Don't doubt the nature of marriage because of a quarrel, or even doubt each other's feelings, so that the perfect relationship is not left; You know, quarrel is to marriage what salt is to vegetables. Salt is needed in dishes-so is marriage.
The noisier the battle, the closer it is, the sweeter it is. It's not that enemies don't get together and fight until they are old. Of course, the amount should be controlled. Too salty or too light will destroy the taste of life. Secret recipe for my husband's quarrel:
Boiled intestines ★★★★★★★★★
This is a famous dish in Sichuan cuisine, which is famous for its spicy, stimulating and long aftertaste, from tongue irritation to stomach irritation. This is a heavyweight dish, not a matter of principle. Use it carefully!
Example:
Husband and his female secretary have dated alone for more than two times. Go out for more than two nights in January Serious mistakes such as secretly speculating in futures with your vacation or car money.
Analysis:
At this time, we will use this dish and "fry" it with thunderous momentum, regardless of the smell of smoke. All kinds of heavyweight complaints and accusations can be put down as material to let him know that your watery heart is as heartbroken as this cut large intestine at the moment. It's so hot that his tears and sweat are coming.
Operation taboo:
Temperature and ingredients should be well controlled, and put away when they are ready. The purpose is to let him know his mistakes, not to knock them over.
Fish bones from distiller's grains ★★★★★★★
This is a strange dish, which originated from a clever fisherman's housewife by the sea. This is a typical southern dish, to be precise, a typical Ning dish. Marinate the fish bones left over from the shredded fish noodles with distiller's grains, and knead the two kinds of "wastes" together to cultivate a delicious taste with a long aftertaste that men will never forget. When family life is facing the most embarrassing but unavoidable emotional crisis, it is necessary to offer this heart-strengthening dish to tighten men's bones and muscles so that they will not forget their roots.
Example:
A popular excuse for men is that their wives' legs are the same as their own, and they feel nothing, but being separated from their wives is like cutting off their own legs. When a man thinks of this excuse, it means that marriage is yellow. This is a dangerous excuse, indicating that men are beginning to feel other people's legs-just afraid of the majesty and attachment to their ex-wife, afraid to act, or ready to move.
Analysis:
Treat the long monotony of family life as a fishbone, treat the over-familiar numbness between husband and wife as a wine trough, knead the two together, turn "waste" into treasure with the wisdom of housewives, and make them into fishbone in distiller's grains with careful gentleness and unquestionable sovereignty-from snacks to pure home-cooked dishes, which restaurants can't eat and lovers won't cook for him. It is as natural as folding a white shirt for him every day, but it is so irreplaceable. Eat out his awakening, eat out his confession, eat out his sweating from the edge.
Operation taboo:
Hometown flavor is unforgettable, but we should distinguish between occasions. Although the side dishes are good, they can't entertain guests. Taking care of your husband is not to show your prestige. There is no need to embarrass him in front of others. This dish is to awaken his memory of love, not to force him to bow his head.
Treasure Cup ★★★★★
This dish is a trick played by housewives, which makes a simple dish very complicated and gives it a fancy name. To put it bluntly, this is chicken soup. Put half a rooster in a delicate casserole, put two small pieces of sweet corn, two authentic old taro, two old pumpkins and two mushrooms, simmer for an hour, and then put a piece of green vegetables on the table. God, nothing is more touching than this, like the tears of his wife's first love, which deeply moved men.
Example:
Men joked together that their wives were "yellow-faced women".
He began to think that you couldn't keep up with the situation and didn't understand fashion and beauty. He began to laugh at your taste in underwear, praise the clothes of other female colleagues and so on.
Analysis:
At this time, we will go to this gentle offensive treasure cup. Life can be dull, exquisite and interesting, depending on your efforts in business. When the husband begins to evaluate you like this, the wife must first reflect on herself. Instead of fighting with him, take care of yourself as carefully as this soup, such as going to the beauty salon for two days a month, remembering to watch all the new movies with LG and so on. These are just like taro and sweet corn in the dish. Rough housewives don't think it's necessary, but careful housewives know that with these, ordinary chicken soup immediately becomes radiant and delicate.
Operation taboo:
Too much is too late. The ingredients are a little more delicate, but don't put pepper or anything in the chicken soup. Emotional appeal must be in the field where you are good at it. It's important for him to see your efforts and pains, not to show off your sense of touch and grasp of fashion.