Friends love their families very much. They go home from work every day and finish all the housework at home. Mop the floor, sweep the yard, wash clothes and cook. Throughout the year, regardless of wind, frost, rain and snow, he always finishes the housework at home before going to work, and he is reluctant to let his wife do it. For decades, his wife's underwear and eating bowls have not been washed once, but all by my friends. But from the day of marriage, the wife colluded with her pre-marital lover, came home, blew her beard and glared at her, and found fault with her friends, who always swallowed their words. Later, with children, friends took on the burden of family life, not only taking care of everything at home, but also taking care of the food, clothing, housing and transportation of their wives and parents, and spent all their savings. My wife has deceived many men unscrupulously and laughed at my friend's stupidity behind his back. She also gave money from home to those lovers, bought clothes for their wives, paid tuition for their daughters, and mentally tortured my friends when she got home.
A friend actually loves his wife. Nearly 30 years. I didn't spend a penny to buy clothes for myself, but I wore national uniforms all day; But when buying clothes for his wife, he always buys the most expensive and fashionable, two sets and three sets at a time.
Friends are reluctant to eat fruit. Always buy the most seasonal fruit, the most expensive fruit, for his wife and children to eat. My wife is laughing at my friend cheating on a man behind his back.
For decades, my friend bought living expenses for my ex-wife's mother and father, clothes she wore, milk powder and eggs she drank every morning, including household appliances, and insisted on giving living expenses to the two old people every month for more than 20 years. In particular, her mother was ill for more than a year and spent more than 8 thousand before and after hospitalization. Every week, my friend gets a car and takes it to the hospital twice. What is even more ridiculous is that his brother and younger brother, as sons, have never spent a penny on his mother's medical care. Until then, my friend paid for the funeral and gave his father a coffin plate and a shroud. My friend paid for the fertilizer, seeds and machinery planted by her parents in autumn and winter, including her two nephews' schoolbags, and my friend gave them pocket money since childhood.
Finally, one day, my friend came home in the middle of the night and found his wife having an affair with another man at home. In a rage, he sued the people's court for divorce. But this woman fought back. Said my friend gave birth to a child outside, causing her trouble and planting it. Fortunately, the villagers have known her ugliness for many years, accused her, cursed her and abused her. She finally left the village with her tail between her legs.
Many people have told terrible stories about their own experiences. Let me tell them!
It should be 1998. I collected dozens of tons of rice, hired a car that was not too much at that time, and transported it from Jilin to Henan. At that time, rice could not be transported casually by individuals. I specially went to Changchun to get a transportation permit. At that time, my wife wouldn't let me open this certificate. I didn't listen to her because I asked, and there was no evidence that the rice would be confiscated.
The owner surnamed Zhao lives in Yingchengzi Town, Yitong County. He runs a grain and oil shop at home. The driver is a veteran who participated in the battle of Zhenbao Island. His driving skills are quite excellent. Another driver is looking for it temporarily. He drives a car in general and has a big temper.
We loaded the car and set off. There were no highways at that time. The next day we ran to the border of Hebei, and we ate by the roadside. We stopped a Dongfeng car, a salesperson of No.2 Automobile Factory, and he asked us where to go. How to get there? When he heard that we were going to Anyang, Henan via Guantao, Hebei, he warned us never to go that way, there were robbers there! He was robbed. Eight people were crowded on a green Beijing jeep, with machetes more than one meter long in their hands and guns hanging around their necks. Who dares to move? Master Zhao Ge, after listening, studied with us what to do. Four men and my wife decided to go to Guantao, which was much closer. Brother Zhao took out some iron bars from the toolbox of the car and asked one by one, dare you? We all say we dare to do it! What are three veterans afraid of? Fuck!
