My boyfriend said that if she buys a house in full before marriage, she hopes that her name will not be added to the real estate license.
The girl agreed at that time, but she felt uncomfortable. She thought that her boyfriend loved her and would take the initiative to add her name to the real estate license. She also believes that their future marriage will not go wrong.
Unexpectedly, her boyfriend wouldn't add her name. She thinks she is too naive and naive. She also feels that her boyfriend doesn't love her enough and has reservations about her love. She is considering whether to stay with him.
Netizens have their own opinions, some say they want the real estate license and the woman's name, and some want the bride price when they get married, mostly because they are not confident about their other half, their feelings and their marriage. In fact, they are the most insecure about their choices. This unconfident marriage is immoral.
Some people think that if I were you, I would not hesitate to add my house to my wife's name before marriage and give it to her after separation. Money is a thing outside my body. Being too calculating shows that my soul is poor.
The public says that the public is right, and the old woman says that the old woman is right, but marriage is not reasonable. It involves people's hearts, humanity and marriage law.
There are also many couples who break up because of the house. Today, let's talk about the following three questions.
0 1: What kind of woman are men willing to pay for?
We often hear some girls say:
If you love me, you must buy me a birthday present.
If you love me, you will buy me a bag;
If you love me, you must add my name to the real estate license.
Girls generally have a set of theories: if you love me, you will be willing to spend money for me; If you don't want to spend money for me, you just don't love me They think it is natural for men to spend money on the woman they love.
Many problems in the world can be explained by psychology and economics.
What kind of women men are willing to pay and how much they are willing to pay are all marked with prices in their hearts, and there are many articles in them.
Before watching Ode to Joy, Xiaozong's mother was worried that Andy would lose his investment in Jiabao assets.
She threatened that your girlfriend could do such a thing. Does she still want to go into Bao's house? ?
In a word, Mr. Xiao tells the truth about the relationship between men and women.
He said:? The Bao family is nothing to Andy! ?
Anyone who has seen Ode to Joy knows that Andy is a senior business elite, an investment company executive and chief financial officer who came back from new york. She lives in a luxury house and drives a luxury car. She can find everything on her own and live a comfortable life.
Manager Xiao knows very well that Andy will take care of the money, so he is relieved.
The truth of male-female communication is that the more you have, the more men are willing to give it to you, and the less you have, the less men like you.
The more you have, the more afraid he is of losing you; You have nothing, he is not afraid of losing you at all, and naturally he is not willing to pay for you.
Just like borrowing money, the richer your assets are, both individuals and banks are willing to lend them to you; The more you have nothing, the less people will lend you money.
Xue Zhaofeng once said in Qi Yuanshuo:
Marriage is to run a business, sign a contract, run a family business and sign a lifelong wholesale futures contract.
Men and women come up with their own resource packages together, which have physique, looks, fertility, family relations and personal growth potential in the future. Everyone has different resources.
From an economic point of view, whether a man is willing to do a little bit and do some protection for his future marriage depends on how many resources a woman can provide.
Concise into a sentence: whether a man is willing to pay or not, and whether he is willing to add your name to the real estate license depends on whether you are worth it.
02: Self-protection is human nature.
Why do some men just don't want to add a woman's name to the real estate license, even if they promise to love you for life when they get married?
Because the most uncontrollable thing in the world is feelings, and the most unpredictable thing is people's hearts.
He loves you now, but he can't guarantee to love you forever; You love him now, and he is not sure that you have always loved him.
I loved you to death, and then I tore you to death. It's always on.
Jiang Sida once interviewed a divorce lawyer. She said that after seeing two people divorced, the man would ask the woman:? Divorce is fine. Give me back my diamond ring. ?
The woman said:? We also have a roll of toilet paper. Do you want to share it? ?
Regardless of each other before marriage, there is only hatred and disgust in divorce, which is manifested in material haggling and unwilling to let the other party take advantage, let alone half a house.
Care for yourself, are you willing to buy a house in full before marriage, and then give it to your husband unconditionally?
Presumably not, because you are also afraid of his betrayal and disloyalty. You are afraid of entrusting others, and you have lost your hard-earned property in vain.
It's better to cover your pockets now than to mess up your property when you divorce.
The reason why men don't want to add your name to the real estate license is because they don't want to give away their premarital property.
No one can guarantee that love will last forever, but one's own property can belong to oneself for a long time.
Marriage law does not protect love, but it can protect one's own property. It is human nature to protect oneself and protect one's property from infringement.