Three years ago I would have asked: What should I do if I am 42 years old in the system, have no hope of promotion, am not used to hanging around, and feel depressed?

Today, three years later, I feel that there is not enough time every day. There is really no time to dawdle, and there is no time to suppress and sigh: I am too busy. Because:

1. The main business cannot be given up. So I still have to clock in to work every day, which takes up most of my time. Even if there is no hope of promotion, it is your fundamental. Unless you have the courage to start a new job, the new job may not be more suitable for you than this job.

2. Learn financial management: mainly learn about funds and new debt, because these two are low-risk and everyone can bear the risk. Stocks, futures, gold, currencies, etc. are not suitable for amateur players like us, unless you have too much money and no place to spend it, and want to pay tuition in various ways.

Last year’s fund income was very good.

For two new accounts (my husband and I), we can earn almost 6,000 to 7,000 yuan. It’s not much, but it’s money picking.

3. Reading: new technologies and trends in financial management, parenting, main business, time management, energy management, health management...

After reading to the end, I found that the so-called time management and Energy management is all imaginary: as long as you identify an ultimate goal, then break it down into small goals, and then in order to complete it, you will consciously make good use of your spare time.

Life is too short to travel all over the world, so let books take you to see all the beautiful scenery in the world and experience different lives!

4. Keep fit and stay healthy. The job I am engaged in is: when I am young, I use my health to make money, and when I am old, I use my money to buy my health.

When the body lights up the red light, we will know the importance of health.

Seven years ago, when I was preparing to conceive my second child, I was suddenly diagnosed with hyperthyroidism. The cause of this disease is basically: endocrine disorders caused by staying up late for a long time and being stressed. I needed to take medicine every day, and my weight skyrocketed by ten kilograms.

I felt very broken at first, but after seeing many cases of birth, old age, illness, death, and poverty due to illness (I can’t afford to get sick, the cost of treatment is like water, but now with the new rural cooperative medical system, I can reimburse part of it.), I Just comfort yourself and say: Reconcile it, at least it won't kill you, and it won't cost you too much money (a box of Sage every month costs 35 yuan).

As my mentality gradually changed, I gradually recovered from the disease and only needed to review my thyroid function every now and then.

From this incident, I deeply realized the importance of good health, so I started: exercising and controlling my diet (never overeating, and trying not to eat unhealthy foods). I used to have a fever every now and then, but now I rarely catch a cold every year.

5. Accompanying family members: 1. Parents are old and seldom see them once. Especially for those of us who work out of town, we spend very little time with our parents every year.

Don’t wait until “the child wants to be raised, but the child refuses to be cared for” and then regret it.

So, all the holidays every year are basically: either on the way home, or at home, or in the car returning... Thanks to the good policy of not charging highway tolls on important holidays, it saves a lot of highway fees fee.

2. Accompany your children. Dabao is already in sixth grade, and I feel like he is gradually moving away from me: he goes out to school at 7 a.m. every day, comes back at 9 p.m., and goes to bed at 10 p.m., and we only spend more than one hour together every day. Junior high school and high school students are busier with homework. When they enter college, they can only go home during holidays. Then they work, get married, and have children. If they go out of town, they have less time to see each other, so I spend as much time with my children as I can.

Calculate the time every day:

Work for 8 hours

Sleep for 8 hours

Have a half-hour lunch break

Eat three meals for 2 hours

Commute for 1 hour

Exercise for 1 hour

Read for half an hour

Manage money for 1 hour

Occasionally watch a TV series or watch a movie

The basic balance is insufficient...

Time flies by and time flies by. Life is fragile, and no one knows which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. So, don’t spend your time complaining about everything, and live every day seriously.