Dinner was at four o'clock in the afternoon, and we said goodbye to the right person of No.2 Automobile and left. After midnight, the car passed Guantao County, and I kept looking to the right from the window. After thirty miles in Guantao, I suddenly found a broken green Beijing jeep parked in an alley in a village. I immediately shouted and found the target. At that time, our car was driven by an old autobot at a speed of nearly 80 per hour. He kept the speed constant. I found it in the rearview mirror. The veteran almost threw the jeep into the ditch when the car came near and put out the fire. Soon he caught up again. This time, it is on the left. A woman in professional clothes opened the car door, holding a flashlight in her hand, shouting, the flashlight is shaking. The veteran hit the direction again and stopped the fire. The veteran changed his hips continuously in an instant, and the speed immediately increased to nearly 100 km. I ran for another 30 miles and saw the red light sign of the roadside public security bureau from a distance. I was really speechless at that time! After midnight, the veterans kept this speed and entered Handan City. Handan Industrial and Commercial Bureau is really dedicated. A jeep stopped us. What do you want? I didn't even get off the bus. Tell him, les! Do you have a transport certificate? Yes! Go without saying anything after reading it! The shopkeeper said at that time, Li Zi, this card you opened is valuable! I drove 30 tons. Actually, I pulled more than 50 tons in the car. If there is no proof, it will be confiscated. For a laid-off worker, it is ruined!
After so many years, this matter is really unforgettable and will never be forgotten! Thank you for helping my friend!
I met many noble people on the road of life, which made me walk safely step by step, and also met very bad people. There's no reason to be bad everywhere. I survived!
My story is very long. If you see this, thank you, my prince charming! You will be happy forever! Many friends say that my mouth is open! Give you the fish I drew!
Others are the abyss, never test human nature, and don't give yourself to another person, because you can't afford to lose.
A friend of mine, Xiao Kun, divorced his wife in 10 this year. The divorce process was bloody.
Xiao Kun's wife is the goddess who has been pursuing since Xiao Kun University. In the first year of chasing girls, everyone is not optimistic, because Xiao Kun will accept all the girls' gifts or invite them to dinner, and will not refuse at all, but will not promise Xiao Kun's confession. Friends say this is not a spare tire!
This kind of life lasted for three years, and it was not until they graduated from college that their relationship took a turn for the better. After graduating from college, Xiao Kun and the girl both went to Beijing. In less than a year, Xiao Kun's salary exceeded 10,000 yuan. The girl leads a miserable life in Beijing because she is afraid of suffering. The worst month is to borrow money from Xiao Kun to pay the rent.
On the Mid-Autumn Festival, she invited Xiao Kun to her home, but didn't let him go back in the evening. I have nothing to rely on in Beijing. Let's stay together. Xiao Kun was very happy in his heart. I didn't expect to persist for so long and finally get something.
This year, Xiao Kun finally saved enough down payment in his hometown and proposed to the girl, who agreed. However, after marriage, because Xiao Kun had to pay the mortgage and the living expenses of the girl, the economic pressure became great. This girl often quarrels with Xiao Kun, sometimes because of a coat that costs more than 1000 yuan, but Xiao Kun has hardly bought any new clothes since she was with her. In this way, she can't afford it soon.
At this time, Xiao Kun was pulled to start a business, because it would be faster to get money. Unexpectedly, this friend betrayed him and ran away with the money. Xiao Kun has lost all his savings and still owes his friend100000. To make matters worse, Xiao Kun's father was in hospital at this time, and the operation needed hundreds of thousands. Xiao Kun really can't get the money. The bride price for his wife before was 200,000 yuan, and Xiao Kun wanted his wife to take it out to save him first. At this time, his wife opposed him, saying that Xiao Kun had no conscience and her dowry had to be removed. Xiao Kun had no choice but to borrow it from a friend, which was considered as an operation for his father.
When Xiao Kun returned to Beijing from his hometown, his wife wanted to divorce him, and the divorce conditions were ridiculous. He asked for an equal share of Xiao Kun's property and the house still paying the mortgage. At that time, Xiao Kun's salary was only 300 yuan, and his salary had not been paid. Where did the money come from? That house, Xiao Kun's parents' names, has nothing to do with her. On the contrary, my wife has depended on him for her life in recent years, and her own money has not been touched. She should have saved hundreds of thousands by now.
No matter how much Xiao Kun begged, his wife divorced. His wife is worried that Xiao Kun will drag her down and worry about those debts. Seven years of love is not worth changing. In this accident, the wife played the role of the perpetrator from beginning to end, without even a word of comfort.
Xiao Kun's heart is dead. .......
The evil of human nature can often be clearly reflected from children.
1, a colleague of mine is going to have a second child, and Dabao has already entered primary school. The husband and wife at home were busy preparing for the second child to take care of Dabao, so they entrusted the task of taking care of Dabao's eating and studying to Dabao's aunt. My aunt usually tries to supervise Dabao's homework. As a result, she always urged Dabao to do his homework on the grounds of "too much management", which caused Dabao's dissatisfaction.
