No matter how old a person is, his career will always come first. It is said that he should get married. I think it should be the other way around. How can he get married without a career? Therefore, when his career is cleared, it is also a time when a man is disheartened. In any case, his previous success and glory have nothing to do with himself. Everything needs to start over. How much courage does it take to face all this? You can imagine how miserable it would be if not only his career but also his family were purged.
My former colleague is eight years older than me. When I just graduated and joined the company, he was my immediate superior, equivalent to the team leader. He is a very self-motivated person with excellent skills, but he just can't be promoted. I became the team leader, and I was transferred to other department heads. He is still the leader of the group ... I call him Lao Yao.
But Lao Yao also has his own ideas. He was unwilling to be ordinary and never worked all his life. So, when I resigned (20 13), he started his own company. Start-up funds are his savings from working and money borrowed from relatives and friends at home, totaling 654.38+0.5 million, and he started a small manufacturing workshop. I thought it was a familiar product. I have been in contact with it. I didn't expect to meet with difficulties at first. When all the staff are hired, I'm ready to start working. Unexpectedly, I happened to meet the scrutiny of the Environmental Protection Bureau. Our industry needs electroplating technology, and all the machines and equipment are in place. I didn't expect to start work too late. ...
The customer's orders were gradually withdrawn, and seeing that the first venture would be ruined, Lao Yao decided decisively to move the equipment to a small city in other provinces 500 kilometers away next door. He just revitalized his business and later became bigger and bigger. In the first half of 2020, two branches were opened. This year, he was 48 years old, ruddy and rich. He has paid off the money he borrowed from home, and the family is happy. His eldest son has gone abroad for further study.
The weather is unpredictable, and no one's life can be smooth. Do you think that if you have suffered enough in the front, you will be sweet in the back? Naive! As early as 20 18, Lao Yao's factory encountered an industry crisis, and its profits became less and less, so it paid attention to investment. What should he invest? The stock profit is not enough. He was tricked into speculating in futures crude oil products. As a result, he accidentally lost two factories and owed millions of debts. ...
Now that his wife is divorced and his house has been sold, he has found a small factory to earn money to pay off his debts. He earns more than 6000 yuan a month to support himself. He has been brilliant and successful, but he is close to knowing his own destiny, but he can't predict his own destiny. This is life!
Everyone wants to sort everything out and start all over again, but there is no way to accept the reality. If it's me, I just want to say one thing: ants are still greedy for life, and living well is more important than anything else! At least I've been successful and brilliant before. This is my valuable experience. This is my capital to make a comeback. I should make a short-term plan first, then a long-term plan, and then set sail in the second half of my life. Come on!
This is the case with my life now. I am 49 years old, female, divorced, with nothing and hundreds of thousands of debts. Life is not only zero, but also negative. I often tell myself that my life begins at the age of fifty. My life has reached its lowest point. I only have to make myself stronger and my inner world stronger. I told myself to find a job where I can control my diet and start first. Live first, then plan, so I give myself a one-year buffer period to start my life again at the age of 50.
At the age of fifty, life suddenly becomes clear. I'm really lonely, aren't I?
Career collapse, family changes and natural disasters can make people change back to their original shape overnight.
Fifty. Think about whether your brain is still awake and whether you have lost your inspiration. Stretch your body again and see if it allows you to toss it again.
As long as the only two things that can be used are still intact, it is a lucky thing. It means that God has opened another window for you.
With a smart brain and a strong body, you can start all over again.
At this moment, you need to calm down and think about the direction of life for the rest of your life. There is no dependence, no retreat, only progress.
Believe in yourself, as long as the faith does not fall, the dream is still there, and the spirit of not being afraid of difficulties and pain is still there. As the saying goes, ten years in Hedong, ten years in Hexi. Big deal, start over.
I'm 50 years old and I'm in know life. Although everything can be done all over again, I must do it and cherish it. I'm not afraid of the future and I don't regret the rest of my life.