on the computer to play, and his wife and children fell asleep and began to make money for their wives. As a result, they lost more and more, and slowly lent him money, and he wanted to turn over the books.

He lost 300 thousand overnight.

I played until seven or eight o'clock the next day, and went to work as usual in order not to let my wife find anything unusual.

But it's really hard. If you want to go back to your books every day, it's good to go back to your books. It is difficult to gamble on debts, and I am in a daze at work.

Going home to talk is also lacking in confidence. The wife found out that he was wrong and kept asking. He Mo finally told her.

During this time, my wife has been depressed for a few days, and there is no life at home. His wife is also thinking about the future. Now that she has a child, should she follow a very anxious person in the future?

There are still forty or fifty years in the future. Can you get into debt again and suffer again until the children grow up?

In the end, the wife chose to divorce, sell the house to pay off the debts, and the rest will be used as alimony for the children.

It only takes a few hours to break up a family, not long, in a flash.

04.

Tired is not looking for a wife, but the inability to find a wife.

Many people go the wrong way, saying it's for family and friends. What they want most is themselves. They don't want to be too tired, too poor and looked down upon by others.

Blame your mistakes on others, and you will never get rid of poverty. Going the wrong way is not because you are young, but because you don't know yourself at all.

Being young is no excuse for making mistakes. Killing at the age of 65, 438+08 bears the same criminal law, not to mention a person in his twenties.

It is the modern young people who are too anxious to become Ma Yun overnight.

I agree with what Cao, an entrepreneur in his seventies, said in Ten Years and Twenty People.

He Mo and his wife will divorce, not because his wife doesn't want to bear it together, but because his anxiety can't give the children and his wife enough sense of security.

My wife has to worry about whether he will gamble again and whether he will collect money at home after gambling.

05.

Successful gamblers bet not on money, but on the times.

Every successful person is a successful gambler. They bet their wealth on the unknown territory of the times. They never speculate and will definitely control their own risks. They are just playing on the table. Losing is just pocket money.

A failed gambler only thinks about income and risk, but has no ability to control large sums of money. With money, he will only eat, drink and be merry, and finally fall from the peak to the bottom.

When you go gambling, think about whether you have anything to mortgage and whether you can start from scratch after mortgage.

Regardless of money or feelings, we will always be moths to the fire, always trying with a glimmer of hope, and regretting after trying.

Even if I were given another chance, I would still go the same way. Because I didn't know I would be so embarrassed now.

Many people will say that it is good to live in the present and be happy. It doesn't matter what you have done, what matters is to be happy now.

Actually, I don't think being happy now doesn't mean that I won't regret it later. Those who don't regret it are often very good in the future, and those who don't regret it will regret it.

Time will not go back, we must take every step in a down-to-earth manner.

May we find the right direction and stand firm in the era of chasing.

Last question: I want to ask, is it worthwhile to be happy now for the pain of the future?

I don't like to turn a blind eye to myself It is extremely irresponsible of me to ignore the future just for fun.

I don't know the future, but I must know that what I do now will have an impact on the future.

When choosing, consider the worst result. If you can accept it, do it If you can't accept it, think again.