In retaliation for her aunt's strict discipline, Dabao deliberately mixed pencil scraps into her cosmetics such as cream and liquid foundation, making it impossible for her to use.
2. A friend's niece is usually a bully at home. Why don't she cry and make a scene with her? It's really annoying. Many friends are afraid to go to his house to play and eat at the same table with Xiong Haizi. When the little girl eats, all her favorite foods are served to her, and then no one is allowed to touch her dishes. Whoever eats with her at the same table basically doesn't eat, and all the good dishes are occupied by her alone. Even if she can't finish eating, no one else is allowed to eat.
Another time, when their family went out to take a bus and there were no seats in the bus, she spat at the person sitting in the seat and forced others to give her a seat.
In the past two years, many people may still remember Xiong Haizi's hot pot splashing incident.
In a hot pot restaurant, two girls are chatting while eating hot pot. A Xiong Haizi ran to get the girl's cell phone on the desk, but the girl certainly wouldn't get it for him. So Xiong Haizi complained to his parents that his parents wouldn't give him a mobile phone. Parents don't care or tell him, don't take other people's things casually, just let him go. Then Xiong Haizi got bold and ran to the girls' table and spat at their hot pot. Parents still ignore teaching. The girls had to ask the store to change a pot. As a result, Xiong Haizi grabbed the pot and spilled hot soup on the girl's face. As a result, one of the girls was severely burned and disfigured.
The ancients said, don't do it with small goodness, don't do it with small evil. The evil of human nature is accumulated little by little, and the most guilty people are not born like this. They all started from small things, and they didn't get the punishment and punishment they deserved for doing bad things, so they became more and more lawless and eventually killed and set fires, which was out of control.
Don't think that it doesn't matter if the child is young and doesn't understand. It is because the child is young that parents need to teach him what is right and what is wrong. Adults and children should be equal, and children should not be allowed to do evil just because they are still young. Do a little evil now, and you will do a big evil later. No matter what you teach at home, you will be punished by society and law in the future. At that time, it was not a question of scolding or spanking.
Let me tell you a true story that happened in my hometown, Gushi County, Henan Province. It happened about twenty years ago. Two young people fell in love. The man is playing while the woman is pregnant. Twenty years ago, it was still a shame to get pregnant before marriage, and the woman was getting married. The man moved his heart, tricked the woman to her hometown in the country, and entangled her with a fishing net after her death. She also wrapped in mud and threw it into a dry well. The woman disappeared and her family searched for nothing. I suspect a man, too, but there is no evidence. About half a month later, with the so-called "justice is restored", several farmers are working in the fields. When they found a rabbit, they chased it until it disappeared on the edge of a dry well. When they saw it in the well, they called the police. The man saw the story and ran like this for more than 20 years, and there was no news. It is of no help that the Public Security Bureau exists in name only. Unexpectedly, a few years ago, inspired by the Baiyin case in Gansu, the state collected family DNA all over the country. As a result, a little girl from Sichuan registered her household registration, and her DNA showed that she was very close to her husband's family. Sure enough, she was looking for the little girl's grandfather.
Behind every cheating man, there is an understanding wife.
Anonymous suddenly came to me and asked me: My cheating husband wants to end his mistress. Should he give that woman 300 thousand? I was shocked at that time. That was the first time I found such a poor wife. The woman said that it was not until last year that she knew that her husband and mistress had a good relationship. Recently, her husband confessed to him and begged her to forgive him, saying that he cheated because his wife was not gentle and virtuous enough, and he had the impulse to find a mistress in a fit of pique.
-Married men only love themselves and their interests-
That woman kept telling me that she couldn't be a wife and didn't take good care of her husband. Now she has made up with her husband, who thinks that she has lost money to San Xiao, and says that she will take out 300,000 yuan from their savings to go to San Xiao, so it's settled. Are you willing to give Xiaosan 300,000? That is your family's money. The woman said: of course, I can't bear to part with it, and my heart is blocked. The money at home is mainly because the husband earns more money and the son is only 5 years old. I want to have a good life with my husband.
We have known each other 10 for many years, and I don't want a divorce. Now that you have decided to ask me why, I'd like to hear a different opinion. If I were you, I would definitely find a lawyer, sue my husband for extramarital affairs and divorce, ask my husband's mistress to compensate me for mental damages, and leave the children to my husband to maximize my own interests. That mistress existed before they got married Before that, she had an abortion with her husband. Finally, her husband gave her 654.38+10,000 yuan to settle the matter. Later they got married, and her husband didn't know when he was with her again.
