In our life, some people think that a person's wealth is free and everything is free, which is generally a "practical" personality; Gu Cheng, a famous poet, said: "People who are loyal to their hearts will never face choices." The meaning is obvious. This means that you can choose what you want. As long as you are loyal to your heart, you will not face choices. From the analysis of personality, people who do not jump out of the shackles of desire and follow their inner choices are generally romantic talents. Personally, I think that Gu said such things only from the perspective of a scholar to consider the issue of freedom. The reason is that his creation is not fabricated hypocrisy, but based on his inner real desire. This kind of creation is also catering to everyone's inner needs, so his words are very popular with everyone.
Someone in Zhihu replied, "The less things a person wants to control, the more free he is psychologically. When a person tries to control a thing, he is also controlled by it, and this process is always a mutual process. " People who can realize such brilliant ideas must have good personality characteristics. Before that, we must find out what the three views have to do with personality.
Personally, we all have different values, outlook on life and world outlook. Many people think that these three factors affect a person's personality characteristics, and it is appearance that shapes a person's personality. But from Freud's "ID, ego and superego", it is human personality that shapes a person's three views, because Freud believes that "a child will learn from his parents' behavior only after identifying with his parents, and then shape his own personality characteristics. "In psychology, personality traits are determined by genetic and environmental factors. So in private, everyone has three ideas, all based on personality. It is mainly because a person has a certain personality foundation that he will have three views.
Now that the problem of personality has been clarified, people who can link freedom with control have returned to the golden mean in ancient China, and belong to the harmonious personality among the nine personality types.
There is a shocking answer in Zhihu: "People who have no obsession are the most free." This sentence immediately reminds me of our ancient philosopher "Lao Zi" in China. Many people generally agree with this sentence. In fact, fundamentally speaking, this answer has the same meaning as using control to analyze, but it is answered in a more incisive language. The two answers have been recognized differently.
In fact, we can see people's deeper personality characteristics from here. The person who praised this answer and the person who wrote this sentence all have the same or similar personality characteristics. The answers to the above questions should all belong to the same or similar personality characteristics.
Finally, back to the topic itself, the person who pursues freedom. Many people don't understand that freedom itself is around. No persistence is freedom, but many people pursue freedom under the guise of freedom. So what are their personality characteristics? Psychologically, they don't know enough about freedom and unfriendliness. They just think that a person can realize the freedom of property or life, or spiritual freedom, which is the ultimate freedom of life.
When I was in college, I went to an outside educational institution. They say that we need to work hard to pursue the freedom and wealth of life. Later, I found out that this is not the pursuit of freedom, but the pursuit of success and struggle, the pursuit of what I want, whether it is money or fame and fortune.
I still remember when I was a teaching assistant in it, and I was lucky enough to know a very powerful teacher. He and his wife were long-distance lovers, and they finally got together after seven years. At that time, I thought he was really powerful and admirable, and I especially wanted to have this kind of power on him.
Looking back on this problem now, I finally understand why I was able to go in. The reason is not because I have no dream of pursuing freedom, but because I want to change the status quo. It happened that their propaganda satisfied my inner desire.
I finally understood what kind of person I was at that time. I didn't think about truth or falsehood, because I was anxious inside and my thinking brain was bound by the idea of changing immediately. This kind of personality characteristic is the typical most gullible personality characteristic. If it is in type nine personality, this personality characteristic combines a perfect personality and a practical personality. Because a person who pursues perfect personality characteristics, they find their own imperfections and immediately want to change this situation. The reason why we have practical personality characteristics is that in the process of pursuing perfection, we strive to change this situation and make some efforts for it.
Every one of us, whether pursuing freedom or success, is driven by a certain personality. Others recognize us not because of our looks, but because we have certain personality characteristics. Our personality traits drive us to accomplish one thing successfully. Because this thing is known, we have been recognized by many people. In fact, what others agree with is not that we can do it well, but that we agree with our own personality characteristics. If the same or similar thing happens again, our personality characteristics will make us do it in a certain way.
It's like a person with perfect personality. They don't like to let imperfect things happen in their lives.