Many people around me will say such a topic. In the world of adults, it is best not to talk about borrowing money. Yes, when it comes to borrowing money, many people can't even talk with friends, and some still have problems of one kind or another. So there is such a problem. Good friends borrow money from you. If you don't want to lend it to him, if you refuse, Bian Xiao will give you three tips.

First, tell him gently that he has no money.

What should I do? For example, if the other party borrows money from you through WeChat, you can tell him that he has no money. If you are married, then this question is easier to answer. You can tell him that all his wages and all his money are kept by his own object. He has no control over the money, and the object generally won't give him money. This reason can be said to be the best way, so that the other party will know, and you.

Second, just tell him you don't want to borrow it.

Although this statement is straightforward, it may lead to the disappearance of your friendship. However, you can see the principle of being a man and doing things from this incident, because the economic problem is actually a matter of principle, and it is difficult for everyone to make money. What will others do if you borrow money and don't pay it back? So it is also a good choice to tell each other so decisively.

Third, you can tell him through a third party that you don't want to borrow money.

This way is also better, because through the third party to convey your inner thoughts, you can avoid the embarrassment caused by directly telling the other party what you are thinking, thus directly avoiding conflicts. At the same time, the third party can also adjust euphemistically through some languages, tell the other party, and let the other party open their hearts. Don't think that people don't care about friendship unless they lend you money. There may be many reasons why two people don't borrow money.

These are Bian Xiao's three simple suggestions. Welcome to exchange and learn!