That mistress also said that he just loves my husband, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't have a birthright with him. My husband was moved to be with mistress again. I'm the last one to know, and this time Xiaosan is pregnant again! I don't know what to do. My husband is an indecisive man. He doesn't know what to do in this situation. He kept apologizing to me. He wants this home. That mistress somehow fell in love with my husband, and what my husband did to her was also very wicked.
Do you know that your man only loves his own interests and desires? You gave him a son, and he is not in the mood for other children. He won't go home now, he just doesn't want that mistress. Divorce is a bone-breaking thing for men, not to mention that mistress has no money yet, so what can she do if she doesn't take it away!
A woman willing to be a mistress is not willing to be herself. She's bent on taking your place, even if it's a junior four. Your husband is an irresponsible love rat, and you are fooled by his indecision. You think you really forgave your husband, but you dare not divorce.
The tragedy of women not divorcing.
Many women don't divorce, which makes men in marriage have nothing to fear. A woman who forgives her husband for cheating will forgive her husband for anything he does to herself in the future. There are many women in our life who always stubbornly believe that he is the only one who bullies me, as if I am divorced and the whole world bullies me. The world is as hostile to divorced women as it is to single women. I always feel that women are discounted goods, regardless of futures or spot, as long as there is no man, it will be broken.
There are still many women who are hostile, single or divorced, so that many women in marriage dare not divorce. If they feel divorced, they can't find a man. Might as well make do with the man they cheated on. He still won't divorce me after the affair. It's true love for me.
Men who cheat don't divorce their wives because their houses and cars have half their wives' names, and all kinds of property are in their hands. He is in financial difficulties, and of course he will not divorce easily. Men who cheat know exactly what marriage is like, so let it go. He can say anything as long as his wife forgives him for cheating. Many women forgive men who cheat, because children can't live without their fathers when they are young.
-Why are cheating men fearless-
Why do many married men have fun and pick up girls whether they cheat or not? They don't even allow women and their wives to dare to divorce themselves. After divorce, some men will want them. There are many women who belittle their age and social status, thinking that if they leave love rat in their thirties and forties, they will not find true love and love from men, and her life will be over.
Divorce is not the end of the world, but it saves women's loneliness and despair in marriage. But many women don't want to go out of this step, preferring to make concessions step by step in their marriage, and finally let love rat push his luck. Women have no bottom line and principles in marriage, and the final result is that they are controlled by men's spirit and further hypnotize themselves, thinking that it is all their own fault and making marriage impossible. Those men who are good at hypnotizing women in marriage and those who are good at developing their own cheating crimes are not good themselves.
There is nothing to hide behind love rat, there must be a weak and tolerant wife. Even if some men don't cheat, they are cold and violent to their wives at home and educate their wives in front of their sons, such men themselves have personality problems. What he wants is not only the sense of control of the head of the family, but also the right to bully his wife. A man can't respect his wife and children in marriage, and such men and women are also looking for trouble for themselves.
-Divorce is a relief for women-
Married women's endurance and endurance for marriage are extraordinary. Too many married women live at home as orphans and widows, and still die without divorce. They are so insecure. They always think that men can make do with bad goods without good ones. At least they are the child's biological father. Just because women think that men don't have good goods, they don't believe that men have countless women with unhappy marriages. They either cheat or remain depressed until they are not satisfied. The so-called original wife can't stand the days of growing old with men. I really don't know what will happen in the end.
Once a woman gets married, she puts herself in a very low position in marriage. In the end, this woman can only let herself despair step by step in marriage, and finally die of dissatisfaction with marriage and complaints about men. And these women always complain to others, hoping to gain men's love and sympathy with their sacrificed kindness.
Men have always been soft-hearted. They know how to use their own advantages, gain women's trust with their own routines, try their best to impress women, follow them wholeheartedly and have fun by themselves. A man certainly needs a virtuous, polite and caring wife. All they want is this kind of woman's obedience and obedience.
Why are there so many love rat, which are used by good wives in marriage? Married women don't take their personal dignity seriously, and men don't take you seriously. Anyway, you are a married woman, and your value has depreciated. You think you still have room to move. Marriage will be happy when women regard themselves as devalued married women. A woman who despises her age and status value will only be used and controlled by others in the end.