At present, the vast majority of people at the bottom of society have not studied hard. Those successful people who seem to have failed in their hard work are actually one in a million. Their efforts are far beyond your imagination and your endurance. Han Han dropped out of school, not because he didn't want to study, but because he felt that school education didn't help him much, so he dropped out of school and chose a more suitable learning style. Although he doesn't study at school, he is more fierce than what we study at school.
If you are exposed to more examples like Han Han, you will find that successful people don't study hard. Most of them are learned at school, which you can see or find. A few are forms of self-study, which you can't see or find. But it is this part that can't be seen and found, which misleads many people and thinks that they are successful if they don't study. The fact is that when you are still wondering about the usefulness of reading, they may have just finished reading one book and opened another.
Many times, we only see the success of others, but ignore the learning behind them. This phenomenon is called "survivor bias" in psychology.
At the age when you should study, choosing to study hard is the proper meaning of your life stage.
Imagine, if we don't study, if there is no college entrance examination, what are our chances of successfully entering the middle class or even the upper class from the bottom of the society where we are now?
Although the college entrance examination is not the only way, it is the fairest way at present. The college entrance examination gives the general public the opportunity to swim from the lower level to the upper level by their own efforts. No matter who you are, what you look like and who your parents are, as long as your grades are reliable, you can always enter the corresponding colleges and universities, set foot on your own springboard, gain more knowledge, know more people and live a better life.
There is such a ready-made college entrance examination opportunity in front of us. Why don't you try your best to take a long detour?
There are always some children who think that they can live the life they want even if they don't study well and don't do well in the exam.
This cognitive bias gives some people the courage to give up their studies and the college entrance examination. They waved their self-righteous "paper swords" and chose to go back to school after being black and blue in society.
In 2006, Henan examinee Jiang Duoduo deliberately handed in a blank sheet of paper in the college entrance examination. Answer questions with a two-color pen and leave a lot of dissatisfaction on the test paper to boycott the college entrance examination. After the college entrance examination, she tried to go out to work, but because of her low education and lack of professional skills, the road to finding a job was extremely difficult and stressful, and she always felt sorry for her parents. Several times, I even had the idea of death. Later, after many twists and turns, Jiang Duoduo entered a technical school. Recalling the college entrance examination, she said frankly, "I feel a little ridiculous now."
In 2007, Liuyang examinee Chen deliberately did not answer questions in the college entrance examination and handed in blank papers directly. After the college entrance examination, I worked as a drug salesman, an insurance company salesman, a public welfare activity planner and a nightclub salesman. Every job didn't last long, and he changed jobs frequently. During the period, I also did some small businesses, all of which ended in losses, so I had to work in a hotel and drive someone to pay off my debts. Later, he became a truck driver to transport earth. Start work at 7: 00 in the morning and finish at night 10. I am on the road every day.
In 2008, Ji Jian, a candidate from Yunnan, deliberately scored zero. Because I was "idle and bored" when answering questions, I did some random questions, and the final total score was 168. I have been working in various places since the college entrance examination. Worked as a restaurant handyman, a construction worker, posted a poster for postgraduate entrance examination, and wrote a soft article to a cultural communication company; In life, he sleeps on a bench by the park and collects garbage for dinner in exchange for money. Ji Jian is actually a mathematical genius. Recalling the first few years of work and life, Ji Jian burst into tears and thought that he had no dignity and "lived like a dog".
In 2008, Anhui examinee Xu wrote down his complaints about the education system on the test paper and deliberately handed in a blank sheet of paper. His grades are very good, and his life after the college entrance examination is full of "fatigue" and "hard work". Every time he hears about his classmates' recent situation, he always feels that "one step is different, and the road is different", and sometimes he complains why no one helped him at the beginning. Last year, Xu also went to Weibo Hot Search because he wanted to take the college entrance examination again, and advised students from all over the country not to give up the college entrance examination.
Probabilistically speaking, the quality of academic performance does affect a person's life. Those children who can endure the hard work of study and stand out in the exam will suffer a lot less in life.
A person's poor study more reflects his poor comprehensive ability, such as his endurance, his will, his study habits, his ability to reflect and his ability to resist setbacks. Some people think that they are outstanding in other aspects, such as being good at business and having high emotional intelligence, and feel that they have great opportunities for future development. If you can't even study well and don't even do well in exams at school, what makes you think you can? Are those who study well and do well in exams worse than you? You have spent more than ten years studying, and your performance is very poor. What makes you think you can do it in other ways?
In the past, we naively thought that those who studied well were nerds who could do nothing but study. Only in society did I realize that I was really wrong.
The vast majority of students who studied well not only didn't stay, but also stood out in other aspects. They apply their learning ability to all aspects.
As we grow older, we find that we can't compete with others in our studies, and we are far behind in other aspects.
Some people say that reading is useless, but no parents want their children to study poorly, no matter how poor their children are at school. In everyone's mind, I still think that if you study hard, there will be no mistakes.
For some people, reading is not necessarily the best way, but for most children, it is!
Children who are not deeply involved in the world hope to work hard at the age when you should study most. College entrance examination, despite its shortcomings, is the most worthwhile investment and the fairest and most promising way for most children.
Searching for "aspiring rich second generation" on the Internet, you will find that many rich second generations not only have money at home, but also graduated from prestigious schools, and their face value is still very high.
The college entrance examination gives you the possibility of fighting for the second generation. As a child of most ordinary families, if you don't study and take exams, do you still have to compare quality and knowledge with others?
Ask yourself, if you don't study and take the college entrance examination, how many things do you have to spell?