I believe that everyone who enters marriage will go for the rest of his life at the beginning. However, in the red dust of the years, some people walk hand in hand and grow old, while others drift away from each other. And every marriage without a happy ending probably has a good start. Some people say love is fragile. Can not stand the test of time and reality. Why, obviously two people who love each other, but look at each other differently in marriage? What defeated love, and what sustained marriage?

I'm divorced and a little sad. But more is liberation. We have been in love for 10 years, but we still lost to reality. I didn't cheat. I just don't love her anymore. She and I were classmates in high school. She is my goddess. I have been chasing her for a long time, so I have always cherished her. I have always spoiled her before and after marriage. I never said "no" to the bags and cosmetics she wanted to buy and the online celebrity shop she wanted to go to. I obeyed her even though she didn't want to go to work after giving birth. But the children have already gone to kindergarten, and everything at home is very expensive. My income has shrunk a lot because of the epidemic, and the pressure is really great. I advised her to go out and find a job, but she was in a hurry with me, saying that I promised to support her all my life and now I'm going back on my word. The point is, she doesn't work at home. My parents brought the children and I washed the dishes.

What scares me most is that because of my last birthday, I forgot to buy her a present when I was out socializing, and she spent the night with me. I work hard every day, but I can't calm down when I get home. I'm really tired. I don't want to live like this. We always say that glass is fragile, and my feelings easily break up. Too many marriage stories tell us that love is the most unreliable. Marriage formed by love will also die because of the breakdown of feelings. Although the previous feelings were true and the previous vows were serious, it was only with the gradual erosion of years that he had new requirements for marriage and new expectations for the other half. And you, however, have been staying where you are, without growth or change.

Marriage is realistic. He can spoil you all his life or take back his kindness to you. In the movie, I raise you, which is the most beautiful promise: but in real life, I raise you, which is the most poisonous love story. When you choose to rely on others and give up self-growth, you should be prepared to be eliminated at any time.

Yang Lanpu said: A woman is a daughter, sister, wife and mother, but most importantly, she is herself. No one can set her free without independence, and no one can make her complete without a complete self. The surest way to find happiness is to find yourself. But how many men in this world can really see your sacrifice and appreciate your contribution?

People with palms up are never free. Instead of relying on others to live, it is better to make money by yourself and gain confidence in life. A sense of security in marriage means that a woman is self-reliant, and once she relies on others, she has a soft spot. Xue Zhaofeng, an economist, once shared a view: Marriage means that both parties take out their own resources, run a family business together, and sign a life-long wholesale futures contract. Maybe everyone has different resources, different functions and different effects, but we must work together to achieve a win-win situation.

Marriage is the same as a company. You should have the core value in it and the ability to be needed by others. Otherwise, your happiness and your life can only be controlled by others. Don't think about changing your destiny by others and marriage, and don't cut off your wings and give up independence and self-growth after marriage.

Marriage is more about getting what you want. No one is willing to pay all the time, and no one can lie still forever. All efforts and dedication are based on mutual assistance. In marriage, if the two sides maintain a mutually complementary relationship, they may go further and last longer.

Marriage is the practice of two people, which requires two people to vibrate at the same frequency and two people to cooperate with Qi Xin. Sometimes, it is more likely that the marriage will become a stranger because two people have been running in front for a long time without waiting for the person behind.