"My fiance gave me the bride price on the bank card. My parents asked me to keep it for me. Should I give it? " Q: Xiaofeng loves her fiance very much, but she broke up with him before she got married. Now her fiance punched her at the bride price. She felt that she had done something wrong and asked her fiance to ask her parents for money. Xiaofeng is a straightforward and careless girl, so she thinks it is very bad for her fiance to do so. Xiaofeng said that it was not a big problem for her fiance to give the bride price to her parents, but she was not good enough for her fiance: "My fiance is a person who loves me very much, but I don't think he did it right. Don't his parents know what his relationship is with me? " She said she didn't know what to do. Facing Xiaofeng's problem, I want to say: we are not good parents!

Your parents are too strict with their daughter. If only your fiance could give you a house when you get married! Many people will have the idea of buying a house and a car after they get married, but there is a premise that this house was bought before marriage. If you didn't buy this house before marriage, then no matter how good the other party is to you, you may not be able to get married at this time! So it also means that your parents are not satisfied with the house you bought before marriage. This idea is completely wrong. What if you don't buy a house after marriage? And then the man's family will give you the cold shoulder. Although you two are husband and wife, there is no relationship between them. No one knows what the result is. If you live together after marriage, it means that there may be contradictions between two people because of their living conditions and their parents' relationship. Who will deal with this problem at this time?

Some parents' excessive demands will lead to their daughters' resistance to marriage. They feel rejected and lose confidence in their marriage. If you don't get a divorce, you will definitely be like you. If you don't get married, you will feel unloved. Parents' excessive demands are the biggest discrimination and harm to their daughters. Every marriage needs to run in to the end, but some parents demand their daughters by hook or by crook in order to protect their own interests. That's why she let you break up. She'll live with you until you get divorced. Therefore, when parents encounter problems in marriage, they must communicate with each other more to solve the problems, instead of solving them in an extreme way.

I have a friend who once fell in love with his cousin who was ten years younger than himself, and later broke up because of economic contradictions. So I often call Xiaofeng to comfort her, saying that Xiaofeng is too headstrong in front of her boyfriend. I will never help them with their financial problems just because they have any economic disputes. Now, if we break off the relationship because of this matter, who will help if two good friends have conflicts in the future? So should we be friends in the future?